2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Yog tias koj ib txwm mloog koj niam, txiv, pog, tus kws qhia ntawv, kws qhia ntawv, koj tuaj yeem hais tsis tau rau cov phooj ywg uas xav haus luam yeeb, haus dej li cas? Lub peev xwm hais tsis tau yog ua ncaj ncees rau 3-4 xyoos, thiab thaum muaj hnub nyoog 13-14 xyoos nws lig dhau lawm. Ib qho txuj ci tseem ceeb hauv zej zog ntawm kev tiv thaiv tus kheej uas tsis tau tsim hauv menyuam yaus twb nyuaj rau kev txhim kho. (V. D. Moskalenko)
Lub peev xwm hais tsis tau yog qhov tseem ceeb heev. Cov menyuam yaus uas tsis paub yuav ua li cas thiaj tsis kam lees, tsis quav ntsej lawv txoj kev xav thiab yooj yim ua raws lwm tus. Rau lawv, kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev nkag mus rau hauv lub tuam txhab tsis zoo thiab tau txais tus cwj pwm tsis zoo nce ntau zaus ntau dua. Yog tias koj qhia txij thaum menyuam yaus tias "tsis tsim nyog" los sib cav nrog cov txwj laus, koj yuav tsum mloog lus, koj yuav tsum tau noj qee yam, muab, thiab lwm yam. hauv nws, tab sis nws tus kheej lub tswv yim tsis tsim … Tom qab ntawd, cov menyuam yaus no txom nyem los ntawm kev saib tus kheej qis, nws nyuaj rau lawv kom nkag siab lawv tus yam ntxwv, sawv rau lawv tus kheej tom tsev kawm ntawv, ua qhov chaw txaus rau cov menyuam thiab pab pawg hluas, nrhiav lawv cov phooj ywg.
Txhawm rau tiv thaiv qhov no tshwm sim, hwm tus menyuam txoj cai xaiv. Txij thaum yau los, tus menyuam yuav tsum nkag siab tias nws muaj txoj cai los hais tawm nws qhov kev xav: txawm nws yog zaub mov, khaub ncaws lossis ntu uas koj xav tso npe rau nws.
Nco ntsoov tias tus menyuam muaj cai tawm tsam, nws lub tswv yim, nws ua yuam kev. Thiab tias lub hom phiaj kawg ntawm koj txoj kev txhawb nqa tsis yog menyuam yaus mloog lus, tab sis noj qab nyob zoo thiab muaj kev zoo siab.
psychologist Tatiana Smirnova, Kiev
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Tus Kws Paub Txog Kev Puas Siab Ntsws Svetlana Royz: Cov Niam Txiv Yuav Tsum Nco Ntsoov Thiab Khaws Cia Hauv Lawv Tus Kheej Qhov Kev Xav Tias Tsis Yog Menyuam Yaus Yog Rau Tsev Kawm Ntawv, Tab Sis Tsev Kawm Ntawv Yog Rau Menyuam
Lub ntiaj teb tab tom hloov pauv, thiab niam txiv los ntawm txhua sab tau txhawb kom qhia lawv cov menyuam yaus tsis yog, ua tib zoo nyeem, suav thiab suav, tab sis kuj tseem muaj tswv yim, kev xav tseem ceeb … Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, cov niam txiv niaj hnub no lawv tus kheej xav tias qaug zog thiab muaj kev nyuaj siab los ntawm tsis muaj sij hawm.
Nws Yog Ib Qho Tseem Ceeb Tsis Tsuas Yog Ua, Tab Sis Kuj Tsis Ua
"… peb yuav tsum muab tus kws paub txog kev puas siab ntsws rau nws vim nws tsis tau sim, ua si ntawm kev ntseeg siab ntawm tus neeg mob hu ua, kom txhawb nqa nws nrog qee yam lossis qee qhov qhia nws. dhau los, zoo li tau tshwm sim nrog ntau lwm tus.
Lyudmila Petranovskaya: "Nws Yog Ib Qho Tseem Ceeb Uas Tus Menyuam Muaj Txoj Cai Tsis Mloog Lus"
Ntau tus niam txiv tau pom cov vis dis aus hauv Is Taws Nem: tawm ntawm kaum 7-12 xyoos cov menyuam nrog lwm tus txiv ntxawm, tsuas yog ib tus menyuam hnub nyoog xya xyoo tsis tau tawm ntawm qhov chaw ua si. Hmoov zoo, qhov vis dis aus no yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev sim hauv TV.
Vim Li Cas Nws Thiaj Tseem Ceeb Rau Menyuam Thaum Niam Txiv Luag, Lossis Yuav Qhia Menyuam Li Cas Rau Kev Tsim Kho
Yuav luag txhua tus muaj phooj ywg uas qhia tib yam lus dag txhua lub sijhawm thiab luag nrov nrov. Nws yog txoj haujlwm loj rau nws kom koj luag nrog lwm yam uas tsis yog cov lus qhia no. Lossis, thaum sib tham nrog nws, koj tham txog qhov xwm txheej tiag tiag los ntawm nws lub neej.
Hais Ib Lo Lus Hais Txog Niam Txiv Tsis Zoo Lossis Peb Coj Dab Tsi Rau Peb Kev Sib Raug Zoo Nrog Peb Cov Menyuam Txij Thaum Peb Tseem Yau
Peb cov tswv yim hais txog kev kawm ntawm cov menyuam yaus tsis yog ntau los ntawm kev qhia ntawv thiab kev xav ntawm lub hlwb li los ntawm peb cov kev paub thaum yau. Los ntawm cov kev sib raug zoo uas peb tsim nrog peb tus kheej niam txiv.