2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Tej zaum koj tau hnov tias kev xav yuav tsum tau hais tawm, lawv tsis tuaj yeem khaws cia rau ntawm koj tus kheej, tab sis ntawm qhov tod tes, kev xav raug mob, koj tsis tuaj yeem teb nrog kev ua phem rau kev ua phem. Lawv kuj sau hais tias kev ua phem yog ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Yuav ua li cas txog txhua qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb no?
Tau kawg, kev xav yuav tsum tau hais tawm, tab sis qhov twg? Kev qhia ntawm qee tus ua rau peb nyob ze, lwm tus ntxiv. Qhov no yuav yog qhov kawg ntawm kab lus, tab sis ua ntej, cia peb xam seb qhov npau taws yog dab tsi thiab kev ua phem yog dab tsi.
Kev ua phem yog kev ua kom raug mob - hais lus lossis lub cev. Kev npau taws yog qhov kev xav uas tuaj yeem hais tawm hauv ntau txoj hauv kev, xws li kev ua phem. Ntxiv mus, kev ua phem yog, muab nws maj mam, tsis yog txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws los qhia kev npau taws.
Yog li, kev ua phem, kuv rov hais dua, yog qhov kev nqis tes ua rau hais lus phem lossis ua phem rau lub cev. Yog tias peb ntsuas ntau yam kev ua phem rau ntawm qhov ntsuas raws li ntawm 1 txog 10, tom qab ntawv cov ntawv hnyav tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua phem rau lub cev mus rau kev tua neeg yuav yog raws li "kaum", qhov chaw ntawm "tsib" yuav muaj kev hloov pauv ntawm kev hais lus mus rau lub cev kev ua phem nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm thawb. Hauv thaj tsam ntawm ib mus rau plaub lub ntsiab lus, yuav muaj "cov khoom siv hluav taws xob" feem ntau nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo, uas yog nyob ntawm kev muaj peev xwm, kev txawj ntse thiab kev paub ntawm koj tus khub / tus txij nkawm / tus txij nkawm: lus tsis txaus ntseeg, lus nug tsis txaus ntseeg, hais lus tsis txaus ntseeg, tsis txaus ntseeg, "zoo… ", kev piav qhia dav dav -" ntawm no txhua tus ntawm koj zoo li ntawd ", kev sib piv -" koj zoo li koj txiv "," thiab koj niam ua zaub mov zoo dua ", dov lub qhov muag, grimacing, tsa koj lub suab, qw, tsis xav tau lus qhia, ntsiag to, tsis quav ntsej - ib qho ntawm kev txaus ntshai tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua phem, tom qab ntawd kuv yuav piav qhia vim li cas, thuam, quaj.
Ntau tus, tau pom qee qhov ntawm cov npe hauv daim ntawv no, yuav xav tsis thoob - qhov teeb meem loj yog dab tsi? Thiab qhov tseeb yog - hauv kev hais lus nruj, ntau nyob ntawm kev nkag siab - qee yam tuaj yeem ua rau mob tsawg dua, qee yam ntxiv. Yog li ntawd, qee tus kws tshawb fawb ntseeg tias kev hais lus phem tsis tuaj yeem suav tias yog kev ua phem, tsuas muaj kev ua phem rau lub cev, uas ua rau muaj kev phom sij meej thiab meej. Tab sis, peb yuav tsum tsis paub qhov tseeb yog txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws los ua phem rau ib tus neeg nyob ze peb, yuav ua li cas "pry" nws, nws mob npaum li cas? Tau kawg, nws tshwm sim lwm txoj hauv kev - qhov peb pom tias yog kev ua phem, qhov tseeb, tsis tau txhais tias yog kev ua phem - peb tau nqis los ntawm peb tus kheej "ua rau". Tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum nrhiav "Vim li cas koj thiaj qhia kuv tam sim no" lossis "koj txhais li cas?"
Kev ua phem tuaj yeem ua haujlwm lub hom phiaj ntawm kev tswj hwm lub siab lub ntsws. Koj qw ntawm ib tus neeg thiab nws tam sim ntawd yooj yim dua. Hauv kev coj tus cwj pwm, sib deev thiab kis las, endorphins raug tso tawm - lawv muab kev nkag siab lub ntsiab lus hauv lub neej. Lawm, txoj hauv kev tswj hwm lub xeev nyob rau lub sijhawm ntev tsis ua haujlwm - kev sib raug zoo tsis zoo, uas ua rau lawv rov mus rau kev ua phem dua, uas rov ua rau kev sib raug zoo tsis zoo thiab lub voj voog raug kaw.
Hauv qhov no, kev ua phem ua raws li lub vijtsam tom qab uas muaj kev xav txawv sib txawv tau zais - kev tu siab, kev xav ntev, kev ntxhov siab, kev ntshai, kev tu siab … Kev ua phem dhau los ua kev daws teeb meem - ib txoj hauv kev los daws cov kev nyuaj nyuaj, uas peb yuav tham txog hauv qab no.
Tam sim no hais txog kev npau taws, ntxiv, npau taws yog qhov kev xav uas tuaj yeem hais tawm. Feem ntau peb qhia kev npau taws los ntawm kev ua phem. Tab sis nws kuj tuaj yeem hais tawm, piv txwv li, los ntawm cov lus: "Tam sim no kuv npau taws rau koj vim yog …". Hais tias tsis yog "koj yog tshis." "Koj yog tus tshis" yog kev ua phem, nws yog kev thuam, hais txog C ntawm kaum-point scale. Hauv kev hais lus thuam, kev npau taws tseem nyob, tab sis yog hais txog kev npau taws hauv cov lus, nws tuaj yeem ploj mus. Txawm li cas los xij, kev qhia npau taws tsis zoo rau kev nce ntawm kev ua phem - nce "qhab nia" ntawm kev ua phem rau hauv kev sib cav - thaum tus neeg tham tau teb rau qhov tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm ib lub ntsiab lus nrog sarcasm los ntawm ob lub ntsiab lus, ua raws los ntawm kev thuam los ntawm peb lub ntsiab lus, thiab ntxiv mus txog xya txog yim ntsiab lus.
Kev npau taws yog kev xav uas tsim nyog txhawm rau tiv thaiv qee yam, yam tseem ceeb. Peb tiv thaiv dab tsi? Peb ntshai dab tsi? Ib tus neeg yog kev sib raug zoo, rau leej twg qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog lwm tus neeg, kev nyob ze nrog nws, kev hlub. Txij thaum yau los, tus txiv neej me tau tsim kev hlub nrog nws niam thiab txiv - txhawm rau kom tau txais kev nkag siab ntawm kev nyab xeeb, kev nyob nyab xeeb, "chaw nyab xeeb". Thaum tus menyuam ua txhaum, tso tseg, tsis quav ntsej, tus menyuam hnov ntshai. Feem ntau ntawm txhua qhov, nws xav rov qab txuas, kev nyob ze nrog nws niam thiab txiv. Thaum peb loj tuaj, peb tsim kev sib raug zoo, kev sib raug zoo nrog tus khub / tus txij nkawm / tus txij nkawm. Qhov zoo ntawm qhov txuas no dhau los ua qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Rau ib tus neeg hauv ob peb leeg, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom xav tau, muaj txiaj ntsig, muaj txiaj ntsig, hlub, hwm. Thaum tsis muaj tag nrho cov no dag qhov kev ntshai tshaj plaws - poob kev sib raug zoo, kev sib raug zoo, kev hlub. Nws yog cov kev xav no uas yog qhov laj thawj uas peb npau taws nrog tus khub thaum nws zoo li rau peb tias peb tsis tseem ceeb, tsis tseem ceeb, tsis hlub nws. Kev npau taws tshwm sim los tiv thaiv, kho qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau peb. Yog li ntawd, kev npau taws yog ib qho kev xav thib ob, thawj qhov kev xav ntawm kev koom nrog tus khub. Tom qab ib qho kev thuam uas ua rau npau taws, poob ntawm qee lub ntsiab lus hauv qhov muag ntawm tus khub.
Kev npau taws / ua phem phem yuav yog tib txoj hauv kev kom tau txais lus teb los ntawm koj tus khub. Nrhiav thiab saib cov vis dis aus ntawm qhov kev sim uas niam tsis teb nrog lub ntsej muag rau tus menyuam qhov kev ua, nws lub ntsej muag zoo li khov - zoo li lub npog ntsej muag. Dab tsi tshwm sim rau tus menyuam - thaum xub thawj nws tau sim ua kom nws lub ntsej muag luag ntxhi kom rov zoo li nws cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, nws ntshai tias lawv tsis ua rau nws, nws tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb, nws xav rov qab txuas. Tias yog vim li cas kev tsis paub hauv kev sib raug zoo yog ib qho ntawm cov ntawv phem tshaj ntawm kev ua phem. Kev npau taws tuaj yeem yog ib txoj hauv kev kom tau txais cov tshuaj tiv thaiv rov qab, tau txais cov lus teb, ib qho lus teb zoo dua li tsis quav ntsej. Qab lub suab quaj, npau taws thiab ua phem phem phem, tej zaum muaj kev ntshai tias tus khub tawm mus, tso tseg, yog qhov tsis sib xws, kev sib txuas nrog nws tau ploj mus.
Yog li npau taws yog kev xav thib ob. Thawj qhov kev xav yog lwm qhov, uas qhia txog kev poob ntawm kev sib txuas nrog tus hlub tseem ceeb, kev ntxhov siab, vim tias qhov kev sib txuas tau tawg. Peb xav tias tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb thaum nws zoo li peb tias peb tsis tseem ceeb, uas peb tsis tau txais txiaj ntsig, uas peb tsis xav tau, uas peb tsis tseem ceeb rau ib tus neeg. Kev ntshai tshwm sim sab hauv, thiab peb siv zog rov qab txuas, qee zaum nrog npau taws. Ib sab ntawm kev npau taws, ib txwm muaj thawj qhov kev xav uas ua rau nws.
Yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws los qhia tsis yog kev npau taws, tab sis thawj qhov kev xav uas tob dua li kev npau taws, uas npau taws yog qhov tshwm sim, qhov tshwm sim. Thiab nws tseem ceeb dua kom tsis txhob "Kuv npau taws rau koj," tab sis "Kuv xav tias kuv tsis tseem ceeb rau koj, thiab kuv ntshai vim qhov no," tsis yog "Koj npau taws rau kuv," tab sis "thaum koj hais cov lus no, zoo li rau kuv tias koj tsis yog koj tsis txaus siab rau kuv, thiab koj tsis xav tau kuv. " Tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem tau txais kev tsis txaus siab los ntawm koj ob niam txiv, uas yuav ntxiv dag zog rau kev sib raug zoo. Kev nthuav tawm ntawm kev xav coj ua ke, tab sis kev qhia ntawm thawj qhov kev xav.
Tau kawg, qhov no xav tau kev lees paub ntawm qhov tsis muaj zog, kev vam khom ntawm ob peb leeg, tab sis qhov no yog qhov tseeb qhov kev sib raug zoo yog dab tsi. Peb vam khom ib leeg. Qhov no yog ob qho uas tsis muaj zog thiab muaj zog.
Kev sib raug zoo yog ib yam tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tau saib xyuas.
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Ntawm "Zaj Awakening" lub cev-lub zog ua kis las chav kawm, tom qab kev xav, thaum lub cev muaj zog thiab tus ntsuj plig nyob ntsiag to, peb txav mus rau satsang: sib tham txog lub ntsiab lus thiab qhov tseeb ntawm lub neej . Lub sijhawm no, raws li txoj cai, cov lus nug ib txwm tau hnov (nws yuav suab txawv, tab sis lub ntsiab lus ib txwm zoo ib yam):
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Sab nrauv, npau taws heev yog qhov cuam tshuam zoo heev, kev soj ntsuam ntawm qhov tshwm sim uas ua rau muaj kev npau suav ntawm nws qhov kev puas tsuaj rau cov neeg koom nrog hauv kev sib cuag. Txawm li cas los xij, npau taws ua haujlwm ua haujlwm kom tau txais yam koj xav tau hauv kev sib raug zoo.
