Kev Pab Qhov Muag: Yuav Ua Li Cas Ua Lub Neej Tsis Muaj Kev Tu Siab

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Kuv mam qhia koj tias yuav ua dab tsi. Muaj ntau txoj hauv kev zoo thiab cov hau kev rau qhov no. Ib qho ntawm cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb hauv cov txheej txheem no yog kev pom ntuj, piv txwv li. ntawm daim ntawv thiab ua siab ncaj

Lub neej tshuav lub log

Yog li, cia peb kos lub log ntawm lub neej tshuav nyiaj li cas. Peb faib lub log rau hauv qhov chaw uas muaj qee qhov tam sim no hauv koj lub neej: tsev neeg, kev ua haujlwm, kev noj qab haus huv, tsos, paub tus kheej - txhua yam uas los rau hauv koj lub siab, thiab txhua yam uas yog hnub no. Qhov tshwm sim yuav tsum yog hom "ncuav qab zib" ntawm tus kheej lub neej.

Txhua "thooj" ntawm lub ncuav yuav tsum tau ntsuas ntawm 10-point scale, uas yog, koj txaus siab npaum li cas hauv txhua cheeb tsam ntawm koj lub neej. Saib lub log no thiab qib ntawm kev txaus siab, nws twb pom tau zoo heev hauv nws tus kheej.

Ntxiv mus, tom qab koj ntsuas ntawm kaum-kis ntsuas, saib thaj chaw twg ntawm lub neej, yog tias nws muaj txog 10 cov ntsiab lus, yuav tuaj yeem txhawb nqa tag nrho koj lwm thaj chaw mus rau qhov siab tshaj plaws, piv txwv li. leej twg yuav dhau los ua tus coj?

Eisenhower Matrix

Tam sim no cia tso tseg peb lub neej tshuav lub log rau tam sim no thiab siv Eisenhower matrix. Feem ntau nws yog siv rau kev lag luam, tab sis nws kuj tsim nyog rau peb lub hom phiaj.

Muaj 4 lub xwmfab hauv nws:

• tseem ceeb-ceev,
• tsis muaj teeb meem ceev,
• tseem ceeb, tsis ceev,
• tsis nrawm, tsis tseem ceeb.

Tom ntej no, coj lub ntsej muag los ntawm lub log thiab teeb tsa lawv raws cov duab plaub no.

Piv txwv li, txoj haujlwm, nyob hauv cov xwm txheej twg koj yuav tso nws: qhov tseem ceeb-nrawm, tsis tseem ceeb-nrawm, thiab tsev neeg yuav mus qhov twg? Ntawd yog, txoj haujlwm ntawm no yog txhawm rau faib koj tus kheej raws li cov xwm txheej sib xws ntawm qhov xwm txheej ceev thiab qhov tseem ceeb.

Tom ntej no, saib, thaj chaw uas tau txhawb nqa tshaj plaws, nyob hauv lub xwmfab twg tam sim no? Puas yog nws nyob hauv qhov xwm txheej tseem ceeb? Yog tias nyob rau thawj theem txhua qhov chaw tau sau tseg ncaj ncees, zoo li nws yog lub neej tiag tiag, tom qab ntawd nyob rau theem no nws yuav tsum yog thaj tsam tseem ceeb, yog tias tsis yog, tom qab ntawd muaj laj thawj xav tias vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim?

Yog tias, piv txwv li, nyob rau thawj theem "ua haujlwm" dhau los ua thaj chaw txhawb nqa, thiab qhov thib ob, nws tsis poob rau hauv "qhov tseem ceeb-nrawm" lossis "tseem ceeb-tsis nrawm" xwmfab. Teb koj tus kheej rau lo lus nug: nws puas tseem ceeb? Thiab txhawb?

Txoj haujlwm yog xaiv tus kheej uas, raws li koj lub siab xav, yuav poob rau hauv kev txhawb nqa tus kheej thiab cov xwm txheej tseem ceeb hauv ob theem.

Raws li txoj cai no, feem ntau hauv kev ua lag luam, cov neeg lag luam tuaj yeem faib lawv lub sijhawm thiab haujlwm kom raug.

Qhov zoo tshaj, koj yuav tsum nyob hauv lub xwm txheej "tseem ceeb-tsis nrawm", vim qhov no ua rau nws muaj peev xwm ua neej nyob ntawm qhov yooj yim thiab ua tej yam tseem ceeb.

Yog tias, piv txwv li, koj "cov nyiaj tau los" poob rau hauv "qhov tseem ceeb-tsis-nrawm" xwm txheej, koj tuaj yeem saib xyuas koj tsev neeg tau yooj yim, lossis nyiam ua haujlwm, lossis tseem saib mus rau koj tus kheej kev lag luam, txij li cov nyiaj tau los ruaj khov tso cai rau koj kom nyob ntsiag to. txav mus rau qhov no.

Tab sis cov xwm txheej "tseem ceeb-maj" ua rau koj nyob hauv "hluav taws" tas li thiab daws teeb meem tseem ceeb ib zaug, maj nrawm. Nov yog tib yam "nyiaj tau los", yog tias koj poob rau hauv "xwm txheej tseem ceeb" xwm txheej, koj tsis muaj txoj hauv kev rau kev txiav txim siab dawb, koj tsis tuaj yeem xaiv kev lag luam raws li qhov koj nyiam, koj yuav tsum xaiv txoj haujlwm uas coj cov nyiaj tau los, qee zaum tsis txaus siab.

Koj twb tau txiav txim siab qhov twg koj lub ntsiab tseem ceeb nyob, tam sim no koj yuav tsum xav txog yuav ua li cas txav nws mus rau qhov "tseem ceeb-tsis nrawm" xwmfab. Qhov no yuav pab koj kom tau txais txiaj ntsig zoo tshaj plaws ntawm koj qhov kev nyob hauv cheeb tsam no, kom tau txais kev txaus siab tag nrho, tsis txhob maj mus qhov twg.

Yog tias koj tsev neeg nyob hauv "xwm txheej-tseem ceeb" xwm txheej. Qhov teeb meem twg yuav tsum tau daws hauv tsev neeg kom nws tuaj yeem txav mus rau hauv "qhov tseem ceeb-tsis-maj" kev yooj yim?

Yog tias "kev noj qab haus huv" nyob hauv cov xwm txheej ceev, dab tsi yuav tsum tau ua yav tom ntej thiab txuas ntxiv ua yav tom ntej kom nws tseem nyob hauv cov xwm txheej yooj yim?

Dilts 'pyramid ntawm qib logic

Nws tseem yog qhov tseem ceeb xav txog dab tsi yog thawj kauj ruam uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau kom koj qhov tseem ceeb (txhawb nqa) thaj tsam mus txog 10 cov ntsiab lus, uas yog, mus txog qhov siab tshaj plaws.

Thiab, ntxiv mus, siv Dilts pyramid ntawm cov qib kev xav ua tib zoo saib:

- Koj ib puag ncig thiab peev xwm ntau npaum li cas tuaj yeem pab koj nrog qhov no?

- nug koj tus kheej, koj yuav tsum ua dab tsi rau hnub tag kis kom txav mus rau qhov no?

- yog tias koj ua cov haujlwm no, koj yuav xav tias koj yog leej twg? Koj yuav xav li cas?

Ib qho kawg yog tias koj ua cov kauj ruam no:

- dab tsi yuav dhau los ua tau hauv koj lub neej? Dab tsi yuav hloov?

- thiab thaum koj nkag siab tias yuav hloov dab tsi hauv koj lub neej, koj yuav pom tias koj tus cwj pwm yuav zoo li cas, tom qab ntawv koj tuaj yeem dhau los ua leej twg?

- Koj yuav muaj peev xwm dab tsi thiab koj ib puag ncig yuav hloov li cas?

Thaum muaj kev xav tsis txaus siab, tsis muaj lub zog thiab kev txhawb siab rau kev nqis tes ua, feem ntau qhov no txhais tau tias peb nyob hauv qhov chaw tsis raug.

Raws li kev coj ua tau qhia, tsis yog txhua tus nkag siab qhov no ib zaug. Yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsum tam sim siv cov cuab yeej pom kev piav qhia saum toj no txhawm rau pom tag nrho daim duab zoo li nws yog tiag tiag, thiab tsis txhob zaum hauv kev xav thiab xav tsis thoob.

Lub sijhawm rov tshuaj xyuas qhov muaj nuj nqis yog qee yam uas sai dua lossis tom qab los rau txhua tus.