Kev Sib Tw Sib Tw. Cov Niam Txiv Yuav Tsum Ua Dab Tsi?

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Cov niam txiv uas muaj ntau dua ib tus menyuam hauv lawv tsev neeg paub xub paub tias tus menyuam muaj kev khib yog dab tsi. Yog tias koj tab tom npaj npaj yug koj tus menyuam thib ob, npaj kom ntsib cov teeb meem no. Hmoov tsis zoo, qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev khib menyuam yaus yog qhov tsis tuaj yeem ua tau, tab sis nws qhov kev tshwm sim tuaj yeem ua kom du.

Kev khib menyuam thaum yau yog ib qho xwm txheej tshwm sim, yog niam txiv kawm paub daws nws kom raug, nws tuaj yeem siv rau tsev neeg zoo.

Dab tsi cuam tshuam qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev khib thaum yau?

Cov hauv qab no cuam tshuam qhov hnyav ntawm kev khib siab rau menyuam yaus:

1. Niam txiv tus cwj pwm, qhov lawv saib xyuas zoo rau cov menyuam;
2. Kev sib raug zoo ntawm niam txiv rau ib leeg;
3. Cov niam txiv muaj peev xwm lees txais thiab tswj hwm lawv txoj kev xav thiab kev xav;
4. Cov niam txiv muaj peev xwm nthuav qhia lawv txoj kev hlub, sib tham lawv cov kev xav thiab lees paub lawv tus menyuam.

Hom kev khib thaum yau

Kev khib siab ntawm hom no tuaj yeem tshwm sim nws tus kheej hauv cov ntawv hauv qab no:

- nce qib ntawm kev ntxhov siab: ua rau pw tsaug zog ntau ntxiv, tsis qab los noj mov, ntshai, tsis xav sawv thaum sawv ntxov;

- kev ua phem rau tus menyuam yau tshaj: lub siab xav ua phem rau tus menyuam, tshem nws cov khoom ua si nyiam, tawm tsam tsis tu ncua ntawm menyuam yaus;

- nce kev ua ub no ntawm tus menyuam, tsis nco qab xav, xav tsis thoob, nyob tsis tswm;

- neurotic tshua nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm hysteria, stuttering.

Qee zaum kev khib menyuam yaus sab nrauv ua haujlwm tsis qhia nws tus kheej, tab sis hauv tus ntsuj plig tus menyuam ntsib qhov xwm txheej tiag tiag. Koj tuaj yeem paub txog qhov teeb meem los ntawm kev saib xyuas koj tus menyuam. Tej zaum tus menyuam pib mob ntau zaus, ua rau tu siab, kev kawm ntawv tsis zoo.

Cov niam txiv yuav tsum ua dab tsi?

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau niam thiab txiv los teb kom raug rau kev khib thaum yau. Tsis txhob txwv qhov kev xav no lossis tsis quav ntsej nws. Thaum tseem hluas, tus menyuam tseem tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab nws lub siab thiab tswj lawv, yog li nws tsim nyog pab nws nkag siab qhov nws tab tom ntsib. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua tau raws li hauv qab no:

- tham txog cov ncauj lus no nrog tus menyuam, piav qhia nws txoj kev xav, piav qhia vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim;

- qhia dab neeg rau tus menyuam uas tus phab ej tseem xav tias khib nws tus kwv lossis tus muam, tab sis thaum nws loj hlob, nws kawm ua si nrog nws thiab kuv niam hlub lawv ib yam.

- qhia cov menyuam tias koj hlub lawv ib yam, sim tsis txhob xaiv "nyiam" rau koj tus kheej, tsis txhob sib piv cov menyuam, txwv tsis pub koj tsuas yog ua rau qhov xwm txheej hnyav dua thiab ua rau muaj kev sib ntxub rau menyuam yaus rau ib leeg thiab rau koj.

- tsis txhob muab menyuam yaus sib piv ua piv txwv. Ua kev zoo siab rau qhov tsis sib xws ntawm txhua tus ntawm lawv, txhawb nqa thiab pab hauv txhua qhov koj ua. Yog tias koj qhia koj cov menyuam tias ib tus neeg zoo dua thiab lwm tus neeg phem dua, koj tsuas yog qhia lawv kom ua siab mos siab muag thiab ntxub lwm tus.

Hauv qhov xwm txheej uas koj tsuas yog npaj kom muaj menyuam me thib ob, npaj thawj tus menyuam rau qhov no, tab sis ua tib zoo ua tib zoo saib. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam txog tus menyuam zoo li cas, qhia daim duab ntawm nws thaum nws tseem yog menyuam yaus, kawm paub nkag thiab taug kev, koj tau saib xyuas ntau npaum li cas rau nws, thiab nws tseem ceeb npaum li cas rau tus menyuam yug tshiab kom tau txais kev saib xyuas. Txhawb nws kom ua txhua yam no ua ke rau nws tus kwv yau lossis tus muam.

Tsim tus cwj pwm zoo hauv tus menyuam txog kev tuaj txog ntawm tus menyuam hauv tsev neeg, thiab maj mam nws yuav siv rau lub tswv yim no. Ua txhua yam kom ua rau tus menyuam zoo li tsis mob npaum li ua tau rau tus menyuam loj.

Cov txiaj ntsig zoo ntawm kev khib thaum yau

Ntxiv rau qhov tsis zoo, kev khib siab thaum yau tseem muaj qhov ua tau zoo:

- tus menyuam kawm los tiv thaiv nws cov kev nyiam;

- lub sijhawm los kawm tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus;

- menyuam yaus tau txais lub sijhawm los cog kev ua siab ntev thiab kev ywj pheej;

- qhia kom nrhiav kev daws teeb meem.

Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv txhua qhov no yog kev muaj peev xwm ntawm cov niam txiv kom khaws kev ntseeg siab ntawm lawv cov menyuam hauv lawv txoj kev hlub.