2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Tus menyuam loj hlob thiab txhim kho. Thiab dab tsi nag hmo tsis txaus siab rau nws tseem, hnub no nws xav tau.
Tab sis tsis tas li, nyob deb ntawm ib txwm, tus menyuam tuaj yeem tso cai thiab tso cai txhua yam.
Txij li thaum peb nyob hauv ib lub zej zog, thiab lub zej zog no muaj raws li qee txoj cai, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los qhia rau menyuam yaus cov cai no. Qhia thiab qhia nws tias ntxiv rau nws nyiam thiab xav tau, kuj tseem muaj kev txaus siab thiab xav tau ntawm lwm tus neeg.
Tias yog tias tus menyuam xav ua qee yam, thiab niam lossis txiv xav so lossis ua lwm yam, tom qab ntawd nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau pom zoo yuav ua li cas thiab hauv ib qib twg qhov no tuaj yeem ua tiav.
Tias yog tus menyuam xav tau qee yam, tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem nug txog nws.
Yuav ua li cas yog tias tus menyuam xav ua si nrog lwm tus menyuam cov khoom ua si, tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem nug lwm tus menyuam yog tias koj tuaj yeem ua si nrog nws cov khoom ua si. Los ntawm kev muab rov qab qee yam ntawm koj tus kheej.
Thiab qhov kev thov tsis yog qhov lav tias lwm tus yuav faib nws. Tej zaum nws tus kheej xav ua si nrog cov khoom ua si tam sim no, thiab thaum nws tsis xav qhia nws. Nws muaj cai, cov khoom ua si yog nws.
Thiab tus menyuam nws tus kheej muaj cai ib yam nkaus - qhia nws cov khoom ua si lossis tsis qhia, yog nws tus kheej xav ua si nrog nws.
Zoo, dua li qhov no, muaj qee yam uas tsuas yog tsim kev puas tsuaj rau tus menyuam. Thiab tom qab ntawd nws tseem ceeb heev rau tus menyuam tham txog nws.
Piv txwv li, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau tus menyuam mus pw hauv lub sijhawm kom nws tau so kom raws sijhawm thiab rov zoo.
Thiab yog tias tus menyuam tawm tsam thiab tsis xav mus pw, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb los kho nws rau qhov no.
Nws yog qhov zoo dua los ua qhov no los ntawm I-messages.
Peb tuaj yeem hais tias koj txhawj xeeb tias tus menyuam twb nkees lawm.
Thiab koj xav kom tus menyuam zoo siab txog dab tsi.
Thiab yog li koj caw nws mus pw.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom cia tus menyuam ua tiav cov txheej txheem uas nws tau pib.
Piv txwv li, nws tab tom ua si thiab nws koom nrog hauv qhov kev ua si.
Thiab yog tias koj tam sim nres nws qhov kev ua si thiab ua rau nws mus pw, tom qab ntawd nws yuav zoo siab heev thiab yuav tsis tuaj yeem tsaug zog sai.
Nws yog qhov zoo dua kom tus menyuam ua tiav qhov kev ua si los ntawm kev pom zoo nrog nws ntau npaum li cas koj txaus siab muab nws ua kom tiav qhov kev ua si.
Thiab thaum nws ua tiav qhov kev ua si, nws yuav maj mam hnov koj cov lus thov kom mus pw.
Nws tseem yog qhov tseem ceeb rau tus menyuam kom tau txais koj cov lus tawm tswv yim txog nws cov kev ua.
Yog tias tus menyuam ntaus koj, nws tsis muaj teeb meem, hauv kev ua si lossis lwm yam, qhia nws tias koj mob thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntaus lwm tus. Muaj tseeb, nws yuav tshwm sim uas koj yuav tsum hais qhov no ntau dua ib zaug thiab ntau dua ib qho xwm txheej.
Tab sis nws tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tham txog nws.
Tsis tas yuav hla mus rau kev ua pauj.
Vim tias yog tus menyuam raug ntaus, nws yuav tau txais lub tswv yim tias tsoo rov qab yog qhov qub. Thiab qhov no yuav tsim lub voj voog phem ntawm kev ua pauj.
Koj kuv - kuv koj, thiab lwm yam. puag ncig
Yog li ntawd, hauv kuv lub tswv yim, txoj kev tawm ntawm qhov no tsuas yog piav qhia tias nws tsis tuaj yeem kov yeej txhua tus tsiaj muaj sia.
Tib yam siv rau txhua yam muaj sia - tib neeg, tsiaj txhu, kab, txawm tias nroj tsuag.
Tom qab tag nrho, peb txhua tus yog ib feem ntawm xwm, thiab peb txhua tus xav tau hauv ntiaj teb no.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los qhia rau tus menyuam tias nws tseem ceeb, tab sis tsis yog nws tseem ceeb.
Hauv tsev neeg, nws tseem ceeb rau lwm tus, thiab tib lub sijhawm, lwm tus hauv tsev neeg kuj tseem ceeb - niam, txiv, pog, pog, yawg, phauj thiab txiv ntxawm.
Qhov no txhais tau tias kev xav tau, xav tau thiab nyiam ntawm tus menyuam yog qhov tseem ceeb.
Tab sis kev ntshaw, kev xav tau thiab kev txaus siab ntawm lwm tus hauv tsev neeg kuj tseem ceeb.
Piv txwv li, tus menyuam xav mus kev taug kev, thiab leej niam xav so. Tom qab ntawd nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau tus menyuam los tham txog qhov no thiab pom zoo yuav ua li cas, piv txwv li, taug kev tom qab leej niam tau so lossis nrog lwm tus los ntawm cov neeg nyob ze.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tshaj tawm rau tus menyuam tias ntxiv rau nws, tau kawg, qhov kev xav tau tseem ceeb, kev xav tau thiab kev txaus siab, kuj tseem muaj kev xav tau, xav tau thiab nyiam ntawm lwm tus neeg.
Qhov no siv rau tus menyuam txoj kev sib raug zoo hauv zej zog.
Thiab yog li lwm tus neeg ntawm tus menyuam yog leej twg.
Cov no yog lwm cov menyuam yaus hauv pab pawg kawm qib pib thiab cov menyuam nyob hauv ib pab pawg twg uas tus menyuam nyob.
Kuv xav hais txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm qhov tseeb tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los cog rau hauv menyuam yaus lub tswv yim uas peb txhua tus nyob nrog kev thaj yeeb ntawm tib neeg.
Thiab yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb los txiav txim siab koj tus kheej thiab lwm tus neeg.
Ib qho ntxiv, Kuv xav kov rau ib qho tseem ceeb ntxiv.
Thaum peb tsis lees paub qee yam rau tus menyuam, tus menyuam tuaj yeem ua rau peb "yuav tsum tsis txhob" nrog kev xav phem - quaj, quaj, thiab lwm yam.
Nov yog qhov ib txwm muaj tshwm sim ntawm tus menyuam uas nws tsis tuaj yeem tau txais yam nws xav tau.
Thiab tam sim no lub sijhawm no nws tsis zoo, nyuaj rau nws.
Thiab lub sijhawm no nws xav tau kev txhawb nqa.
Nyob qhov twg?
Koj puas nco koj tus kheej hauv qhov xwm txheej thaum koj xav tau qee yam, suav nrog qee yam thiab tam sim ntawd koj tsis tau txais?
Tej zaum ib tus neeg tau tshem tawm lub rooj sib tham tseem ceeb rau koj, lossis koj tsis tau txais cov nyiaj tshwj xeeb uas koj tau suav rau, thiab lwm yam.
Peb xav tau dab tsi hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no?
Yuav tsum hnov.
Hauv qhov uas lawv khuv leej peb, tias lawv qhia peb tias lawv nkag siab tias tam sim no phem npaum li cas thiab tu siab tam sim no thiab peb chim siab.
Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los txhawb tus menyuam nyob rau lub sijhawm ntawd, qhia nws tias koj nkag siab nws, tias koj thiab, yuav chim rau nws qhov chaw.
Thiab qhov kev lees paub ntawm koj tus menyuam qhov kev paub dhau los pab nws ua neej nyob dhau ntawm nws txoj kev npau taws thiab tu siab vim qhov tseeb tias nws tsis tuaj yeem tau txais yam nws xav tau.
Thiab nws txoj kev xav tau hloov pauv mus rau hauv kev nyob ntsiag to thiab kev xyiv fab uas nws tau hnov thiab nkag siab.
Thiab yog li, los ntawm kev txhawb nqa tus menyuam, koj pab nws ib yam.
Thiab koj txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws yog qhov sov thiab ntseeg siab.
Coob leej neeg nug txog hnub nyoog li cas los qhia txoj cai thiab txwv rau tus menyuam?
Hauv kuv lub tswv yim, raws li cov xwm txheej tshwm sim.
Thiab feem ntau, tus menyuam yuav tau hais ib yam thiab piav qhia thiab txhawb nqa nws tib lub sijhawm ntau dua ib zaug.
Tab sis, hauv kuv lub tswv yim, qhov no tsuas yog txoj hauv kev tsim kom muaj kev noj qab haus huv ntawm tus menyuam thiab koj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws.
Lwm qhov tseem ceeb, hauv kuv lub tswv yim.
Tus menyuam, raws li txoj cai, nqus tau txhua yam uas nws pom hauv tus cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws. Yog li ntawd, cov cai uas peb xav qhia rau peb tus menyuam yuav tsum ua raws peb.
Tom qab ntawd tus menyuam yuav tsis muaj qhov tsis ntseeg tias peb cov lus tsis sib xws nrog peb cov kev ua.
Yog li ntawd, nws yuav yog qhov zoo yog tias cov cai no cuam tshuam nrog cov cai tau lees paub hauv peb tsev neeg thiab hauv peb ib puag ncig.
Thiab ib qho tseem ceeb ntxiv.
Yog tias koj tau txiav txim siab ua raws qee txoj cai, nws yuav yog qhov zoo los ua raws nws tas li.
Txwv tsis pub, yog hnub no peb tso cai yam uas peb tau txwv yav dhau los, tom qab ntawd tus menyuam muaj kev txaj muag thiab xav rov ua nws dua lwm zaus thiab xyuas kom tseeb tias qhov no yog li ntawd.
Thiab yog tias qhov no tsis tuaj yeem kwv yees txhua lub sijhawm, tom qab ntawd tus menyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab.
Thiab qhov no tiv thaiv nws los ntawm kev txhim kho ib txwm muaj.
Nov yog txhua yam rau hnub no.
Yog tias koj tseem muaj lus nug txog cov ncauj lus no, Kuv yuav zoo siab los teb lawv.
Koj muaj lus nug dab tsi hauv kev tsa menyuam?
Kuv xav tau ntau tus menyuam muaj kev ntseeg siab thiab ua tiav raws li muaj peev xwm nyob hauv ntiaj teb no.
Kuv xav tau ntau tus niam txiv thiab menyuam kom ntau li ntau tau kom muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab muaj kev zoo siab.
Yog li ntawd ntau li ntau thiab zoo siab cov neeg laus li sai tau yuav nyob ib puag ncig.
Tus kws kho paj hlwb, tus kws paub txog menyuam yaus Larisa Velmozhina.
Pom zoo:
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Rov qab xav txog kev lom ntawm peb txoj haujlwm feem ntau thiab kev sib cuag rau pej xeem tshwj xeeb, Kuv nco qab qhov xwm txheej qhia. Nws piav qhia txog qhov teeb meem kev tshaj lij uas tsis zoo ib yam, uas sib haum rau tib qho kev daws teeb meem tib yam.
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Lub ntiaj teb tab tom hloov pauv, thiab niam txiv los ntawm txhua sab tau txhawb kom qhia lawv cov menyuam yaus tsis yog, ua tib zoo nyeem, suav thiab suav, tab sis kuj tseem muaj tswv yim, kev xav tseem ceeb … Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, cov niam txiv niaj hnub no lawv tus kheej xav tias qaug zog thiab muaj kev nyuaj siab los ntawm tsis muaj sij hawm.
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Thaum lub tswv yim nrhiav kev pab puas siab ntsws paub tab, ntawm ib tus neeg nug cov lus nug: "Puas yog kev kho hlwb puas daws kuv qhov teeb meem?" Thiab los ntawm lub sijhawm cov lus nug no tshwm sim, lub ntiaj teb dav lub vev xaib twb tau npaj los muab ntau cov lus teb rau txhua tus saj.
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Muaj ib hnub, kuv tus tub xeeb ntxwv uas muaj yim xyoo tau nug kuv cov lus, kuv yuav ua dab tsi? "Psychoanalyst," Kuv hais, thiab nres, tsis saib ntawm nws ob lub qhov muag. - Nws zoo li cas? - ua raws cov lus nug muaj tseeb.
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Ntau tus ntawm kuv cov neeg siv khoom hais tias mus rau kws kho mob hlwb ua rau lawv ntshai thiab tsis xis nyob. Lub tswv yim heev ntawm mus rau tus kws tshaj lij tau ua rau lawv mob taub hau thiab ntxhov siab. Tab sis qhov xwm txheej tam sim no hauv lawv lub neej tau txaus ntshai dua, tias lawv tau npaj ua ib yam dab tsi los txo qee qhov kev txom nyem thiab, thaum kawg, kom tawm ntawm lub qhov tob ntawm cov teeb meem uas ua rau lawv.
