Ntshai Hloov

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Coob leej ntshai hloov pauv - metathesiophobia, qee zaum tseem hu ua neophobia, uas yog, kev ntshai ntawm qhov tshiab. Peb xis nyob hauv qhov chaw ib puag ncig zoo, niaj hnub ua thiab paub yam; Peb ntsib kev hloov pauv hauv peb cheeb tsam kev nplij siab nrog kev ua xyem xyav, ua xyem xyav thiab ntshai.

Tsis muaj leej twg paub tseeb tias hloov dab tsi thiab koj tau txais koj tus kheej li cas. Vim li cas txhua yam tsis tuaj yeem zoo li nws yog? Qhov teeb meem yog lub ntiaj teb tau teeb tsa zoo li no, nws hloov pauv tas li. Nws tsis tuaj yeem nres - uas yog vim li cas koj yuav tsum kawm paub daws thiab kov yeej koj qhov kev ntshai hloov pauv. Tsis txhob ua yuam kev kaw vim ntshai hloov pauv. Hauv kab lus no, Kuv yuav qhia koj qhov chaw ntshai tsam hloov pauv thiab koj tuaj yeem ua dab tsi txhawm rau tiv nrog kev hloov pauv tau zoo dua …

Vim li cas: Qhov kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv los qhov twg los?

Nws yuav tsum tuaj raws li tsis muaj qhov xav tsis thoob rau leej twg tias ntau qhov kev hloov pauv tshwm sim thoob plaws lub neej. Tom qab qib kawm ntawv peb mus kawm ntawv, tom qab ntawd mus rau tsev kawm qib siab, uas feem ntau tshwm sim hauv lwm lub nroog, hauv ib puag ncig tshiab, phooj ywg tshiab. Qhov no tseem txuas ntxiv hauv kev ua haujlwm thiab tus kheej lub neej, ib txwm muaj qhov hloov pauv uas hloov pauv tsis tau. Txawm li cas los xij, ntau tus pom lawv tus kheej tsis tau npaj ua ntej, tawm tsam, thiab ntshai hloov pauv.

Tab sis vim li cas? Qhov tseeb, muaj ntau qhov laj thawj ua rau ntshai hloov pauv:

Kev phem

Ib qho laj thawj yog qhov ua tsis zoo yav dhau los. Txhua tus neeg uas tau ntsib dua qhov kev hloov pauv uas tom qab ntawd dhau los ua fiasco tsis xav ntsib qee yam zoo li no dua. Ib qho kev paub tsis zoo ib txwm muaj ntau txaus los ua kom muaj kev ntshai hloov pauv. Nyob rau yav tom ntej, txhua qhov kev hloov pauv tshiab yuav tsum ua yuam kev ib yam.

Tsis ntseeg tus kheej

Kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv feem ntau tshwm sim los ntawm kev tsis ntseeg tus kheej. Lawv ntshai tsis hloov kho qhov xwm txheej tshiab. Peb tsis ntshai qhov kev hloov pauv lawv tus kheej. Kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv tshwm sim los ntawm qhov tsis muaj kev ntseeg siab hauv lub peev xwm los daws qhov kev hloov pauv.

Poob ntawm kev tswj

Kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv kuj tuaj yeem tshwm sim los ntawm kev ntshai poob kev tswj hwm. Koj yeej tsis tuaj yeem qhia ua ntej tias yuav hloov pauv li cas, thiab tseem tias nws yuav mus raws li phiaj xwm. Kev xav tias tsis tuaj yeem tswj tau cov no ua rau muaj kev ntshai hloov pauv.

Kev puas siab puas ntsws ntawm kev hloov pauv

Cov kev hloov pauv yav tom ntej muab kev pom rau tib neeg kev xav. Nws yuav ua li cas? Nws ua li cas txog qhov teeb meem? Ntshai hloov lossis zoo siab? Txawm li cas los xij, koj yuav tsum coj mus rau hauv tus account qhov xwm txheej - kev hloov pauv tau muab faib ua ob hom:

Yeem yeem hloov

Thawj qeb yeej ib txwm nyiam dua. Txhua qhov kev hloov pauv ntawm no yog tus kheej-pib, nws tau ua los ntawm nws tus kheej txoj haujlwm thiab, raws li, nrog qib siab ntawm kev txhawb siab. Peb xav tau kev hloov pauv thiab peb tab tom ua txhua yam peb tuaj yeem ua tau. Tuaj yeem hloov pauv raws li qhov xav tau, piv txwv li, yog tias koj txoj haujlwm tsis txaus siab lawm, koj thov rau kev tawm haujlwm thiab rov ua haujlwm, lossis yog koj yeem tawm ntawm koj txoj kev kawm ntxov mus ua kom tiav kev xyaum ua haujlwm. Txawm hais tias nws yog koj qhov kev xav, koj qhov kev txiav txim siab, lossis koj qhov kev hloov pauv yog qhov txiaj ntsig zoo rau kev xav ntawm lub siab tom qab nws; nws tsis txhais tau tias tsis muaj kev ntshai hloov pauv yog tias nws tau yeem ua. Tab sis nws yuav yooj yim dua rau koj lees txais kev hloov pauv thiab nws yuav yooj yim dua kov yeej kev ntshai, vim koj twb tau txiav txim siab rau koj tus kheej.

Kev hloov pauv yam tsis yeem yeem

Qhov no nyuaj dua. Daim ntawv cog lus ua haujlwm tas sijhawm tas sijhawm thiab nws yuav tsis txuas ntxiv, txawm tias koj xav nyob nrog lub tuam txhab, koj tus tswv ntiav haujlwm yuav foob rau kev poob nyiaj thiab koj yuav tsum hloov pauv txoj haujlwm. Cov kauj ruam tsis xav tau no ua rau muaj kev ntshai hloov pauv thiab, thaum xub thawj, kom tsis lees paub. Txoj hauv kev yog qhov nyuaj rau pom, dhau qhov kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv, kev tsim kho tshiab yog zoo li lub nra. Qhov kev hloov pauv no feem ntau mus txog tsib theem ua tiav:

1. Thaum xub thawj, qhov kev hloov pauv tau raug tso tseg thiab nws qhov kev xav tau raug tsis quav ntsej. Nws ua txuj tias txhua yam yuav nyob li ntawd.
2. Muaj kev tawm tsam, ntshai hloov pauv. Txhua yam tau ua tiav los tiv thaiv kev hloov pauv yav tom ntej.
3. Paub txog tias kev tiv thaiv yuav tsis pab, hauv qab ntawm qhov teeb meem yuav los. Txhua yam tab tom raug nug, thiab kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog.
4. Txij lub sijhawm no, txhua yam tau kho. Cov hauv kev tshiab tau raug tshawb fawb thiab ua tiav ib qib zuj zus.
5. Thaum kawg, peb paub tias, hmoov zoo, txhua yam tsis zoo li peb ntshai, thiab peb lees txais qhov xwm txheej tshiab. Kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv kuj tseem ploj zuj zus lossis ploj mus tas li.

Qhov no yog vim li cas koj yuav tsum kov yeej koj qhov kev ntshai hloov pauv

Tus yuam sij rau kev vam meej hauv kev hloov pauv: nws tsis tas yuav yog kauj ruam loj heev uas yuav hloov txhua yam ib zaug thiab tig koj lub neej dhau los. Qhov no feem ntau yog qhov tsim nyog thiab zam tsis tau tsuas yog thaum lub sijhawm raug. Ntshai hloov pauv, koj tau tos ntev heev uas nws yuav nyuaj dua. Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los kov yeej koj qhov kev ntshai hloov pauv thaum ntxov. Tom qab ntawd txawm tias kev kho me me tuaj yeem muaj qhov xav tau. Muaj peb yam laj thawj zoo los kov yeej koj qhov kev ntshai hloov pauv sai dua tom qab:

Koj daws teeb meem ua ntej lawv ua phem

Tau kawg, tos thaum pib yog txoj hauv kev yooj yim dua. Koj cia siab tias txhua yam yuav ploj mus ntawm nws tus kheej thiab cov teeb meem yuav ploj mus sai li sai tau. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua haujlwm hauv qee kis, tab sis nws tsis yog lub tswv yim cog lus. Feem ntau, txhawm rau qee yam los txhim kho tiag tiag, koj yuav tsum ua qee yam ntawm koj tus kheej.

Yog tias koj tau ua dhau los, koj muaj qhov zoo dua. Txawm hais tias muaj kev cia siab tsis sib xws, teeb meem muaj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo ntawm kev nce zuj zus. Yooj yim tso: tom qab koj pib hloov pauv qhov tsim nyog, qhov nyuaj dua nws yuav yog los kho qhov kev puas tsuaj uas twb tau ua lawm.

Koj tawm qhov kev xaiv qhib

Tsis yog txhua lub qhov rai uas qhib tseem qhib. Feem ntau ntawm koj cov kev xaiv raug txwv rau lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb - thiab thaum koj dhau lawv, tsis muaj tig rov qab. Ua kom tiav qhov kev ua tiav zaum kawg tom ntej uas koj tau ntsib nrog kev xaiv khaws cov khoom raws li lawv yog.

Nws tseem muab sijhawm rau koj kom siv lub tswv yim thiab txiav txim siab hloov pauv. Koj tsis (tseem) yuav tsum tau ua tam sim ntawd, thiab koj tuaj yeem ua tib zoo saib ntawm lwm txoj hauv kev thiab taug txoj kev uas cog lus tias yuav ua tiav zoo tshaj plaws.

Koj tab tom txhim kho tas li

Ib qho tseem ceeb tab sis hmoov tsis zoo feem ntau tsis pom kev yog qhov kev txhim kho tsis yog ib qho tshwm sim ib zaug, tab sis yog txheej txheem txuas ntxiv thiab txuas ntxiv mus. Nws tsis yog hais txog kev hloov pauv kom txog thaum cov txheej txheem yav dhau los tsis ua haujlwm. Kev ua tiav yog ua tiav los ntawm cov neeg uas ua haujlwm ncaj ncees thiab txiav txim siab hloov pauv tau, txawm tias lawv tsis xav tau.

Qhov no tuaj yeem pom ntau thiab ntau dua, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog hauv cov ntsiab lus lag luam. Cov tuam txhab ua tiav tsis txhob tos kom txog thaum lawv cov qauv kev lag luam mus txog qhov kawg, cov lej muag poob qis, lossis cov neeg siv khoom hloov mus rau kev sib tw. Hloov chaw, lawv nyob hauv cov txheej txheem hloov pauv thiab txhim kho tas li.

Yuav ua li cas nrog kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv

Cov lus nug tseem nyob: koj tuaj yeem ua dab tsi los tiv nrog koj qhov kev ntshai hloov pauv? Nws yog qhov pom tseeb tias qhov no yuav tsis yooj yim, vim tias kev kov yeej kev ntshai yuav tsum tau ua siab ntev, qhuab qhia thiab ua haujlwm ntau. Cov lus qhia hauv qab no tuaj yeem pab koj ntsib thiab tswj koj qhov kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv:

1. Tuav koj txoj kev ntshai. Tsis muaj qhov taw tes rau qhov tsis quav ntsej koj qhov kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv, txo qis nws, lossis ua piv txwv tias nws tsis muaj. Txhawm rau kov yeej kev ntshai, koj yuav tsum ntsib nws. Hauv thawj theem, qhov no suav nrog lees txais lawv thiab lees paub lawv rau tus kheej.
2. Tham txog nws. Tham txog nws tuaj yeem pab koj daws tau zoo dua nrog koj qhov kev ntshai hloov pauv. Ntseeg tus khub lossis phooj ywg zoo. Piav qhia dab tsi ua rau koj ntshai thiab koj ntshai dab tsi txog qhov hloov pauv yuav los tom ntej. Qhov kev sib tham no muab qhov kev xav sib txawv thiab pab tiv thaiv kev ntshai hloov pauv vim tias koj tau txais kev txhawb nqa thiab txhawb nqa.
3. Ceev faj txog qhov xwm txheej phem tshaj plaws. Kev ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv feem ntau txhais tau tias kev ntshai ntawm qhov ua phem tshaj thiab qhov tshwm sim. Yuav ua li cas yog tias tej yam tsis raug? Xav txog nws kom paub tseeb tias txawm tias qhov xwm txheej phem tshaj plaws feem ntau tsis phem npaum li cas. Paub txog dab tsi tuaj yeem tshwm sim hauv qhov xwm txheej phem tshaj plaws ua rau koj muaj kev ntseeg siab ntau.
4. Saib mus rau yav tom ntej nrog kev cia siab. Nws tseem yog qhov tseem ceeb kom muaj kev xav zoo: Txhua tus neeg uas xav los ntawm qhov pib tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem lis kev hloov tsuas yog txhawb lawv txoj kev ntshai. Hloov chaw, ntseeg koj tus kheej, txhawb koj tus kheej, thiab lees paub koj lub zog. Kev cia siab rau yog ib qho tshuaj zoo heev rau kev ntshai hloov pauv.
5. Ua cov kauj ruam me me. Ntshai hloov pauv yuav yooj yim dua yog tias koj ua cov kauj ruam me me ua ntej. Yog ua tau, koj tsis tas yuav hloov txhua yam ib zaug. Nws yooj yim dua nrog kev kho me me thiab tau siv rau qhov xwm txheej tshiab. Txoj hauv kev no koj tseem yuav kawm tau tias tsis muaj laj thawj txaus ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv thiab zaum tom ntej koj yuav tsum ua ntau ntxiv.

Ntshai ntawm kev hloov pauv: quotes

Tib neeg ib txwm muaj kev cuam tshuam nrog kev hloov pauv. Ntau tus neeg nto moo tau hais tawm lawv cov kev xav txog kev hloov pauv. Nov yog qee cov lus hais thiab lus hais rau koj kom xav txog, txhawb nqa, thiab cia siab tias yuav coj mus rau lub neej:

Kuv tsis paub tias nws zoo dua yog qhov hloov pauv no. Tab sis txhawm rau kom tau zoo dua, txhua yam yuav tsum sib txawv

Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

Peb yuav tsum thov Vajtswv rau txuj ci tseem ceeb, ua haujlwm rau kev hloov pauv.

Thomas Aquinas

Yog tias koj tsis xav hloov dab tsi, koj yuav plam yam koj xav khaws.

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Yuav tsum muaj kev hloov pauv, xws li rov ua nplooj rau lub caij nplooj ntoo hlav.

Vincent van gogh

Ua qhov kev hloov pauv uas koj xav tau rau lub ntiaj teb.

Mahatma Gandhi

Tsuas yog cov neeg ruam tshaj plaws thiab txawj ntse tsis tuaj yeem hloov pauv.

Confucius

Txhua tus neeg uas xav kom muaj kev zoo siab ntev yuav tsum hloov pauv ntau zaus.

Confucius

Lub neej yog tus muaj txoj sia, thiab txhua tus neeg uas nyob nrog yuav tsum tau npaj rau kev hloov pauv.

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Tus uas ua dab tsi nws twb tau ua tas los tseem yog tus uas nws twb yog lawm.

Henry Ford

Thaum cua hloov pauv, qee qhov tsim phab ntsa thiab lwm tus tsim cua tshuab cua.

Suav paj lug

Tsuas yog cov uas hloov pauv qhov tseeb rau lawv tus kheej.

Hma Biermann

Qhov zais cia hloov pauv yog tsom mus rau tag nrho koj lub zog ntawm kev tsim yam tshiab, tsis tawm tsam cov qub.

Socrates