Tham Nrog Menyuam Thiab Cov Hluas Txog Kev Sib Deev Li Cas

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Txog kev qhia thiab kev lom zem ntawm cov pej xeem - kis los ntawm kuv kev xyaum. (tag nrho cov npe, cov ntsiab lus thiab lwm cov ntsiab lus tau raug hloov pauv - lub ntsiab lus tseem tshuav).

Kuv nco qab leej niam zoo siab ntawm tus tub tuaj rau kuv rau kev sab laj: tus menyuam muaj 12 xyoos, tab sis nws poob rau hauv kev hlub thiab nco cov lus qhia. Ntawm lwm yam, muaj lus nug: puas yuav tham nrog nws txog IT (kev sib deev). Txij li thaum kuv niam nws tus kheej txaj muag heev los tham txog cov ncauj lus no, Kuv qhia nws kom yuav nws phau ntawv zoo ntawm cov ncauj lus no. Niam xav paub tias tus menyuam puas xav nyeem, vim nws tsis nyiam nyeem. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, phau ntawv tau yuav. Tus menyuam hnoos hnoos thaum nws pom nws thiab … nyeem nws hauv ib hnub. Nws yog qhov txiaj ntsig ob zaug - Kuv tau kawm txog kev sib deev los ntawm qhov chaw zoo thiab txhim kho kuv qhov kev nyeem ntawv nrawm dua.

Nws yog nyob rau hauv cov hnub qub, thaum kuv ua haujlwm ua tus pab tswv yim nrog cov hluas nyuaj thiab lub nra ntawm kev kawm hauv thaj chaw puas siab ntsws tseem tsis tau tso siab rau kuv. Peb muaj ib tus txiv neej zoo li no, tsuas yog "Me Johnny" los ntawm cov lus qhia tsis tseeb. Txhawm rau kom pom meej rau koj tias nws yog tus neeg zoo li cas: nws tau nqa lub thawv kaw thiab zoo siab qhia kuv: "Ruth, kwv yees dab tsi hauv lub thawv?" Feem ntau, muaj tus nab. Kuv tseem txaus siab rau kuv tus kheej, vim pom nws kuv tsis tau qw (tab sis xav tau tiag tiag), tab sis zoo siab luag ntxhi thiab hu nkauj: "Auj, nab yog dab tsi, tab sis koj pom nws nyob qhov twg?". Tus tub kawm tau poob siab thiab tsis nqa cov nab ntxiv rau kuv. Lwm lub sijhawm, nws tuaj rau yav hmo ntuj tshuaj yej tog nrog kev zoo siab luag nyav thiab hnab looj tes ua rau nws loj npaum li cas. Kuv tsis muaj sijhawm los xav txog qhov xwm txheej no, thiab txiav txim siab tam sim siv qhov kev kawm tam sim no: "Ua tau zoo, qhov zoo uas nws coj tuaj, cia peb txhua tus kawm paub yuav ua li cas tso lub hnab looj looj rau ntawm dib!" Koj yuav tsum tau pom nws lub ntsej muag txaj muag.

Tab sis tiag tiag, hauv kuv qhov kev sab laj, Kuv nquag ntsib cov niam txiv uas tsis paub yuav tham nrog menyuam li cas txog kev sib deev. Nws zoo li tau pom meej lawm tias nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau tham txog qhov no, tab sis li cas - nws tsis meej. Hauv ntej:

1. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los hais lus ncaj ncees thiab meej, tab sis raws li hnub nyoog. Pib txij thaum hluas - koj tuaj yeem tham txog txhua yam.

2. Yog tias koj pom nws nyuaj tham txog nws - xyaum, zoo tshaj plaws nrog koj tus txij nkawm. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, nws yuav muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau koj ua ob niam txiv. Yog tias koj xav tsis thoob los ntawm qhov kev thov no, tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum paub: ib qho ntawm lub hauv paus tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib raug zoo yog kev sib txuas lus (V. Satir). Hauv kev sib raug zoo, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau tham nrog txhua lwm yam txog kev sib raug zoo, suav nrog kev sib deev. Ntau ntawm qhov no lwm lub sijhawm.

3. Tsis txhob dag lossis ntshai. Xav txog yam koj xav ua kom tiav nrog koj kev sib tham.

Yog tus menyuam me - tom qab ntawd tsuas teb nws cov lus nug tshwj xeeb, tsis muaj cov ntsiab lus tsis tseem ceeb uas nws tsis thov. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog me, feem ntau yog cov lus nug cuam tshuam nrog cov xwm txheej tshwj xeeb: cev xeeb tub ntawm leej niam, pom kev xeeb tub ntawm tus menyuam ntawm kev sib deev sib deev, sib deev tsiaj lossis niam txiv ua rau poob siab, thiab lwm yam. Feem ntau nws yog qhov zoo los teb cov lus nug rau tus menyuam: koj xav li cas? koj xav li cas txog nws? Ntxiv rau Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab qhov tseeb nws xav paub thiab yog vim li cas, thiab raws li qhov no los ua kev sib tham. Tsis txhob tshaj nrog cov ntaub ntawv tsis tsim nyog.

Yog tias koj tab tom tham nrog tus tub hluas thiab ntshai tias koj tus menyuam yuav muaj kev sib deev ntxov dhau, ntseeg kuv - koj yuav tsis txwv nws nrog cov ntaub ntawv cuav. Qhov tseeb yog, kev sib deev muaj kev lom zem, noj qab nyob zoo, thiab noj qab nyob zoo. Koj ua qhov no. Koj tsis xav kom tus menyuam xav nrog qhov txaus ntshai uas nws niam thiab txiv (tus niam txiv) raug kev txom nyem lossis ua qee yam qias neeg lossis mob.

Yog li nws yog qhov tseem ceeb los piav qhia tias kev sib deev yuav tsum yog los ntawm kev pom zoo tso cai, thaum nws zoo siab rau ob leeg, uas koj tuaj yeem nres txhua lub sijhawm, ntawm qhov kev thov ntawm ob sab, qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb thiab zoo. Thiab qhov uas koj yuav tsum tau npaj rau kev sib tham zoo li no. Vim tias nws yog qhov tseem ceeb, zoo heev, thiab sib raug zoo heev. Tom qab tag nrho, peb tab tom tham txog peb lub cev, uas peb nyiam thiab txaus siab. Feem ntau, txhua qhov xwm txheej, suav nrog kev loj hlob, tsis tshwm sim sai sai. Thiab menyuam yaus nkag siab qhov no. Kuv nquag hnov los ntawm cov hluas: "Peb tau sib tham tau ob xyoos, tab sis peb tseem tsis tau npaj txhij."Ntseeg kuv, koj cov menyuam txaus thiab xav tau qee yam zoo rau lawv tus kheej! Lawv xav tau kev lom zem. Qhov no yog qhov qhia lawv mus.

3 … Yog tias koj tau ntsib kev yuam deev, tom qab qhov teeb meem no nyuaj dua. Nco ntsoov, qhov no tsis yog koj qhov txhaum. Kev tsim txom kev sib deev feem ntau yog kev ua phem, kev txaj muag, nws tsis yog kev sib deev. Tsis txhob yuam kev tham txog kev sib deev thiab kev sib raug zoo nrog tham txog kev ua phemYog tias koj xav tias koj qhov kev paub dhau los ntawm kev ua phem yuav cuam tshuam qhov koj hais, tom qab ntawv sab laj nrog tus kws tshaj lij lossis xa kev sib tham rau lwm tus.

4. Nco ntsoov tias koj tus menyuam tej zaum yuav tau muaj kev sib deev. Nws yuav tsis tas qhia koj txog nws. … Xijpeem, tsis txiav txim … Txawm hais tias nws zoo li koj tias nws yog ntxov thiab tsis raug. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nyob nrog tus menyuam thiab nkag siab qhov xwm txheej. Yog tias qhov no nyuaj rau koj, tham nrog tus kws tshaj lij, nyeem txog nws. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tus menyuam paub tias nws muaj koj qhov kev txhawb nqa thiab koj nyob ntawm nws ib sab, txawm tias nws ua yuam kev lossis tsis meej pem. Kev rau txim thiab txwv tsis pub rub tawm thiab yuam koj kom thim rov qab rau koj tus kheej. Ua tsis taus pa thiab mloog.

5 … Liab qab … Yog tias koj tus menyuam yaus tau pom liab qab (yog tias koj xav tias tsis yog, muaj feem yuav yog koj yuam kev), tom qab ntawv nws tsim nyog hais tias porn yog yeeb yaj kiab. Thiab zoo li hauv txhua zaj yeeb yaj kiab, txhua yam hauv nws yog ua piv txwv, thiab tsis zoo li hauv lub neej. Qhov sib txawv tseem ceeb yog: qhov loj me (tshwj xeeb cov ces kaum, kev ua haujlwm, thiab lwm yam), lub sijhawm sib deev (cov neeg ua yeeb yam siv cov tshuaj tshwj xeeb, tseem muaj kev kho, thiab lwm yam), xwm txheej - txawm li cas los xij, cov kais dej feem ntau tsis xav tias yuav zoo nkauj hauv tus cwj mem. Muaj kev nruj kev tsiv ntau hauv kev saib duab liab qab. Raws li kev tshawb fawb, ntau tus tub ntxhais hluas uas saib ntau porn thiab masturbated muaj teeb meem tau erections hauv kev sib deev tiag.

6. Pw ua niam txiv. Contrary to nrov ntseeg nyob rau hauv Soviet yav dhau los, kev txiav txim siab tus kheej yog ib txwm thiab tsis muaj teeb meem rau kev noj qab haus huv. Cov ntxhais masturbate ib yam thiab uas yog ib yam nkaus. Kev hluas yog lub sijhawm ntawm cov tshuaj hormones tawg. Xav rau koj tus kheej, uas yog qhov zoo dua - los ua kev zoo siab thaum muaj hnub nyoog 13 xyoos lossis maj nrawm mus nrhiav tus khub? …

7. Muaj ntau phau ntawv zoo txog kev sib deev rau menyuam yaus thiab hluas. Muab tso rau ntawm txee. Nrog menyuam yaus, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau saib ua ke thiab piav qhia.

Ruth Dorum