2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Yuav ua li cas txhawm rau txheeb xyuas tus narcissist zais?
Tsis muaj txoj kev!
Thiab qhov no yog qhov xwm txheej ntawm "khoom" ntawm nws mloog.
Peb txhua tus paub los ntawm cov dab neeg hais tias tus narcissist poob rau hauv kev hlub tsis nrog nws tus kheej, tab sis nrog nws tus kheej xav. Yog li ntawd, rau kev qhuas tus kheej, nws xav tau "dai khaub ncaws" - tus neeg uas nws txuas nrog "daim iav" ntawm nws qhov kev kwv yees. Thiab tseem muaj lwm tus neeg, hauv tus neeg, zoo li hauv lub thoob khib nyiab, pov nws qhov kev ntxub.
Tus narcissist zais cia tuaj yeem yog tus ua siab zoo, coj tus, nyiam poj niam. Nws ci ci ci, faib lawv rau cov neeg nyob ze, mus rau lub tsev teev ntuj, thiab ib feem kaum ib txwm.
Thiab tsis muaj leej twg paub tias muaj ib tus neeg [rau tus neeg ua phem rau ib tus "neeg raug tsim txom" txaus] uas nws dai [cov phiaj xwm] cov yam ntxwv uas nws tsis lees paub hauv nws tus kheej - kev ua phem, kev khib, kev ntshaw, thiab lwm yam. Tus poj niam hloov qhov tseeb ntawm "xaiv ib qho" [roj teeb] los ntawm kev liam nws ntawm txhua qhov HIS kev txhaum.
Tus "kwv" tsis paub tias nws tab tom raug kev xav thiab puas siab puas ntsws. Tsuas yog nws xav tias nws nyuaj rau nws, tab tom nrhiav los ntawm qhov kev xav tas li, nws feem ntau xav quaj lossis txawm tias khiav mus.
Tab sis kev nkag siab ntawm lub luag haujlwm tseem tseem nruj nrog nws raws li tus neeg hais lus phem.
Coob leej "cov neeg raug tsim txom" tsis nkag siab tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim. Hnov kev cia siab. Yog li ntawd, lawv feem ntau raug daig hauv kab mob kev xav, kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj [cawv, yeeb tshuaj, ua si].
"Tus neeg raug tsim txom" tsuas yog ib tus hauv tsev neeg [tus txiv, menyuam, tus vauv]. Cov luag haujlwm hloov pauv yog tias "cov ntsiab lus" tau tawm mus lossis tawm hauv tsev neeg. Piv txwv li, tus menyuam nyiam tuaj yeem hloov mus ua "scapegoat".
Tus narcissist ua tib zoo zais qhov tsaus ntuj. Nws ib txwm tso rau ntawm "duab" - yog li tsis muaj leej twg yuav twv txog nws qhov tseem ceeb. Txawm nws tus kheej. Tab sis, nyob ze rau lub hnub nyoog muaj txiaj ntsig, nws nyuaj dua los tuav lub npog ntsej muag. Nws subsides ntau thiab ntau zaus. Lub sijhawm ntawd, "lub ntsej muag" ntawm tus neeg ua phem raug nthuav tawm thiab cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws pom nws. Tus narcissist npau taws, txwv kev ua phem, tab sis muaj ib hnub nws tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog kev xav thiab qhia nws tus kheej tiag. Thiab yav tom ntej, nws tuaj yeem "tawm tsam" qhib.
Nws hlub tsis tau. Tsis yog koj tus kheej, tsis yog koj tus khub, tsis yog koj cov menyuam.
Yog tias koj nyob ib puag ncig tus neeg zoo li no, txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws los saib xyuas koj tus kheej yog kom tawg nrog lawv.
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