2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Hauv peb lub zej zog, koj tuaj yeem hnov ntau zaus: "Cov kws paub txog kev puas siab puas ntsws yog neeg nyiam, kuv yuav tsis mus rau lawv", lossis "Kuv yog ib zaug, nws dhau los ua qhov phem dua li nws yog, cov kws kho paj hlwb lawv tus kheej yuav tsum tau mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb", lossis "Kuv tau mus, thiab nws hais rau kuv "Ua kom muaj zog, txiv neej! Tsis txhob ntshai, txhua yam zoo nrog koj ", tab sis nws zoo li cas ?? Kuv xav phem! Kuv tsuas yog siv nyiaj, "thiab ntxiv rau.
Yog … Qee zaum koj saib ib puag ncig thiab qhov tseeb yog, koj xav tias muaj pes tsawg tus "charlatans" nyob ib puag ncig, thiab koj tau ploj mus, koj tuaj yeem nrhiav tus uas yuav tsum mloog zoo li cas, nws puas yog qhov tsis zoo?
Hauv kab lus no, Kuv yuav sim piav qhia thiab muab cov lus qhia txog yam koj yuav tsum tau them sai sai thaum xaiv koj tus kws kho mob. Dab tsi yuav tsum tau ceeb toom thaum xaiv, yuav xaiv li cas kom raug, thiab yuav tsum npaj dab tsi rau kev kho.
Thiab yog li, ncaj mus rau lub ntsiab lus.
Thaum xaiv tus kws kho mob (kws kho kev puas siab ntsws, kws kho paj hlwb), nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau xyuam xim rau:
1. Kev Kawm Ntawv
Kev kawm tsis yog "txheej", nws yog kev paub yooj yim, lub hauv paus uas txhua tus kws tshaj lij yuav tsum muaj. Nov yog qhov kws tshwj xeeb tso siab rau nws txoj kev kawm ntxiv thiab ua haujlwm. Kev kawm yuav tsum yog tshwj xeeb, uas yog, kev puas siab puas ntsws (kev kho mob, pedagogical), thiab tseem, tus kws tshaj lij feem ntau tau txais kev kawm ntxiv ntawm qee lub tsev kho mob hlwb (cov ntsiab lus hauv kab lus tom ntej).
2. Kev kawm ntxiv
Nws nyuaj heev los ua tus kws tshaj lij ntse nrog tsuas yog kev kawm yooj yim, tom qab kawm tiav. Theej, txawm yuav luag tsis yooj yim sua.
Kev qhia kho hlwb yog ib txoj haujlwm ntev thiab mob siab rau. Txog qhov no, ob peb kev qhia ntawm "bitchology", lossis kev loj hlob ntawm tus kheej, lossis txawm tias 4-hnub kev qhia ua haujlwm nrog daim npav ua piv txwv tsis txaus.
Txhawm rau ua haujlwm tau zoo nrog tib neeg, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom muaj lub npe hu ua cov cuab yeej. Koj tuaj yeem kawm tau nws hauv Institutes thiab ntau lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm kev kho hlwb (piv txwv li: txoj haujlwm ntawm Moscow Gestalt Institute, lossis Tsev Kawm Ntawv ntawm Kev Tshawb Fawb Kev Tshawb Fawb, lossis Lub Tsev Haujlwm rau Kev Paub-Cwj Pwm Kev Kho Mob, thiab lwm yam). Cov tsev haujlwm zoo li no, feem ntau, yog cov tswv cuab ntawm ntau lub koom haum koom haum (piv txwv li: Lub koom haum Ukrainian rau Kev Tshawb Fawb Kev Tshawb Fawb, lossis Lub Koom Haum ntawm Cov Kws Kho Mob Kev Nyuaj Siab xyaum ua raws txoj kev Gestalt, thiab lwm yam). Lawv ua raws li European cov qauv kev qhia thiab, raws li cov qauv no, tshaj tawm cov ntawv pov thawj tsim nyog lees paub lawv qhov kev tsim nyog.
Kev cob qhia hauv kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab kev kho hlwb yog txoj kev yuav luag tsis muaj qhov kawg, tab sis qhov nruab nrab, nws yuav siv sijhawm li 5 xyoos ntawm kev kawm theem pib (lossis 2-3 xyoos ntawm kev kawm qib siab thib ob), ntxiv rau los ntawm 4-5 xyoos ntawm cov kev kawm yooj yim ntxiv (tag nrho, los ntawm kwv yees li 7 xyoo). Txhua qhov no hauv 99% ntawm cov xwm txheej tau lees paub los ntawm daim ntawv pov thawj tsim nyog.
3. Lub xub ntiag ntawm tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws lossis kws kho mob hlwb ntawm kev kho tus kheej (uas yog, thaum tus kws kho mob mus rau tus kws kho mob nws tus kheej)
Txhua tus kws tshaj lij zoo mus rau kws kho mob hlwb. Thiab ntev dua lawv ua nws, qhov zoo dua.
Nws yog dab tsi?
Qhov tseeb yog tias ntau tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws ua haujlwm nrog lawv qhov kev nkag siab. Nov yog tus kws kho mob lub peev xwm tsis yog "neeg hlau" thaum ua haujlwm nrog koj, tab sis yog tib neeg. Teb nrog koj cov kev paub rau koj qhov mob, txaj muag, ntshai, tsis muaj zog; muaj peev xwm ua nrog koj thaum koj nyob hauv cov kev paub sib txawv thiab tseem nyob zoo; lub peev xwm hauv qhov chaw raug kom tsis txhob "sib nrug", lossis tsis yog "koom ua ke" nrog koj, tab sis kom muaj txiaj ntsig ntau li ntau tau, ntau li ntau tau.
Tus kws kho mob hlwb ua haujlwm nrog nws "qhov chaw raug mob". Hauv nws txoj kev kho tus kheej, nws kawm paub daws thiab nyob nrog cov chaw no, thiab qee zaum kho lawv. Nws tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab koj yog tias, hauv qhov chaw uas koj nyob tam sim no, nws kuj muaj "qhov txhab ntshav", lossis "mob hauv plab", lossis "pob kws", lossis nws yog txhua yam "hauv cov cuab yeej tiv thaiv" thiab nws tsis paub yuav ua li cas ua nws tus kheej nrog qhov no thiab yuav ua li cas nrog nws, uas ua rau nws tsis tuaj yeem hnov, thiab yog li ntawd, nkag siab thiab txhawb nqa; ib yam ntawm "khau khiab tsis muaj khau" hloov tawm.
Txhawm rau kom muaj txiaj ntsig, tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws xav tau "nyob" cov "qhov txhab" nws tus kheej; thiab txhawm rau pab kho neeg txawv, koj yuav tsum xub kawm paub yuav ua li cas nrog koj tus kheej. Qhov no yog vim li cas nws thiaj tseem ceeb heev uas tus kws kho mob muaj sij hawm kho tus kheej.
Xav tias dawb nug txog nws. Tus kws tshaj lij zoo yuav teb lo lus nug no yam tsis nyuaj. Thiab yog tias "tus kws paub txog kev puas siab ntsws" khoov thiab qhia nrog nws lub ntsej muag tag nrho uas koj cov lus nug ua rau nws "yas co", tom qab ntawd kuv xav kom nrhiav tus kws tshaj lij nyob lwm qhov.
Tus nqi ntawm tus kws kho mob tus kheej tuaj yeem ntsuas tau ntau xyoo, lossis qee zaum ntau pua teev, thiab qhov ntawd yog lub cim zoo.
4. Muaj sijhawm saib xyuas
Kev saib xyuas yog thaj chaw sib koom ua ke uas tus kws kho mob lossis kws kho paj hlwb muaj lub sijhawm los tswj hwm nws tus kheej kev kho mob thiab / lossis tham txog cov teeb meem kev txhawj xeeb rau nws uas cuam tshuam nrog tus neeg siv khoom, xyaum, thiab lwm yam.
Nws nyuaj heev rau kev ua haujlwm yam tsis muaj kev saib xyuas. Txhua tus kws kho mob muaj teeb meem: hauv kev ua haujlwm nrog tus neeg siv khoom, hauv kev coj ua, hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog cov npoj yaig, hauv zej zog, thiab lwm yam. Feem ntau tus kws kho mob xav tau kev txhawb nqa, los ntawm cov npoj yaig muaj koob npe, lossis los ntawm cov npoj yaig uas tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem ntseeg tau. Cov xwm txheej nyuaj rau cov neeg siv khoom yuav xav tau kev pom sab nraud thiab kev sib tham tsis txaus ntseeg.
Tus kws kho mob xav tau kev saib xyuas ua haujlwm zoo dua nrog koj.
Tus kws kho mob feem ntau tham txog kev saib xyuas ntawm thawj lub rooj sib tham. Nws tsis muaj cov npe, lub npe, lossis lwm yam yam ntxwv uas tus neeg siv khoom tuaj yeem txheeb xyuas tau. Ib yam li ntawd, tus saib xyuas ua raws li tib Txoj Cai ntawm Kev Ncaj Ncees zoo li tus kws kho mob. Yog li, yam uas tau hais hauv kev saib xyuas kuj tseem yog qhov tsis pub lwm tus paub.
5. Nyuaj siab rau sab hauv:)
Yog tias koj hu tus kws kho mob hlwb uas ua tau zoo nrog cov ntsiab lus yav dhau los, tab sis koj tsis nyiam nws, tsis txhob mus rau nws.
Qee zaum tib neeg nyiam nws thiab qee zaum lawv tsis nyiam. Thiab nws yog qhov zoo dua los nrhiav lwm tus neeg uas muaj kev zoo siab dua los ntawm hauv qab tus pas tom qab "phantom".
Dab tsi koj tuaj yeem ua tib zoo mloog rau:
* Nws raug nquahu kom tuaj ntawm kev pom zoo
Cov khoom no tsis tas yuav ua tiav. Tab sis tseem, thaum tus kws kho mob tau pom zoo, tom qab ntawd muaj txoj hauv kev los mus rau tus kws kho mob uas "tsis heev" txo qis. Ntawm no, nws tseem ceeb heev kom nco ntsoov tias txhua tus neeg sib txawv, thiab yog tias tus kws kho mob tau mus ntsib ib tus neeg thiab ib tus neeg qhuas nws txoj haujlwm, tom qab ntawv qhov no tsis muab 100% lav tias nws yuav zoo ib yam nrog koj. Txhua tus neeg sib txawv thiab txhua tus kws kho mob / kws kho paj hlwb sib txawv.
* Nws raug nquahu kom nyeem qee yam txog txoj hauv kev uas kws kho kev puas siab ntsws ua haujlwm
Qhov no tuaj yeem cawm koj ntawm qhov kev cia siab tsis tiav.
Piv txwv, muaj cov txheej txheem uas "cuam tshuam" tshwm sim sai dua, tab sis feem ntau, nws tsis kav ntev heev.
Thiab muaj cov txheej txheem nyob qhov twg rau qhov tshwm sim tau tshwm sim koj yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm ntev thiab mob siab rau, thiab qhov txiaj ntsig tau tsau rau ntau xyoo.
* Nws raug nquahu kom paub tias kev kho yog ua haujlwm.
Feem ntau, tsis zoo siab, thiab tsis yog tsuas yog tus kws kho mob, tab sis kuj yog tus neeg siv khoom ua haujlwm hauv txoj haujlwm no.
Kuv vam tias tsab xov xwm no yuav pab koj nrhiav tus kws tshaj lij zoo rau koj tus kheej thiab tsis txhob nkag mus rau hauv "charlatan":).
Yog tag nrho.
Nyob zoo, tus nyeem ntawv:).
Pom zoo:
Puas Yog Kws Kho Mob Hlwb Haus Luam Yeeb? Puas Yog Lawv Zoo Tag Nrho? Yuav Xaiv Tus Kws Puas Siab Ntsws Li Cas?
Alas, tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi thiab tsis muaj ib tus neeg zoo tshaj hauv ntiaj teb no, thiab kev sim nrhiav qee yam zoo tshaj yog utopia, uas yuav coj koj mus rau qhov kawg tsuas yog qhov tseeb tias koj yuav kaw hauv koj tus kheej, hauv koj tus kheej lub hauv paus thiab kev txwv, lub ntiaj teb sab hauv yuav raug kaw los ntawm lwm tus, thiab kev txhim kho yuav tsum nres.
Vim Li Cas Tus Kws Kho Kev Puas Siab Puas Ntsws Xav Paub Cov Hauv Paus Ntawm Kev Puas Siab Puas Ntsws
Muaj xwm txheej thaum tham nrog kws kho mob hlwb, tus neeg siv khoom zoo li coj tus cwj pwm zoo. Nws yog lub qhov muag xiav, hais lus avidly, qhia txog nws cov teeb meem. Thiab ntawm no koj yuav tsum muaj cov txuj ci tsim nyog txhawm rau txhawm rau tuaj yeem txiav txim siab ua txhaum ntawm ib tus neeg los ntawm qee cov cim.
Kev Pab Ntawm Tus Kws Kho Kev Puas Siab Puas Ntsws. Kuv Puas Xav Tau? Yuav Xaiv Tus Kws Tshaj Lij Li Cas
Coob leej ntawm peb tab tom sim hloov qee yam hauv peb lub neej - pib ua kis las hnub Monday; rhuav tshem txoj kev sib ntxub; tsis sib tham yam tshwj xeeb ntawm tub / ntxhais ntxiv lawm; pib ua qhov koj xav tau, thiab tsis yog yam koj xav tau;
Puas Yog Tus Kws Kho Mob Puas Siab Ntsws Peb Yog Phooj Ywg Lossis Yeeb Ncuab? Luv Luv Txog Dab Tsi Tos Koj Ntawm Kev Sab Laj Nrog Kws Paub Txog Kev Puas Siab Puas Ntsws
Ntau tus ntawm kuv cov neeg siv khoom hais tias mus rau kws kho mob hlwb ua rau lawv ntshai thiab tsis xis nyob. Lub tswv yim heev ntawm mus rau tus kws tshaj lij tau ua rau lawv mob taub hau thiab ntxhov siab. Tab sis qhov xwm txheej tam sim no hauv lawv lub neej tau txaus ntshai dua, tias lawv tau npaj ua ib yam dab tsi los txo qee qhov kev txom nyem thiab, thaum kawg, kom tawm ntawm lub qhov tob ntawm cov teeb meem uas ua rau lawv.
Kev Puas Siab Ntsws Thiab Kev Ua Kis Las, Lossis Qhov Xwm Txheej Tsis Yog Xwm Txheej (sau Tseg Ntawm Tus Kws Kho Kev Puas Siab Puas Ntsws)
Ib tag hmo, thaum hnub kawg ntawm kev ua haujlwm, ib tus tub ntxhais kawm qib 11 tuaj rau hauv kuv lub chaw haujlwm, thaum kuv tab tom ua haujlwm ua tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws hauv tsev kawm ntawv tshwj xeeb. Thaum tau lees paub kuv qhov kev caw kom dhau, kuv tus neeg tuaj saib, hu rau nws Andrei, zaum ntawm kuv thiab pib sib tham, lub ntsiab lus uas yog tag kis nws tau koom nrog hauv Kyokushinkai kev sib tw thiab seb nws yeej cov kev sib tw no lossis tsis yog, nws yuav va
