2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Vim li cas menyuam thiaj li npau taws, muab hlua khi ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv, zaum saum lawv taub hau? Vim li cas niam txiv thiaj siv sijhawm ntev li ntawd puzzle lawv tus kheej - yuav kho qhov no li cas, thiab tom qab ntawd ua txhaum cov cim ntawm cov menyuam yaus - nrog rau kev rau txim thiab kev lim hiam lossis kev tsis txaus siab thiab kev tsis ncaj ncees.
Nov yog qhov piv txwv ntawm kev tham 15-feeb ntawm tus ntxhais hauv Is Taws Nem hauv cov lus. Qhov tseeb, nrog kev tso cai los ntawm tus neeg siv khoom, lub npe tau hloov pauv.
Client: Nyob zoo tav su. Kuv xav nug yog tias menyuam yaus, tus tub - 3 xyoos thiab 10 hlis, kuv tus tub, yog tas li capricious thiab tam sim poob rau hauv lub kua muag thiab xav kom txhua yam ua nws, dab tsi txog nws? Kuv xav paub yuav ua li cas nrog nws, Kuv nkag siab blackmail tsis yog qhov kev xaiv, tab sis kuv tsis tuaj yeem saib nws lub kua muag!
Psychologist: Nyob zoo, Lena! Yog tias kuv nkag siab raug, qhov no yog koj tus tub (tsis yog koj tus tub). Thiab koj tsis tuaj yeem saib nws lub kua muag. Teb koj tus kheej rau cov lus nug - Nws kua muag dab tsi rau koj? Koj txhawj xeeb dab tsi, hnov thaum koj pom nws lub kua muag? Dab tsi los kua muag rau koj (tsis yog nws, tab sis paub daws teeb). Nws tsis yog hais txog koj tus tub xeeb ntxwv, nws yog hais txog koj tus cwj pwm nrog kua muag. Thiab peb yuav tsum ua haujlwm nrog qhov no. Qhov ntawd yog qhov nws yog, Lena. Yog tias xav tau - sau ntawv, hu.
Client: Ua tsaug, Svetlana! Cov lus teb yog yooj yim - kua muag ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo thiab qhov kev xav tias kuv ua phem rau tus menyuam! Tab sis yuav piav qhia nws li cas tias kua muag tsis tuaj yeem daws teeb meem! txawm hais tias kuv tus kheej nyiam quaj! Txog tam sim no, tsuas yog blackmail pab! Lub tsev kawm qib pib hloov pauv nws ntau, dhau los ua neeg paub ntau dua, tej zaum dhau sijhawm nws yuav nkag siab tias kua muag tsis yog txiv neej ua lag luam.
Psychologist: Kuv rov hais dua, tus menyuam tsis yog lub ntsiab lus. Thiab nws tsis tas yuav piav dab tsi. Nws muaj niam thiab txiv rau qhov no. TEARS hauv koj ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo, qhov kev xav "uas koj ua phem rau menyuam." Thiab koj yuav muaj lub sijhawm nyuaj los daws nws. Koj ua tsis tau nws. Yuav ua li cas rau koj yog tias koj "ua phem rau menyuam".
Tus neeg siv khoom: Nws tsuas yog ntxig cov hlua tawm ntawm kuv, nws txiv thiab niam tsis khoom, thiab kuv ua haujlwm ua niam ntiav rau hnub so, nws zoo. Kuv xav tu kuv tus kheej, tab sis tam sim no kuv qhia rau lwm tus neeg. Tsis tau ntsib kuv tus txiv neej.
Psychologist: Kuv pom. Ces tuav nws ib zaug. Qhia nws tias koj paub yuav tiv nws li cas - nws lub kua muag. Thiab tuav nws zaum thib ob. Txais nws raws li nws yog thiab yog ib tus neeg laus nyob ib sab ntawm nws, tsis txhob poob rau hauv lub xeev sib npaug rau nws. Qhia rau kuv - Kuv tuaj yeem tiv koj qhov kev npau taws. Tsuas yog zaum thiab tos kom nws nqig. Tsis tawm lus dab tsi. Txawm hais tias nws npau taws rau 40 feeb, qhov kawg yuav los. Saib blankly. Thaum nws paub tias koj muaj POWER, ces yuav muaj kev sib tham. Lub sijhawm ntawd, nws muaj hwjchim. Tab sis kuv rov hais dua, nws tsis yog txog nws, tab sis txog koj tus cwj pwm rau nws lub kua muag.
Hnub tom ntej tsab ntawv: Ua tsaug ntau, Svetlana! Tshwm sim!
Yog tias koj tsis mus rau hauv cov ntsiab lus nrog tus neeg siv khoom ua rau lub kua muag thiab nws tsis txaus siab tig qhov teeb meem mus rau nws tus kheej lub dav hlau (uas qhia tias nws tsis txaus siab hloov qee yam hauv nws tus kheej), tom qab ntawd qhov teeb meem nrog tus menyuam qhov kev xav tsis xav tau kev piav qhia thiab qhia meej cas kuv tham txog qhov kuv xav hais.
Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau ua tus saib xyuas, nws yooj yim rau lawv, thiab lawv tuaj yeem siv lub luag haujlwm kom tau txais yam lawv xav tau hauv ntau txoj kev (thawb rau kev khuv leej, quaj, tsoo lawv lub taub hau rau hauv av, quaj tsis tu, ntuav khoom, tsoo koj thiab ntau ntxiv, ntau ntxiv) …
Lus nug rau niam txiv - koj nyob qhov twg tam sim no:
1. Nrog tus menyuam koj txheeb cov khoom ntawm qhov sib npaug;
2. Koj yoog raws lawv cov kev tswj hwm thiab ua tiav txhua qhov kev xav tau;
3. Ua tus niam txiv laus thiab muaj peev xwm, uas yog tus coj ntawm cov kev cai thiab kev cai hauv tsev neeg, tsis vau thiab tsis tawg los ntawm kev npau taws rau menyuam yaus, tuaj yeem tiv thaiv kev quaj thiab kua muag, tab sis yuav tsis hloov nws qhov kev xav tau. Thiab txhua yam no tsuas yog los ntawm Kev Hlub thiab lub npe Kev Hlub rau menyuam.
Kom meej, piv txwv los ntawm lub neej. Kuv tus tub muaj 4 xyoos, txij thaum yug los nws paub txog kev npau taws thiab ua nws zoo nkauj thiab tsis tu ncua (qhov no yog nws tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus kheej, ntau xyoo nws dhau los ua raws thiab txwv, tab sis qhov no yog los ntawm peb kev sib raug zoo nrog kuv tus txiv rau nws qhov kev xav). Kuv ua nws li qub, tiv nws, tsis txhob tawg, txawm hais tias qee zaum nws tsis qab zib. Thaum nws xav tau qee yam tsis zoo thiab nws tsis tau txais tam sim ntawd, nws qhia kuv tias nws yuav tsis yog phooj ywg nrog kuv, cuam ib yam dab tsi, quaj los ntawm qhov tseeb tias kuv tsis ua tiav nws cov kev xav tau. Rau txhua qhov nws quaj, kuv hais lus ntsiag to: "Thiab kuv yuav ua phooj ywg nrog koj ib txwm thiab kuv yuav hlub koj ib txwm, vim kuv yog koj niam." Thiab kuv ntsiag to tos nws kom tiav nws "hais lus".
Tom qab ntawd peb tham txog nws tus cwj pwm ua ke thiab tsis txhob yuav lossis muab yam nws xav ua kom tiav hauv txoj kev no. Tsis ntev los no, kuv tus tub nug kuv cov lus nug (raws li lawv hais - Kuv tau txais cov lus tawm tswv yim): "Koj puas hlub kuv, niam, thaum kuv ua tsis zoo hnub no?" Kuv teb nws: "Yog lawm." Nws: "Thiab kuv ib txwm hlub koj, Niam, txawm tias thaum kuv ua tsis raug."
Yog li ntawd, cov niam txiv phooj ywg, nco ntsoov - qhov no tseem ceeb:
- Txhua yam kev npau taws muaj qhov kawg. Ua siab ntev thiab tiv lub sijhawm no kom nyob ntsiag to;
- Tsis txhob vau, tsis txhob poob rau hauv lub xeev “Yuav tsum ua dab tsi? Nws yog unbearable !!! ", koj paub yuav ua dab tsi - Hlub thiab Tsa;
- Tsis txhob muab hwj chim rau menyuam yaus, ua tus thawj coj ntawm txoj kev kawm. Txij li nws yog NECESSARY, koj paub, tab sis tsis yog lawv;
- Maj mam, nrog hnub nyoog (txij hnub nyoog 4 xyoos), qhia lawv tias lub zog (kev paub, kev coj tus cwj pwm, thiab qhov tseeb) tsis nyob nrog koj, tab sis nrog Vajtswv. Lub sijhawm no, koj yog nws tus kws kho nruab nrab thiab tshaj tawm nws cov cai rau tus menyuam.
Thiab txhua yam yuav zoo rau txhua tus.
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