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Tus sau: Sergey Labkovsky
Dedicated rau cov neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj, cov neeg nyiam twv txiaj thiab haus dej cawv …
Thaum nug txog yam nws muaj txiaj ntsig tshaj plaws hauv kev hlub, Honore de Balzac teb tias: "Ib khob cawv cognac ua ntej thiab luam yeeb tom qab."
Paub
Thawj zaug kuv haus luam yeeb thaum muaj hnub nyoog 7 xyoo hauv lub pioneer camp. Kuv tus tij laug, uas tau txiav txim siab tias tau haus luam yeeb dhau los, tau muab luam yeeb rau kuv - thaum lub sijhawm nws yog 12. Thawj zaug nws tsis koom nrog, tab sis nyob hauv tsev kawm theem siab cov tub ntxhais kawm tau coj cov hluas - lawv kho lawv, peb teeb luam yeeb thiab, tau kawg, hnoos tam sim ntawd. Kev ua haujlwm hnyav ntawm kev hloov pauv thiab kev nkag siab ntawm kev paub pib. Piv txwv li, lawv tau hais rau peb: "Los, menyuam, nqus cov pa luam yeeb thiab sim nyeem cov paj huam yam tsis tso pa taws tawm ntawm koj lub qhov ncauj."
Paj huam tau yooj yim.
Grandma taws lub qhov cub, Thiab cov pa luam yeeb tsis mus.
Yawm txiv taws lub qhov cub
- Cov pa luam yeeb tau ploj mus.
Hauv cov xyoo ntawd, ob peb xav txog kev phom sij ntawm kev haus luam yeeb thiab tsis muaj kev tawm tsam tiv thaiv nicotine.
Hlub
Thaum 12, Kuv haus luam yeeb yuav luag tas li, ntawm 14 - zoo li pob (20 luam yeeb) ib hnub.
Ib hmo thaum lub caij ntuj sov kuv tawm mus rau hauv chav ua noj kom haus luam yeeb los ntawm lub qhov rais qhib dav. Muaj suab nrov hauv txoj kev, thiab kuv tsis hnov kuv txiv tawm hauv chav dej. Nws tsis ua siab deb thiab tam sim ntawd npuaj kuv hauv qhov tawg. Tom qab ntawd nws pib nrog kuv twb muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb, tham ntxaws ntxaws. Lub tswv yim tseem ceeb uas nws tau sim qhia rau kuv ces yog "qhov tseeb thiab sai sai hnub yuav los txog thaum koj TSIS TXHOB haus luam yeeb." Nws zoo li tsis muaj tseeb rau kuv, Kuv swagged thiab hais tias qhov no yuav tsis tshwm sim thiab tias kuv yuav tsum tso tseg sai li kuv xav tau.
Txog tam sim no kuv nyiam txhua yam, thiab kuv nyiam nws heev!
Thiab kuv txiv paub zoo tias nws tab tom tham txog dab tsi, vim nws pib haus luam yeeb thaum muaj hnub nyoog 17, tau nkag mus rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv sniper ntawm 42. Thaum lub sijhawm peb tham txog kev phom sij ntawm kev haus luam yeeb, nws muaj 50 xyoo, nws twb muaj mob plawv nres, thiab tom qab ntawd mob qog noj ntshav.
Kev sib raug zoo mus tas li
Kuv pib nkaum, Kuv tsis haus luam yeeb hauv tsev lawm, tab sis sab nraum nws kuv haus luam yeeb tas li thiab txhua qhov chaw. Thiab muaj ib hnub thaum peb teev sawv ntxov kuv paub tias kuv txiv hais yog lawm: thaum kuv sawv los, kuv pom tias tsis muaj luam yeeb thiab tsis tuaj yeem tsaug zog ntxiv lawm. Thaum ib tag hmo kuv tau mus rau cov neeg tsav tsheb tavxij, uas txhais tau tias kuv npaj tau muab los ntawm 3 txog 5 rubles rau ib pob, thaum nyob hauv Java khw nws raug nqi 30 kopecks. Thiab nws twb yog kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj dawb huv thaum muaj hnub nyoog 16 xyoos.
Xyoo ntawd kuv haus luam yeeb phem heev: luam yeeb "Kazbek", "Smoke", "Herzegovina Flor". Tab sis Morshansk "Prima" tau suav tias yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws!
Tom qab ntawd, Bulgarian "BT", "Rodopi", "Stewardess", uas tau txawv los ntawm qhov tshwj xeeb saj qab, nkag mus rau hauv kuv lub neej. Nws tau txiav txim siab tias yog ib qho txaus ntshai heev kom haus luam yeeb Cuban "Legeros" thiab "Portogas", txawm hais tias haus luam yeeb lawv tsis yooj yim vim li cas yooj yim uas muaj cov nplooj cigar tsis zoo raug muab tso rau hauv, thiab cov luam yeeb luam yeeb muaj zog heev thiab, hauv txoj ntsiab cai, tsis tuaj yeem ua nqus tau pa. Txawm tias tau haus luam yeeb thiab haus luam yeeb tau hnoos, tab sis txuas ntxiv mus yuav thiab tua Ligeros los ntawm Liberty Island.
Tsis muaj leej twg hnov txog AIDS thaum ntawd, yog li ntawd lawv tsis saib tsis taus cov pob zeb - lawv tau khaws, rhuav lub lim dej thiab haus nws.
Kuv nco qab qhov nyiam tshaj plaws pioneer camp ntawm DKBF "Scarlet Sails" (Twice Red Banner Baltic Fleet). Yog li kuv pom: kev hloov pauv pib, peb mus rau hauv lub tsev ntawm thawj qhov kev tshem tawm, thiab sai li sai tau thaum cov kws sab laj tsis pom, nrog kev txav chaw ib txwm peb tshem tawm cov luam yeeb los ntawm lub thawv thiab hnab ev ntawv (Kuv yog Borodino luam yeeb) thiab muab lawv pov rau saum ru tsev, vim peb paub tias lawv yuav khiav sai sai, tab sis peb tsis tuaj yeem xav txog lub neej yam tsis muaj pa luam yeeb.
Lyrical digression txog qhov tseeb tias kev haus luam yeeb tsis yog ib qho teeb meem nkaus xwb ntawm cov menyuam kawm ntawv. Thaum kuv ua haujlwm ua xibfwb qhia kev nyob rau ntawm lub Chaw Thauj Khoom Tsheb Loj No. 23, Kuv tau saib cov xwm txheej hauv qab no: kev hloov pauv pib, thiab menyuam yaus hnub nyoog 14-15 xyoos, nrog cov kws pab tswvyim (lawv tseem yog tus tsav tsheb ntawm tsheb cog), nkag mus rau hauv chaw pw hav zoov. Lawv raug coj mus rau qhov khoob (aka pas dej) nrog qhov tob ntawm 2 txog 5 metres thiab tau hais kom ntxuav tam sim ntawd. Qhov xav tsis thoob ntawm qhov xwm txheej ceev no, cov neeg tho kev pov lawv lub hnab ev rau hauv av thiab nqis mus rau hauv qhov av nkos. Cov kws pab tswv yim tam sim ntawd tau txais tus ntaiv rov qab thiab maj mus rau menyuam yaus lub hnab ev khoom.
Hnub ntawd, 120 lub raj mis ntawm vodka raug txeeb los ntawm hauv qab ntawm lub pas dej ua ke los ntawm cov pioneer mus rau kev qias neeg. Cov menyuam pom tau tias qhov so tsis ua haujlwm txij thaum pib. Thiab cov kws pab tswv yim, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, pom tias kev haus cawv tsis yog tsuas yog kev kawm nkaus xwb, tab sis kuj yog khoom plig.
Qhov tseeb hnyav ntawm cov pioneer lub caij ntuj sov - 82.
Kev sib yuav
Xyoo dhau mus. Maj mam, kuv pib haus luam yeeb ob pob, thiab los ntawm 40 txog 50 xyoo - thiab peb pob ib hnub. Kuv tsis haus luam yeeb tsuas yog thaum kuv tsaug zog, tab sis kuv haus luam yeeb hauv txaj, haus luam yeeb hauv tsev thiab tom haujlwm (suav nrog hauv tsev kawm ntawv). Hauv xinesmas, Kuv tuaj yeem sawv thiab tawm mus haus luam yeeb thaum lub sijhawm sib tham, rov qab los thiab saib cov yeeb yaj kiab. Cov phooj ywg tau pom kuv zoo li tsiaj haus luam yeeb, thiab ib tus kws pleev xim iav ntuav kuv cov duab hauv daim iav iav - Kuv nyob ntawd nrog cov plaub hau, hwj txwv thiab, ntawm chav kawm, nrog luam yeeb ntawm kuv tus ntiv tes. Thiab dab tsi, txias!
Txawm li cas los xij, Kuv tsis yog tib tus uas tau haus luam yeeb hnyav, txhua tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig kuv haus luam yeeb, txawm hais tias tsis yog li ntawd. Muaj kev coj noj coj ua (piv txwv li, cov ntxhais tsis haus luam yeeb thaum mus) thiab nqaim dua, xyaum coj ncaj ncees - yuav ua luam yeeb li cas. Tus uas tua, tsis muaj teeb meem yuav tsum tau nce mus rau hauv pob nrog nws cov ntiv tes, yog li tsis txhob kov cov luam yeeb tas, tab sis tus uas nws pob tsis tuaj yeem rub tus luam yeeb nws tus kheej. Yog li ntawd, cov neeg haus luam yeeb paub yuav ua li cas nyem rau hauv qab ntawm pob kom cov luam yeeb zoo li dhia tawm ntawm nws tus kheej, thiab qhov tseeb mus rau qhov ntev ntawm lub lim. Thiab yog tias koj muaj koj tus luam yeeb zaum kawg, koj muaj cai raug cai tsis muab rau leej twg. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias tus tua neeg yog tus neeg "nrog cov ntsiab lus", tom qab ntawd nws yuav tsis tau thov tom kawg.
Kuv tsis tau haus luam yeeb ob zaug ntau xyoo. Thawj zaug yog thaum kuv niam-txiv tau muab cov tshuaj tiv thaiv nicotine rau kuv. Kuv zom 15 feeb, tom qab ntawd pov tseg tag nrho cov pob ib zaug thiab tso cov luam yeeb. Kuv tsis txawm ntshai ntawm oncology, ntseeg tias kuv yuav ua li cas thiaj muaj sia nyob kom tuag ntawm cov tshuaj tua kab mob. Txog rau ib hnub kws kho mob kuv paub qhia txog tus kab mob xws li mob ntsws ntsws, uas tus neeg hnoos rau ntawm nws lub ntsws thiab tsis muaj tshuaj kho mob ua haujlwm ntawm no. Thiab cov neeg haus luam yeeb yog thawj tus uas muaj kev pheej hmoo mob ntsws. Kuv ntshai heev uas kuv tsis haus luam yeeb ib teev thiab 40 feeb. Nov yog zaum thib ob uas nws tau txiav luam yeeb txij thaum muaj hnub nyoog 14 xyoos. Tab sis tom qab lub sijhawm no, kuv tso cov luam yeeb nrog lub zog txuas ntxiv, vim tias kuv tau poob siab vim tias muaj kev hem tias yuav mob heev ua rau kuv tuag.
Thaum kuv tawm mus rau Ixayees rau qhov chaw nyob ruaj khov, kuv tus nus (uas haus luam yeeb tag nrho nws lub neej thiab tsis haus luam yeeb tsuas yog 2 xyoos hauv pab tub rog) tau muab 10 pob Stolichny luam yeeb rau kuv. Lawv tau txiav txim siab zoo, kim, zoo. Yog li ntawd, kuv ua haujlwm hauv daim teb - hauv SASA kibbutz hauv Golan, teeb kuv lub "Stolichnye" thiab pom tias "cov neeg ua liaj ua teb" hauv zos tab tom rub cov pa luam yeeb nrog lo lus nug: "Dab tsi yog nyom?" Tom qab ntawd qhov kev tawm tsam no dhau los ua qhov tsis paub rau kuv. Tab sis tom qab ntawd, thaum "Stolichnye" khiav tawm thiab kuv hloov mus rau qhov pheej yig cov luam yeeb Israeli "Nobles", Kuv pom tau tias tsuas yog ib yam uas Soviet cov luam yeeb tsis hnov tsw zoo li yog luam yeeb. Lawv tuaj yeem tso quav nees, quav nyab hauv vaj thiab wormwood qus, tab sis tsis hnov tsw luam yeeb. Tias yog vim li cas "Stolichnye" zoo li rau kibbutzniks txhua yam tab sis luam yeeb.
Hauv tebchaws Ixayees, kuv pib haus luam yeeb ntau dua vim yog kev lag luam dawb huv. Tab sis sai li sai tau thaum nws pib khwv tau nyiaj, thawj qhov nws tau ua yog hloov mus rau Parliament.
Kuv tsis nco kuv tus kheej ua tus tsis haus luam yeeb. Kuv yeej tsis tau mus ncig yog tias nws siv sijhawm ntau dua plaub teev kom mus txog qhov chaw - lub sijhawm siab tshaj plaws uas kuv tuaj yeem hla tau yam tsis muaj luam yeeb. Nws yog kev lag luam raug cai kom haus luam yeeb ua ntej thiab tom qab lub dav hlau, tom qab noj hmo zoo siab, nyeem ntawv, saib yeeb yaj kiab … Kuv tsis muaj lub tswv yim yuav ua li cas kuv thiaj yuav haus kas fes, tham, tsaug zog thiab sawv - Kuv ua tsis tau thiab tsis ua npaj siab ua txhua yam no yam tsis muaj luam yeeb. Kuv nyiam luam yeeb thiab hlub kuv tus kheej nrog luam yeeb.
Kuv nco qab tias kuv nyob hauv Rome thaum lub caij nplooj ntoo hlav ntxov, qhov uas nws tsis tuaj yeem haus luam yeeb hauv khw noj mov, yog li tus neeg tos zaub yuav tsum hnav lub tsho loj, nqa kuv lub rooj tawm mus rau ntawm txoj kev taug, kuv tseem hnav khaub ncaws thiab noj ntawm txoj kev kom haus luam yeeb. Kuv zaum hauv cov nag zoo li ua tsis tau tiav thiab pom tias cov neeg hauv tsev noj mov tau noj mov zoo li cas hauv kev sov siab thiab kev nplij siab, thiab txawm tias muaj suab paj nruag. Thiab kuv daim nqi tsev noj mov ib txwm pib ntawm ob euros rau "kev pabcuam tshwj xeeb".
Txhua yam no tsis muaj txiaj ntsig - 10 xyoo dhau los kuv tau kuaj pom tias muaj kab mob hauv lub plawv, tom qab ntawd tau ua haujlwm. Thaum lub sijhawm ua haujlwm, kuv tsis tuaj yeem haus luam yeeb, tab sis nrog qhov laj thawj zoo kuv haus luam yeeb ua ntej nws (Kuv txhawj xeeb!) Thiab nrog qhov tshwj xeeb siab - tom qab …
Kuv tsis tau tso tseg, kuv tso tseg
Kwv yees li 6 xyoo dhau los, tsis muaj laj thawj tshwm sim, kuv tam sim pom tias kuv tsis nyiam haus luam yeeb dab tsi. Tias kuv muaj lub hauv paus kev xav, kev xav ntawm lub cev, kev xav, tshuaj lom neeg, luv luv, kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj. Txij lub sijhawm ntawd, Kuv xav tias txhua tus luam yeeb tsis yog kev ua ntawm kev hlub, tab sis raws li kev yuam cai rau kuv kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj. Nws ua qias neeg.
Tom qab li ib hlis, kuv tsis haus luam yeeb. Kuv tsis tau tawm, tab sis nres. Dab tsi yog qhov sib txawv: thaum koj nres nres, koj ua tam sim ntawd thiab koj tsis npau suav ntawm luam yeeb, koj tsis txo lawv tus lej maj mam, koj tsis poob siab thiab tsis thov koj tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg txhawb nqa koj hauv kev tawm tsam hnyav. Koj cia li tsum tsis txhob noj. Thiab kuv txiav luam yeeb tom qab 37 xyoo haus luam yeeb, qhov uas kuv tau piav qhia lawm. Txij thaum ntawd los tau 6 xyoo kuv tsis tau haus luam yeeb, kuv tsis xav tau thiab tsis txhob chim thaum lwm tus haus luam yeeb nyob ze.
Nyob zoo cov neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj! Tsuav koj xav tias koj zaj dab neeg hais txog kev hlub, koj yuav tsis txiav luam yeeb, thiab haus luam yeeb yuav tsis tso koj tseg. Thaum haus luam yeeb yuav luag tsuas yog txoj hauv kev lees paub koj tus kheej, qhia koj tus kheej thiab xav tias dawb, kev sib hlub nrog kev haus luam yeeb yuav nyob ntev thiab tua.
Dua. Ib qho laj thawj uas kuv tau haus luam yeeb ntev li kuv nco tau yog tias kuv nyiam haus luam yeeb. Yog li nws zoo li rau kuv. Ntev ntev. Thiab ib tus neeg yuav tsis tso qhov nws nyiam.
Nws zoo li nyob hauv ib qho kev quav tshuaj - rau lub sijhawm koj paub tseeb tias qhov no yog kev hlub. Qhov xwm txheej hloov pauv tam sim no thaum koj paub tias koj tsuas yog quav yeeb quav tshuaj, mob thiab tsis muaj zog.
Kev hlub yog thaum muaj kev xyiv fab thiab txaus siab, kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj - kev ntshai, qab haus huv thiab mob. Thaum koj nkag siab qhov no, koj yuav raug tso tawm. Nws tso kuv tseg.
Pom zoo:
Tsis Txhob Tso Kuv Tseg! Ntshai Poob Tus Khub, Ntshai Raug Tso Tseg. Kev Raug Mob Ntawm Kev Tso Tseg
Hauv kev sib piv rau kev ntshai ntawm kev tsis lees paub, uas yog los ntawm kev txaj muag rau qhov xav tau kev xav thiab tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus kheej, kev ntshai ntawm kev tso tseg ntau yam zoo li zoo li kev ntshai ntshai los ntawm lub xeev tsis nco qab, tsis muaj nyob.
"Vim Li Cas Koj Tsis Tso Kuv Tseg?!" Psychotherapist Sau Tseg
Kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv tsis tau pw ua ke tau 8 xyoo. - Nws hais tias nws dhia mus rau hauv qhov dej khov. Yuav luag los ntawm lub qhov rooj. Thaj, nws siv sijhawm ntev los npaj kom tuaj. Nws tshwm sim. Siab, nyias, txog tsib caug xyoo, ua kislas, nrog lub cim tsis raug ntawm nws lub ntsej muag.
Kev Txo Nqi Raws Li Kev Tiv Thaiv Kev Ntshai Ntawm Kev Tso Tseg
Kev ntshai ntawm kev tso tseg yog yug los ntawm kev poob siab vim tsis muaj peev xwm tswj tau yav tom ntej thiab cuam tshuam rau kev nqis tes ua ntawm peb tus khub, uas peb xav txog tseem ceeb rau peb tus kheej. Yog lawm, peb tsis tuaj yeem tswj hwm yav tom ntej, tab sis peb tuaj yeem tswj hwm peb txoj kev xav thiab kev coj ua tam sim no.
Xaus Kev Sib Raug Zoo: Tso Tseg Thiab Tso Tseg
Kev sib raug zoo, nrog qhov tsis tshua muaj kev zam, pib thiab xaus. Muaj ntau yam laj thawj rau qhov no. Hauv qee kis, lawv qaug zog thiab cov neeg koom tsis tau txais qee yam tseem ceeb ntxiv lawm. Lossis lawv tau tsim nyob rau hauv ib txoj hauv kev uas ib tus muab ntau dua li nws tau txais, maj mam ploj mus thiab xav tso tseg.
Yuav Ua Li Cas Kom Tsis Txhob Tso Tseg Ntawm Koj Lub Hom Phiaj Thiab Kev Xav Tau, Lossis Ua Yuam Kev Uas Tsis Yog Yuam Kev
Qee zaum nws zoo li yog tias kuv paub tias yuav yog leej twg thiab yuav ua dab tsi, kuv yuav tsum mus thiab ua nws. Tab sis txij li thaum kuv tsis paub qhov no tam sim no, kuv yuav tsis ua dab tsi. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, feeb, teev, hnub peb tsis ua dab tsi peb tau yug los, thiab tsis yog dab tsi ua rau peb muaj kev txaus siab, muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thiab zoo siab.
