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Kev Hlub Muaj
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Kuv nquag tham txog qhov tseem ceeb nws yog nyob nrog dab tsi tshwm sim hauv koj tam sim no, yam tsis tau sim tshem ib yam dab tsi, yam tsis tau sim hloov lossis kho dab tsi.

Cov lus nug yog yuav ua li cas?

Qhov no tsis yog lo lus nug yooj yim thiab kuv tus kheej feem ntau muaj teeb meem nrog qhov no.

Txij li thaum peb tsis tau muaj kev paub txog kev hlub nyob hauv peb lub neej, nws nyuaj heev rau peb kom nkag siab thiab xav tias nws yog dab tsi.

Raws li menyuam yaus, peb tsis raug tso cai kom hnov qhov kev xav uas peb muaj nyob rau qee lub sijhawm. Yeej, cov no yog cov kev xav uas cov neeg laus nyob ib puag ncig peb tus kheej tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog. Thaum ib qho ntawm cov kev xav no tau tshwm sim hauv peb, cov neeg laus pib tsis xis nyob nrog lawv. Thiab kom tsis txhob xav li no, lawv txwv tsis pub peb qhia peb tus kheej: "tsis txhob quaj," "tsis txhob poob siab," "tsis txhob ntshai," "tsis yog tam sim no," lossis lawv muab ntau rau peb ntawm tswv yim ntse Kuv xav tias lo lus "tsis yog" peb tau hnov ntau zaus. Qee leej tsis raug tso cai kom zoo siab ntau. Peb pib zais peb qhov kev tshwm sim zoo ib yam thiab tso daim npog ntsej muag.

Tsis muaj ib tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig uas yuav hais tias "Kuv nkag siab koj xav li cas tam sim no, thiab kuv nyob ntawd." Peb tau nyob ib leeg nrog dab tsi tau tshwm sim hauv peb.

Txij li thaum lub sijhawm ntawd peb tsis muaj lub zog txaus hauv peb lub siab thiab peb tsis muaj peev xwm muab kev txhawb nqa peb tus kheej, kom paub thiab tso cai rau peb tus kheej cov kev xav no, peb txiav txim siab tias lawv tau ua phem thiab tseem pib txwv lawv rau peb tus kheej. Tom qab ntawd peb tsis muaj lwm txoj kev xaiv.

Qhov no tsis tuaj yeem ua tau, nws tsis tuaj yeem ua tau. Kuv yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm nrog qhov no, tshem nws, txhim kho nws, Kuv yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab nws tam sim no. Ib qho kev xav tau tshwm sim hauv peb tias ib yam dab tsi yog qhov tsis ncaj ncees nrog peb thiab peb tseem niaj hnub tawm tsam nrog peb tus kheej thiab ua haujlwm ntawm peb tus kheej.

Txhua qhov no ua rau muaj kev nruj sab hauv thiab tsis txaus siab rau qhov tshwm sim ntawm no thiab tam sim no. Qhov no yog kev ua phem rau tus kheej tas li. Peb tawm ntawm peb tus kheej txhua lub sijhawm thaum qhov kev xav "tsis xis nyob" rau peb tshwm sim hauv peb. Peb tab tom sim tshem nws sai hauv txhua txoj hauv kev: peb pib ua haujlwm ntau, haus dej, noj, hloov pauv cov koom tes, ua haujlwm ntawm peb tus kheej, qee leej txawm tuaj sab laj nrog kev xav tshem qee qhov kev xav.

Txhua yam no nkim peb lub zog thiab tsis tso cai rau peb pom dab tsi yog tam sim no, thiab qhov no yog qhov yuav tsum tau pom tshaj plaws. Nws yog qhov tseeb uas tau tshwm sim tam sim no uas xav tau peb kev txhawb nqa thiab peb txoj kev hlub.

Peb ua tau dab tsi?

Peb tsis tuaj yeem hloov yav dhau los. Txhua yam tshwm sim raws li nws tau tshwm sim. Tib yam uas peb tuaj yeem ua yog saib nrog lub qhov muag ncaj ncees ntawm qhov tshwm sim. Thaum peb pom tias nyob rau ib lub sijhawm peb tsis tau txais chaw txaus thiab kev txhawb nqa los ntawm sab nraud los xav tias yog dab tsi, peb tuaj yeem pib kawm paub muab peb tus kheej qhov kev txhawb nqa no.

Koj yuav kawm tau li cas kom tsis txhob tso koj tus kheej thaum koj xav tias "tsis xis nyob" kev xav? Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob ntxeev siab rau koj tus kheej thiab muab koj tus kheej nyob nrog kev hlub?

Ua ntej, xyuam xim rau lub cev.

Thaum peb tsis tso peb tus kheej xav tias muaj qee yam, peb cog lus hauv lub cev thiab tsim kev nruj. Xav tias qhov kev nruj no nyob qhov twg thiab coj koj mus rau qhov ntawd.

Qhov thib ob, ua pa.

Thaum peb tuav "kev tsis xis nyob" kev xav, peb tuav peb txoj pa. Them sai sai rau nws thiab tso nws mus. Pib coj koj lub siab thiab ua pa mus rau cov ntu ntawm koj lub cev uas nruj thiab rau cov ces kaum ntawm koj tus ntsuj plig uas nyob hauv qhov tsaus ntuj. Ua pa sib npaug thiab nyob ntsiag to thiab koj yuav hnov tias muaj qee yam hauv koj pib so.

Qhov peb, lees txais cov kev xav no.

Koj muaj txoj cai rau ib qho kev xav hauv koj.

Txhua lub sijhawm koj xav tias txaj muag, chim siab, npau taws, pab tsis tau, mob, ntxhov siab, ntshai, lossis qee yam uas koj yuav tsis paub tias yog hu li cas, xav txog qhov kev xav hauv qee daim ntawv, nws tuaj yeem yog tsiaj lossis tus yam ntxwv, tej zaum paj lossis ib tsob nroj. Thiab khawm yam koj qhia. Tuav nws hauv koj txhais caj npab thiab txuas ntxiv ua pa nrog nws hauv kev so thiab nyob ntsiag to.

Tsuas yog thaum peb kawm paub muab kev hlub rau peb tus kheej thiab peb txoj kev xav peb tuaj yeem muab rau cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig peb. Peb tsuas tuaj yeem nyob ntawd, yam tsis tau muab tswv yim ntse, tsis tau sim hloov lossis tshem tawm, kho lossis tshem tawm ib yam dab tsi. Kev hlub nyob ua rau tsim kho qhov chaw uas txhua yam tshwm sim los ntawm nws tus kheej, raws nraim thaum nws yog rau koj. Yog tias peb tuaj yeem kawm ua qhov no, kev tawm tsam hauv peb yuav tso tseg thiab qhov no yog qhov uas tuaj yeem xaus qhov kev tawm tsam thiab kev ua phem hauv ntiaj teb.

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