2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Hauv ib tsev neeg twg muaj sijhawm los thaum menyuam yaus pib ntsib kev ntshai. Cov menyuam yaus ntshai qhov tsaus ntuj, cov dab nyob hauv qab txaj, suab nrov, dej. Cov niam txiv yuav tsis nkag siab ib yam dab tsi uas tus menyuam ntshai; feem ntau, tus neeg laus txoj kev ntshai thaum yau zoo li tsis muaj qab hau. Tab sis rau menyuam yaus, txhua yam nws ntshai yog qhov tiag, lawv muaj tiag, thiab ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo ntau. Peb yuav sim txheeb xyuas seb cov menyuam ntshai dab tsi, thiab niam txiv tuaj yeem ua dab tsi los pab tus menyuam daws, nrog rau yam uas yuav tsum tsis txhob ua
Qee qhov kev ntshai yog qhov tseeb hnub nyoog, yog li ntawd, cia peb txiav txim siab ntau ntxiv txog lawv cov yam ntxwv thiab hnub nyoog ntawm lawv tshwm sim.
Piv txwv li, qhov sib txawv ntawm kev ntshai nyob hauv cov menyuam hnub nyoog qis dua 5 xyoos: ntshai tsam raug mob, ntshai qhov chaw tsis paub thiab neeg txawv, ntshai tsaus ntuj, dej, suab nrov, ntshai tsiaj
Cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog me ntsis pib ntshai tuag, dab, dab thiab tsaus ntuj, npau suav phem tuaj yeem tshwm sim
Cov menyuam kawm ntawv tsim lawv tus kheej qhov kev ntshai tshwj xeeb, piv txwv li, ntshai raug luag thuam, ua tsis tiav, ntshai tsis nrhiav phooj ywg, raug tsis kam lees
Txhawm rau pab koj tus menyuam tiv thaiv kev ntshai, niam txiv yuav tsum:
- Paub qhov tseeb ntawm kev ntshai, lees paub tus menyuam txoj kev xav, hais tias: "Yog, Kuv pom tias koj ntshai", "Yog, koj ntshai, koj ntshai …";
- Hug tus menyuam, qhia nws: "Kuv nrog koj", "Kuv nyob ntawm no, Kuv yuav tsis mus qhov twg";
- Rau cov menyuam txij hnub nyoog ob xyoos, kev piav qhia yooj yim ntawm ib lossis lwm yam tshwm sim uas ua rau lawv ntshai yog txaus;
- Txhawb tus menyuam tham txog nws qhov kev ntshai, tham txog txoj hauv kev kom kov yeej lawv;
- Hauv kev ua si, koj tuaj yeem paub nws qhov kev ntshai zoo dua. Yog tias tus menyuam ntshai tsaus ntuj, tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem pib tsim lub tsev pheeb suab ntaub hauv chav thaum nruab hnub thiab ua si nrog tus menyuam, qhib thiab tua lub teeb nyem. Tom qab ntawd, koj tuaj yeem ua si ua ke nrog tus menyuam nrog lub teeb nyem, thaum nws twb tsaus ntuj lawm;
- Sim tshem tej yam ntawm tus menyuam lub neej uas tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntshai (piv txwv li, saib TV: xov xwm, duab tas lauv uas tsis tsim nyog rau hnub nyoog);
- Rau menyuam yaus, kev kwv yees hauv lawv lub neej yog qhov tseem ceeb: thiab cov no yog, ua ntej tshaj plaws, yooj yim thiab ua raws tsev neeg txoj cai thiab niaj hnub ua;
- Qhuas ib qho, txawm tias tsawg tshaj plaws, tus menyuam txoj kev nce qib hauv kev kov yeej kev ntshai. Tham nrog koj tus menyuam txog koj txoj kev hlub rau nws, qhia tias koj txoj kev xav tsis hloov pauv, tsis hais nws puas ntshai ib yam lossis tsis yog.
Dab tsi tsis ua:
- Tsis txhob txaj muag koj tus menyuam (koj twb loj lawm, qhov no tsis tuaj yeem txaus ntshai);
- Tsis txhob luag rau tus menyuam qhov kev ntshai (nws lom zem lossis ruam los ntshai qhov no);
- Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob yuam tus menyuam kom ntsib nws qhov kev ntshai (nyob hauv chav tsaus thiab koj yuav pom tias tsis muaj leej twg nyob ntawd; tu tus dev, nws yuav tsis tom);
- Tsis txhob thuam koj tus menyuam vim tsis kov yeej kev ntshai;
- Ua tib zoo mloog cov lus ceeb toom lossis kev hem thawj uas koj tig mus rau tus menyuam: "yog tias koj tsis ua raws, tus txiv ntxawm tus tub ceev xwm yuav coj koj mus", "yog tias koj coj tus yam ntxwv zoo li no, peb yuav tso koj tseg ntawm no, peb yuav mus tsev peb tus kheej "," yog tias koj kov lub qhov rooj, koj yuav tuag. " Cov kab lus zoo li no tuaj yeem dhau los ua kev ntshai rau menyuam.
Yog li, peb pom tias qhov kev ntshai ntawm cov menyuam yaus yog qhov ib txwm thiab ib txwm muaj. Nrog txoj hauv kev kom raug, feem ntau, menyuam thiab niam txiv tuaj yeem daws qhov teeb meem no ua ke. Tab sis nws tshwm sim tias tus menyuam txoj kev ntshai tsis ploj mus thiab qhov no cuam tshuam rau tag nrho tsev neeg lub neej: tus menyuam tsis pw hauv nws lub txaj, ntshai kws kho mob lossis kws saib xyuas neeg mob thiab tsis pub lawv nyob ze nws, thiab lwm yam. Thiab nws muaj peev xwm tias qee tus menyuam tsis nyiam (piv txwv, ntshai pw ib leeg) pib ua haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv tsev neeg lub neej. Hauv qhov no, nws tsim nyog hu rau tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg lossis tus kws paub txog kev puas siab ntsws rau menyuam kom tau txais lus qhia.
Pom zoo:
Ntshai Ntawm Kev Sib Tw. Kev Sib Tw Thaum Yau
Ib tug ntxhais tig los rau kuv, cia peb hu nws Katya, thiab nws tau hais zaj dab neeg hauv qab no "Kuv muaj qhov xwm txheej zoo li no. Kuv xav txhim kho kuv txoj kev lag luam, kuv nyiam ua si dhau los ua tus ua haujlwm ywj pheej. Kuv tau ua kuv thawj kauj ruam thiab tam sim ntshai.
Kev Ntshai Thaum Yau. Dab Tsi Tiag Tiag Zais Qab Cov Dab Hauv Qab Txaj?
Tam sim no kuv tshwj xeeb tshaj yog mus ntsib nrog thov kev qhia txog menyuam yaus kev ntshai, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog xws li kev ntshai tsaus ntuj, dab, dab, thiab lwm yam. Feem ntau, cov kev ntshai no tshwm sim hauv txhua tus menyuam hnub nyoog + - 4 xyoos.
Tus Menyuam Tsis Pom: Dab Tsi Tuaj Yeem Txaus Ntshai Rau Kev Nyob Ib Leeg Thaum Yau?
Ib tus menyuam nyob ib leeg yog ib qho yooj yim kab nuv ntses rau cov menyuam yaus, cov neeg coj noj coj ua thiab cov neeg muag yeeb tshuaj. Tom qab tag nrho, yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem tau txais lub tuam txhab zoo, koj tuaj yeem xaus rau qhov phem.
Cov Lus Teb Ntawm Cov Lus Nug. Kev Ntshai Thaum Yau. Kuv Yuav Pab Kuv Tus Menyuam Li Cas?
Cov phooj ywg, kuv tos txais koj! Kuv caw kuv cov neeg nyeem sau lawv cov lus nug, ua rau muaj kev xav sib txawv hauv lub neej. Thiab kuv yuav maj mam teb lawv. ******************** Thawj lo lus nug. Svetlana nug: "Kuv tus tub (5 xyoos) saib Geo cov ntawv xov xwm, zoo siab los ntawm daim duab ntawm tus txiv neej uas tau ua rau tus tsov txaij (tus txiv neej npog nws lub ntsej muag nrog nws txhais tes, tab sis txhua yam zoo ib yam, qhov pom tau pom)).
Kev Ntshai Thaum Yau. Txoj Kev Kom Kov Yeej
Cov niam txiv ua dab tsi feem ntau thaum lawv cov menyuam ntshai? Lawv pib tham txog qhov tseeb tias tsis muaj dab tsi ntshai ntawm no, tsis muaj dab tsi txaus ntshai hauv qhov tsaus ntuj, cov dab neeg hais dab neeg, dev, txhaj tshuaj, thiab lwm yam.
