Kev Puas Siab Puas Ntsws Yog

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Yog tias lawv ntaus kuv, tom qab ntawd nws pom tseeb - muaj cov cim: pob txha, pob txha. Muaj qee yam los qhia rau tub ceev xwm, muaj qee yam pom rau koj tus kheej thiab nkag siab rau koj tus kheej, "Yog lawm, nws yog, Kuv yuav tsis tso cai ntxiv lawm."

Kev tsim txom kev puas siab puas ntsws nyuaj rau pom hauv koj tus kheej thiab kom paub txog, tab sis nws tawm kev raug mob raws li tom qab ntaus. Nov yog thaum lub khob tawg lawv tsis tham nrog menyuam yaus ntev "zaum hauv chav ib leeg thiab xav tias koj tau ua dab tsi." Nov yog thaum niam txiav nws cov ntsia hlau rau nqaij, nws mob hnyav, koj tsis tuaj yeem qw, nws mob thiab siv sijhawm ntev tos kom txog thaum lawv rov qab los me ntsis. Nov yog thaum kuv lub taub hau raug ntxuav nrog dej npau npau, vim "tiv thaiv khaub thuas." Thaum rau kev tsis mloog lus nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm tus menyuam lawv tsoo cov quav thiab hais "tom ntej koj". Cov nplais nplua nuj nyob ntawm kuv sab plhu.

Qhov no yog thaum muaj hnub nyoog kaum tsib xyoos koj tsis tuaj yeem yuav daim di ncauj, vim tias "koj yuav coj nws los rau ntawm lub xub pwg, curva." Nov yog thaum kuv tsis nco qab tso daim tiab hauv tsev kawm qib kindergarten, thiab koj tsis tuaj yeem rov qab mus "yog li koj yuav tau txais kev qhia kom tsis nco qab, thiab txhua tus menyuam yuav luag koj." Thiab kuv mus thiab paub tias kuv tsis tuaj yeem hloov dab tsi. Qhov no yog thaum txhua tus neeg muaj cov plaub hau thiab txiav plaub hau hauv qib kaum, thiab kuv muaj cov plaub hau, vim hais tias dua, "Kuv yuav coj nws mus rau hauv qab."

Kev puas siab puas ntsws yog thaum lub hauv caug tawg yuav tsum tau muab zais, vim tias "kuv niam yuav tu siab" thiab "nws tus kheej yuav raug liam", qhov no yog thaum mob khaub thuas raug kho nrog qej hauv lub qhov ntswg thiab haus cawv kom thoob lub ntsej muag thiab muaj hluav taws thaum hmo ntuj, ob lub qhov muag raug khi nrog lub nrawm. Koj tsis tuaj yeem tawm tsam, vim tias "niam yuav tawm hauv tsev". Lub siab xav hais tias nws haus kas fes ntawm tus phooj ywg rau peb lub tsev, tab sis lwm tus hais - lawv kos duab ntawm nws txoj kev tuag thiab "Kuv yuav liam rau qhov no, tau kawg." Nov yog thaum koj xav tau mus rau kws kho mob, thaum tsis muaj dab tsi mob, nws mob heev tom qab nws "ua haujlwm", tab sis koj yuav tsum ua siab ntev thiab nyob ntsiag to, vim "qhov no yog rau koj, koj dag, rau qhov zoo, ces koj yuav ua tsaug rau kuv."

Koj yuav tsum nyob ntsiag to thiab ua siab ntev. Koj tsis tuaj yeem sib qhia nrog lwm tus, koj tsis tuaj yeem qw rau kev pab, vim tias qhov kev paub tau teeb tsa tias "tsev neeg yuav tawm mus thiab lwm tus yuav tsis". Kev puas siab puas ntsws yog thaum kuv sim tiv thaiv kuv tus kheej thiab kuv tau ncaim mus. Ib qho hauv rau xyoo nyob rau ntawm lub tsheb ciav hlau nres tau ntev "rau kev kawm." Koj tsis tuaj yeem thim rov qab - "tom qab tag nrho, kua muag tu siab pog, thiab nws mob vim yog koj."

Kev tsim txom kev puas siab puas ntsws yog hnub yug txhua xyoo lawv hais tias lawv tso tseg, tias lawv yug los ua ntxhais. Thiab lawv xav tau ib tug tub "txiv txawm dai nws thaum nws paub txog koj." Nov yog thaum kuv niam kuv txiv tau saib cov yeeb yaj kiab txaus ntshai heev, thiab kuv "pw hauv txaj," tab sis txhua tus neeg yws yws tau hnov.

Kev puas siab puas ntsws yog vwm vim tias thaum tsev neeg tawm ntawm txoj kev, txhua yam zoo meej. Tsev neeg zoo thiab hais lus zoo, txhua tus ua siab zoo, tab sis hauv tsev txhua yam sib txawv. Kev puas siab puas ntsws yog thaum kuv phau ntawv raug pov tseg rau kev tsis mloog lus - pawg txhua 10 feeb, thiab pawg twb tau nyob hauv cov thoob khib nyiab thiab phau ntawv npog tau tawg lawm.

Dab tsi ntxiv? Tawm mus, tab sis tom qab tag nrho, nws zoo li "tsev neeg yog cov neeg zoo thiab tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi tshwj xeeb rau qhov tsis zoo thaum yau".

Qhov txiaj ntsig yuav yog tias cov koom tes yuav zoo ib yam "phooj ywg thiab qab zib", paub. Thiab kev puas siab puas ntsws tseem yuav txuas ntxiv mus. Thiab dua txhua yam yog qhov zoo, cov phooj ywg ua piv txwv los ntawm daim duab sab nrauv thiab tsis muaj leej twg paub tias tseem muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws ua phem sab hauv. Tias yog nws tau siv los ua siab ntev thiab nyob ntsiag to, tom qab ntawd nws noj rau hauv tus ntsuj plig. Nws nyuaj rau nkag siab, vim "tom qab tag nrho, txhua yam zoo li yuav zoo" thiab "tsev neeg zoo tagnrho." Thiab yog tias nws siv daim pam thaum hmo ntuj, tom qab ntawd "txhua tus khub niam txiv tab tom ua si rau daim pam zoo li ntawd," txhua yam yuav ua si, tab sis kuv tau pw khov rau ntau xyoo, kuv lub cev mob thaum sawv ntxov, vim tias nws sov dua thaum pw cev xeeb tub. Cov qauv yuav zoo sib xws. Thaum nws tseem yuam kom "kho, cawm neeg thiab txhim kho." Thiab kuv xav khiav tawm, tab sis tsis muaj qhov twg khiav. Thiab tom qab ntawd lub zog tuaj yeem khiav tawm "mus rau qhov twg" thiab nyob ntawd, sib nrug los ntawm "siab zoo thiab ntxim hlub," nws maj mam dhau los ua neej nyob thiab nkag siab qhov tseeb maj mam los.

Kev puas siab puas ntsws nyuaj rau to taub. Zoo li daim duab sab nrauv zoo meej. Zoo tshaj rau kev ua tau zoo, rau cov neeg nyob ze, rau cov kws qhia. Thiab thaum koj paub qhov no, mob ntau heev tawm los. Thiab qhov sib txawv ntawm sab nrauv thiab sab hauv tsis ua mob rau lub qhov muag lawm. Thiab qhov tseeb ntawm kev nkag siab ntawm lub ntiaj teb los.

Nws siv sijhawm ntau thiab kho lub hlwb kom paub, thiab qhov mob hauv lub cev thiab dhau mus thiab nias hauv siab. Thiab nws cia maj mam thiab tawm mus. Tsuas yog nti nyob ntawm tus plig. Txawm hais tias qee zaum kuv tseem pom lub sijhawm uas tau noj hauv kuv tus plig thiab tso lawv mus. Thiab muaj qee yam pom koj tus kheej thiab nkag siab rau koj tus kheej, "Yog lawm, nws yog, Kuv yuav tsis tso cai ntxiv lawm."