Yuav Ua Li Cas Ntsib Kev Txom Nyem Ntawm Cov Neeg Hlub

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Hnub no ib tus neeg paub tau thov kev txhawb nqa: nws tus phooj ywg txiav txim siab tuag.

Coob leej ntshai los ntsib nrog qhov no. Lawv ntshai hais cov lus, thiab hu txhua yam los ntawm lawv lub npe kom raug. Kuv kuj tau sim muab nws me ntsis tawm ntawm kev hwm koj.

Kuv xav qhia kuv cov kev xav ntawm cov ncauj lus no.

Thawj qhov kuv yuav hais yog qhov xwm txheej zoo li no tuaj yeem tiv thaiv tau. Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau mloog zoo rau tib neeg.

Feem ntau cov tib neeg hais cov kab lus hauv qab no:

• “Nws nyuaj rau lub neej no. Kuv ua tsis tau lawm"
• "Kev txom nyem tsis tuaj yeem ua rau kuv"
• "Kuv tsis tuaj yeem sawv nws ntxiv lawm"
• "Txhua yam zoo li tsis muaj kev cia siab rau kuv"
• "Kuv tau poob siab hauv txhua qhov ntawm lub neej. Ntau yam hauv kuv lub neej tsis ua haujlwm"
• "Kuv tsis xav nyob"
• "Kuv tsis nyiam lub neej zoo li no"
• "Kuv npaj txhij ua kom tag" lossis "kuv txhais tes nqis"
• "Kuv tsis quav ntsej ntxiv lawm. Kuv tsis xav ua txhua yam no. Kuv tsis xav delve rau hauv nws."

Nov yog cov kab lus hu. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog "Kuv tsis quav ntsej." Thaum kuv tau hais cov kab lus zoo li no, kuv nkag siab tias kuv yuav tsum ua tib zoo mloog nyob ntawd. Ib tus neeg tsis quav ntsej kiag li, nws nyuaj heev thiab mob rau nws uas nws tsis muaj lub zog los daws nws. Tej zaum tom qab nws tuaj yeem hla nws, tab sis tsis yog tam sim no.

Cov lus hais no yog quaj thov kev pab. Nws nyuaj heev rau lawv hauv lub sijhawm no ntawm lub neej. Lawv xav tau kev txhawb nqa, pab, nkag siab, mloog. Thiab peb, leej twg, nyob rau lub sijhawm no, xav tias tsawg kawg yog peev txheej me me, tuaj yeem pab lossis ua phem. Thaum koj tham txog lub neej zoo li cas, txhua yam zoo li cas, koj ua rau qhov xwm txheej hnyav dua. Yog tias lawv xav tias tsuas yog qhov txawv, cov lus txhawb siab yuav tsis rub lawv tawm.

Peb feem ntau hnov mob li cas:

• “Tam sim no koj yog pessimistic. Koj hais tias iav tsis muaj ib nrab, thiab kuv hais tias nws yog ib nrab puv."
• "Lub Neej Zoo Nkauj. Saib ib ncig"
• "Dab tsi yog koj? Ob txhais tes, ob txhais ceg, muaj txoj sia thiab zoo. Muaj neeg hlau, muaj lub ru tsev hla koj lub taub hau. Tsis txhob thab cov neeg siab phem"
• “Zoo, mloog, txhua tus muaj teeb meem, tsis ua li cas. Koj txawv li cas ntawm lwm tus"
• "Thiab rau leej twg nws yooj yim tam sim no?"
• “Tsis txhob cia tus kws saib xyuas mob mus. Qhov ntawd ua rau cov neeg qaug zog ua. Rub koj tus kheej ua ke, vim li cas koj tsis tuaj yeem rub koj tus kheej ua ke?
• "Nws tsuas yog koj uas txiav txim siab tsom mus rau qhov zoo lossis tsis zoo."
• "Nws yuav tsis daws qhov teeb meem."

Nrog cov lus hais no, peb ua phem, ua rau muaj kev tawm tsam, thiab tib neeg tuaj yeem mus rau hauv lub xeev uas phem dua. Lawv poob tob rau hauv qab (zoo tshaj).

Ntau zaus ntau dua, peb tus kheej tsis tuaj yeem tiv dhau qhov nyuaj ntawm lub neej. Thaum cov txheeb ze lossis phooj ywg tuaj rau peb nrog lawv lub sijhawm nyuaj lossis mob, peb xav kom nyob deb ntawm nws. Ntau npaum li peb xav txhawb, tab sis sab hauv peb ntshai tsam tuaj ntsib nrog kev txom nyem. Yog li ntawd, peb sim kaw qhov kev sib tham lossis hloov nws mus rau lwm qhov channel.

Ib tus yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai tham nrog tus neeg txog nws qhov xwm txheej. Thiab tsis txhob tham xwb. Paub txog, lees txais tag nrho nws cov kev xav thiab kev xav. Lawv tsim nyog ua. Muab qhov chaw rau lawv hauv lub neej. Tam sim no, nws yog cov kev xav thiab kev paub uas tau ua tiav ntawm tus neeg, thiab lawv yog nws qhov tseeb. Tsis yog txhua tus tuaj yeem hloov pauv.

Qhov tshuaj tiv thaiv zoo tshaj plaws hauv qhov xwm txheej no tsuas yog ua thiab tso cai rau tib neeg mob ib yam nkaus. Yog tias qhov no tshwm sim rau koj, kev saib xyuas zoo tshaj plaws uas koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus kheej yog mus nrhiav kws kho mob hlwb.

Saib xyuas koj tus kheej thiab koj tsev neeg.