TSHUAJ TIV THAIV. Yuav Ua Li Cas Tsa Tus Menyuam Tsis Loj Hlob (cov Lus Qhia Ib Qib Zuj Zus)

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

1. Xav txog tus menyuam raws li txoj kev cawm seej ntawm koj txoj kev sib yuav: "Peb ib txwm sib cav sib ceg - sib cais, sib haum xeeb - sib sau ua ke thiab txiav txim siab - peb yuav tsum muaj menyuam, nws yuav koom nrog peb."
2. Rov qab hierarchy hauv tsev neeg. Tsis nco qab koj lub hom phiaj ua niam txiv. Hloov chaw ntawm lub hom phiaj ntawm "tsa tus menyuam kom nws tuaj yeem nyob ntawm nws tus kheej," koj xav tau lub hom phiaj ntawm "muab txhua yam rau nws." Tau kawg, nws yog qhov tsis meej pem thiab zoo heev, tab sis koj yuav tsum tau siv nws. Tus menyuam yuav tsum yog tus saib xyuas. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum tsuas yog ua kom tiav nws lub siab nyiam: "Koj xav li cas, tus tub, peb puas tuaj yeem yug lwm tus Lyalka?"
3. Mus ze koj tus menyuam - dhau los ua "phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws." Qhov no yuav sib haum xeeb thawb koj tus txij nkawm mus rau ib puag ncig - nws yuav pib xav tias tsis kam lees, yuav tsis txaus siab rau tus menyuam, thiab koj yuav tiv thaiv nws, zais nws qhov kev ua phem - "txuag lyalka los ntawm tus txiv ntxawm phem (phauj)". Qhov tseem ceeb yog tsis txhob tso tseg txawm tias thaum tus menyuam pib tsoo koj. Qhov no yooj yim tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tau sib yuav (sib yuav) zaum ob, tus menyuam tau mob thaum tseem yau, lossis nws yog tus yau tshaj. Qhov kev xav ntawm kev ua txhaum yuav tso cai rau koj yooj yim dag koj tus kheej: "qhov no tsis yog nws txiv," "nws yuav nkag siab nws tus kheej," thiab lwm yam.), vim "Kuv Niam Tus Phooj Ywg" tsis yog lub luag haujlwm hauv tsev neeg.
4. Ua txhaum ciam teb, ua txhaum txoj kev txhawb siab. Cog lus rau txim hnyav thiab tsis txhob ua li ntawd. Coj zoo li yog txhua tus menyuam xav tau los ntawm koj, thiab tsuas yog koj yuav tsum liam rau txhua qhov nws ua yuam kev thiab ua tsis raug. Tsis txhob lees nws txoj cai kom yuam kev.
5. Tsim cov cai hauv tsev neeg sib txawv: "Kuv ua txhua yam rau koj thiab qhov no, thiab qhov no, thiab qhov no (ntau yam suav sau), tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem kho kuv zoo xwb! (Tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej tsis lees paub yam koj xav tau thiab qhov koj xav tau tshwj xeeb!)
6. Qhia tus menyuam thiab lwm tus hauv tsev neeg ua si SACRIFIC - RESCUE - CHAIRER. Nws yooj yim: tsis txhob ceeb toom tias zej zog muaj kev coj ua (tsev kawm ntawv, khw muag khoom, tsheb npav, lwm tsev neeg, thiab lwm yam) uas yuav tsum tau ua raws. Tus menyuam yuav pib tsoo lawv, lawv yuav tawm lus rau nws, thiab koj yuav cawm nws.
7. Tsis txhob cia peb tsis xis nyob. Tsis nco phau ntawv lossis khaub ncaws - khiav mus rau tom tsev kawm ntawv, nqa qee yam tsis nco qab, tsis sawv ntawm lub tswb tswb - sawv, tsis txhob cia peb tsaug zog thiab tau txais lus hais tawm, ua rau cov phooj ywg kawm tsis tau - tsis txhob cia nws thov txim, lwm yam.
8. Xaiv nws lub neej yav tom ntej rau nws: lub hom phiaj, chaw haujlwm, haujlwm, thiab lwm yam.
9. Ua raws li kev nyiam menyuam yaus: tsis muaj teeb meem hloov cov cai lossis faib rov qab lub luag haujlwm. Ua neej nyob zoo li nws muaj hnub nyoog 3-5 xyoos thiab tib lub sijhawm zoo li nws twb yog neeg laus lawm. Nws yuav tsum tsis muaj lub luag haujlwm rau nws tsev neeg. Tus me nyuam yuav tsis yog yam YUAV TSUM, tab sis txhua yam tuaj yeem ua tau. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los txhawb kev tso cai, ua tsis ncaj rau nws rau neeg laus.
10. Sim ua "ua nws tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj." Nws yuav twb tawm tsam lawm: yuav nyob ntsiag to, ntsais rov qab - tsis txhob mloog. Cia nws tau txais qhov kev xav tias koj tsis tuaj yeem nyob tsis muaj nws. Tau mob, thaum kawg, hais tias nws yog los ntawm nws qhov tsis quav ntsej.
11. Tsis muaj rooj plaub tsis tham nrog nws txog qhov tseeb tias txij hnub nyoog 18 xyoo nws yuav pib ua neej nyob ntawm nws tus kheej - qhov no tuaj yeem txhawb kev txhawb siab. Kawm kom ntshai nws tus kheej. Qhia nws paub los ntawm lo lus thiab kev ua uas koj yuav nyob ntawd ib txwm. Txiav txim siab txhua yam rau nws: them nws cov nuj nqis, them nplua, txuag nws los ntawm tsev hais plaub, ua si nws tshoob. Tsis txhob tso tseg, tsis txhob lees koj qhov tsis muaj kev cia siab - khaws koj txoj kev xav ntawm txhua yam nrog koj lub zog.
12. Kev tshwm sim ntawm qee yam kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yuav ua rau lub neej yooj yim dua rau koj - tom qab ntawd koj yuav ua pa ntau dua. Kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yog qhov hnyav - nws yuav tsis dhia tawm ntawm nws! Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom txuas ntxiv ua piv txwv tias qhov no tseem yog koj li lag luam: them rau kev kho mob, saib xyuas koj tus mob, nrhiav haujlwm, them nuj nqis, thiab lwm yam.

Los ntawm ua raws 12 kauj ruam ntawm cov lus qhia no, koj tau lees tias tuaj yeem tsa tus neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj uas tsis muaj peev xwm ua neej nyob ywj pheej.