Yuav Tsum Tus Me Nyuam Npau Taws Thiab Txaj Muag

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Sau: Olga Neeb

Thaum tus menyuam yaus yug los, nws, qhov tseeb, tuaj yeem tswj tau cov leeg ntawm lub ntsej muag thiab caj dab, tom qab me ntsis - caj npab, tom qab ntawd txhais ceg thiab nraub qaum, maj mam nws muaj peev xwm tuav tau qee yam, tig rov qab, nce mus. tag nrho plaub tus, nkag mus, taug kev, los ntawm lub xyoo nws paub qhov chaw, los ntawm hnub nyoog ob xyoos nws kawm paub tswj hwm kev ua haujlwm ntawm kev tso tawm, los ntawm 3-4 nws maj mam hnov lub sijhawm, los ntawm 4 nws kawm paub dag (dheev paub txog kev sib cais ntawm kev muaj tiag los ua qhov tseeb thiab qhov tseeb), los ntawm 5-6 kev hlub, los ntawm 6-7 nws dhau los ua kev xav hauv tus kheej, thiab ntxiv mus ntxiv (hnub nyoog piv txwv, tej zaum yuav tsis raug).

Rov qab los nrog cov lus nug: "los ntawm kev tso cai rau tus menyuam kom npau taws thiab txaj muag, koj txhawb kom lub siab tsis ncaj, thiab yav tom ntej tus neeg yuav kawm paub daws qhov kev tsis txaus siab hauv kev npau taws."

Daim duab: tus menyuam muaj ib xyoos. Ib leej niam tus menyuam twb tau mus rau hauv lub laujkaub lawm, nws tau koom tes nrog qhov no. Thiab koj tsis tau ua, koj txhawb kom nws tso quav hauv koj daim pawj thiab koj yuav tsum tau ntxuav tom qab nws. Txoj kev pheej hmoo uas koj tus menyuam yuav loj hlob los ua tus neeg muaj ntawv tso cai, ua phem rau txhua lub ces kaum yog dab tsi?

Daim duab: tus menyuam muaj 2 xyoos. Thiab ntawm no ntawm tus neeg nyob ze tus ntxhais twb hais ua kab lus, thiab koj tsuas yog "boo" thiab "eider". Thiab koj tsis ua haujlwm nrog nws raws li Doman daim npav, koj txhawb nws "boo" thiab "gaga" los ntawm qhov tseeb tias koj nkag siab nws zoo, tsis tas yuam kom nws sau nws tus kheej thiab "hais kom raug." Dab tsi yog qhov pheej hmoo ntawm koj tus menyuam tsis hais lus?

Daim duab: tus menyuam muaj 3 xyoos. Nws ntog rau hauv pem teb, ncaws thiab xav tau. Lwm tus niam twb tau ntaus nws thiab nws nyob ntsiag to, thiab koj tau qw, thiab koj txhawb kom txhua txoj hauv kev koj tsis rau txim rau nws rau qhov tsis paub tab.

Vim li cas, qhov xwm txheej no, puas muaj kev ntshai tias nws yuav loj hlob thiab ncaws nws ob txhais ceg ntawm 20?

Vim li cas cov kev cai lij choj no, cov kev cai lij choj ntawm kev kawm uas peb ntseeg, paub tias koj tsis tuaj yeem siv koj tus kheej li tes, tias thaum 6 lub hlis nws tsis tswj hwm, tias peb yuav tsis pub nws los ntawm rab diav, nqa nws ntawm tes thiab so nws lub nroog Yeiuxalees ib txhis, tsis ntev los sis tom qab nws yuav kawm taug kev, tham lus, plait nws braids thiab haus luam yeeb hauv txoj kev taug - vim li cas qhov kev ntseeg no tsis kam nyob ntawm no?

Nov yog thawj zaug.

Qhov thib ob: peb tus kheej ntshai.

Peb yog los ntawm tiam neeg hlau felixes. Nco ntsoov cov lus hais los ntawm Thomas Crown Affair? "Thaum kuv tus poj niam tawm mus, kuv ntaus ob tus neeg raug txim, qaug cawv, sib cav, tsoo lub tsheb - feem ntau, kuv nyob zoo." Peb yog los ntawm ib tiam uas qhov kev qhia ntawm kev xav tsis zoo tsis tuaj yeem lees txais. Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj keeb kwm rau qhov no, thiab tam sim no lawv tsis tseem ceeb. Peb ntshai heev uas peb yuav tsa cov menyuam yaus, thaum lawv xav tias tsis zoo, tam sim ntawd tsis ກ້າ qhia nws, thiab hais, thiab ua nrov nrov! Vim tias qhov kev xav tsis zoo yuav tshwm sim, Txhua tus neeg yuav pom qhov tsis zoo nws yog rau lawv, ob qho tag nrho thiab tom qab ntawd …. Thiab yog dab tsi? Lawv yuav raug txiav txim siab ua rau cov menyuam tsis muaj zog, thiab peb - cov niam txiv phem. Thiab qhov phem tshaj yog qhov no yog qhov peb tus kheej yuav xav. Peb yuav tshee tshee nrog txoj kev xav ntawm kev ua kom khaus thiab ua txhaum. Yog li ntawd, thaum lawv xav tias tsis zoo, lawv tsis xav ua neej nyob thiab txhua yam nyob ntawm xoom, lawv yuav tsum … Thiab lawv yuav tsum ua dab tsi? Peb yuav ua dab tsi thaum kuv tus txiv dag, raug rho tawm haujlwm, dag ntawm txoj kev, nyiag lub hnab nyiaj, cuam tus khub? Nuuu, peb paub tswj hwm peb tus kheej, yog lawm, peb tsis tso cai rau kev npau taws. Peb qaug cawv kom ntuav. Peb quaj rau phooj ywg. Peb tsoo peb lub nrig rau hauv cov ntshav tawm tsam phab ntsa. Hnov beluga hauv chav khoob. Peb pw nrog ib nrab ntawm chaw ua haujlwm. Peb noj rau 6 kg ntawm cov mis nyuj khov. Peb ua tattoo lub neej-mob. Orem ntawm lawv tus kheej cov menyuam. Peb yuav 5 lub hnab tes tshiab. Peb pom tawm, txoj cai? Peb yog cov neeg laus, tshwj tseg, muaj tswv yim, muaj neeg zoo. Peb tsis tuaj yeem tsuas yog quaj hauv txhais tes ntawm tus neeg hlub, peb tsis muaj cov neeg uas yuav tso cai rau peb los quaj hauv lawv txhais tes yam tsis muaj nqis lossis yaum kom peb tsum. (pysy. Kuv muaj tus txiv. Nws tso cai rau koj quaj, foom tsis zoo, mob siab rau thiab nws tsuas lees txais. Kuv muaj hmoo heev).

Yog li, rov qab los nkees nkees, npau taws, tawg 3-5-7 xyoo kawm ntawv: Lawv yuav ua dab tsi? Lub hnab ntim dab tsi yuav, yuav haus dab tsi, yuav txhaj dab tsi thiab yuav pw nrog leej twg thaum lawv lub neej poob qis, tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem quaj, nws txaj muag, thiab hauv tus pov thawj rau qhov ntawd. Cov menyuam yaus muaj qhov kev xaiv twg, uas tsis yog neurosis, ua phem rau, dag, thiab ua phem rau tus kheej?

Kuv paub cov lus nug tom ntej - thaum koj raug dag los ntawm tub ceev xwm daim ntawv hla tebchaws yog qhov hnyav, tab sis thaum nws muaj miv pob ntseg ntawm qhov hnav tsis zoo - nws yog dev bullshit. Ntxiv mus, nws yuav tsum nkag siab li cas nws cov ncauj lus tsis zoo, thiab koj li yog tiag. Thiab kuv xav tias nws yuav tsum qhia nws txog nws. Tias txij thaum sawv ntxov txog tsaus ntuj nws tsis khoom nrog dog dog dig, thiab chim siab txog nws yog bullshit. Thiab tom qab ntawd tus txiv rov los tsev los ntawm kev ua haujlwm, nws tus thawj coj yog neeg vwm, thiab nws tseem yuav qhia koj tias txhua yam koj ntxhov siab nrog tus neeg lis haujlwm hauv phau ntawv hla tebchaws yog neeg thab plaub, tab sis nws muaj teeb meem - cov no yog teeb meem. Thiab tom qab ntawd koj yuav npau taws thiab kho siab heev, thiab koj yuav mus rau niam ntawm pab pawg thiab sau ntawv rau ntawd, thiab lawv yuav txhawb nqa koj thiab yuav luag puag koj. Yog li koj twb tau txais 5 xyoo tus account? Nws twb muaj qhov chaw sau "kuv niam tsis nkag siab kuv, xav tias kuv cov teeb meem yog khib nyiab, thiab qw rau kuv thaum kuv quaj, tab sis kuv nyob ib leeg kho siab khuav thiab chim siab thiab tsis xav nyob, txhawb nqa kuv"?

Thiab tam sim no qhov tseem ceeb yog yog koj tseem nrog kuv. Thiab yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim yog tias koj tseem txwv tsis pub tus menyuam mus rau kev npau taws.

Nws yog qhov ua tau, tsis yog txhua qhov nyuaj, ntxiv mus, ntau yam ntxiv tuaj yeem ua tau. Tus menyuam yog ib tus tsiaj uas muaj yas heev. Yog tias koj tsis mus cuag tus menyuam, nws yuav kawm tsis txhob quaj, ua siab ncaj. Ib tus menyuam tuaj yeem qhia txhua yam - thiab ua haujlwm ntawm 2, thiab ua niam ntiav ntawm 5, thiab ua neeg laus ntawm 4. Txhua yam nws nyob ntawm ib puag ncig ntawm kev kawm. Hauv ib puag ncig ntawm European kev vam meej, tus menyuam tuaj yeem them taus los ua menyuam yaus txog hnub nyoog 21 xyoos. Ntawm cov tebchaws African txom nyem - txog 3. Txhua yam no, los ntawm thiab loj, yog teeb meem ntawm tsev neeg qhov tseem ceeb. Kuv muaj qhov txiaj ntsig zoo uas kuv zoo siab tias tus menyuam tso cai nws tus kheej nrog kuv "tus cwj pwm tsis zoo", qhov no txhais tau tias - nws ntseeg kuv, qhov no txhais tau tias - nws paub tias kuv yuav pab, nws txhais tau tias - nws paub tias kuv tsis xav tau txaj muag, tsis yog koj xav zais koj txoj kev xav ntawm kuv, koj tsis tas yuav piav dab tsi. Thiab rau ib tus neeg nws yog qhov tseem ceeb uas tus menyuam "qhia kev hwm." Kuv tuaj yeem nkag siab qhov no, tab sis kuv tus kheej tau xaiv lwm qhov txiaj ntsig rau kuv tus kheej, qhov no yog txhua yam.

Nag hmo kuv nug kuv tus txiv, "tab sis xav tias thaum 20 lawv tseem yuav liam nws rau qee yam uas tsis nkag siab thiab nchuav tag nrho qhov tsis zoo rau peb?" Nws hais yooj yim thiab txawj ntse:

"Lawv yuav ua li cas los xij. Lwm lo lus nug yog ntsiag to tom qab lub qhov muag, lossis hauv koj lub ntsej muag. Hauv kuv lub tswv yim, nws zoo dua thaum nyob hauv lub ntsej muag."

Thiab qhov kawg. Yuav ua siab ntev npaum li cas. Thaum twg koj tuaj yeem hais tias "yam kev hais kwv txhiaj no yog dab tsi? Rub koj tus kheej ua ke"? Thaum twg los xij. Nws yog nyob ntawm peb thiab peb txiav txim siab thaum peb ntsib peb tus kheej nrog qhov tseeb tsis tuaj yeem:

* Nws nyob ib leeg hauv ntiaj teb no *