RISKS ASSOCIATED WITH USE OF HUMOR IN PSYCHOTHERAPY

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RISKS ASSOCIATED WITH USE OF HUMOR IN PSYCHOTHERAPY
RISKS ASSOCIATED WITH USE OF HUMOR IN PSYCHOTHERAPY
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Thaum kev lom zem yog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig zoo hauv kev kho hlwb, ntau tus kws kho mob tseem tau taw qhia tias muaj kev pheej hmoo cuam tshuam nrog nws siv. Kev lom zem tuaj yeem siv rau ntau lub hom phiaj hauv kev sib raug zoo hauv zej zog niaj hnub, suav nrog kev siv tsis zoo xws li kev txaj muag thiab luag thuam, yuam kom xa mus rau cov cai hauv zej zog, thiab zam kev daws teeb meem. Txawm hais tias feem ntau cov kws kho mob hlwb sim zam kev siv kev lom zem hauv cov no, muaj kev pheej hmoo tias lawv cov kev lom zem tuaj yeem nkag siab yuam kev los ntawm cov neeg siv khoom thiab nkag siab yuam kev tias yog nkag mus lossis ua phem. Txij li qhov kev lom zem yog qhov tsis meej xwm, muaj ib txwm muaj peev xwm ua kom nws tsis raug. Yog li ntawd, cov kws kho mob hlwb yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib seb cov lus hais luag ntxhi tau txais los ntawm cov neeg siv khoom li cas thiab lawv cuam tshuam li cas rau lawv txoj kev xav thiab kev nkag siab.

Tus kws kho mob siv kev lom zem tuaj yeem ua rau tus neeg siv khoom xav tias lawv tsis ua raws li lawv cov teeb meem hnyav heev. Yog tias tus kws kho mob raug yuam kom piav qhia tias qhov nws hais tsuas yog tso dag xwb, qhov no txhais tau tias kev lom zem tuaj yeem siv tsis raug thiab ua tsis raug, thiab tus neeg siv khoom tsis muaj peev xwm pom qhov uas tau hais los ua kev lom zem qhia tias tus kws kho mob tsis ua raws li tus neeg siv kev xav thiab xav tau. Cov kws kho mob qee zaum tsis tsim nyog siv kev lom zem los ua kev tiv thaiv rau lawv tus kheej cov teeb meem lossis raws li ib txoj hauv kev los qhia lawv qhov kev txawj ntse. Thaum siv los ntawm cov neeg siv khoom, kev lom zem kuj tseem tuaj yeem ua lub luag haujlwm tiv thaiv tsis zoo, raws li txoj hauv kev kom zam kev daws teeb meem, lossis los txhais tau tias txo nqi lawv tus kheej lub zog thiab kev xav los ntawm kev thuam tus kheej.

Ib qho ntxiv, cov neeg siv khoom tuaj yeem nthuav tawm qhov ua tsis tau zoo, txhoj puab heev ntawm kev lom zem. Los ntawm kev koom nrog kev sib tham lom zem nrog cov neeg siv khoom no, tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem ua rau tsis muaj peev xwm txhawb nqa qhov tsis zoo ntawm kev lom zem.

Lwm qhov kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev siv kev lom zem yog tias thaum tus kws kho mob cuam tshuam nrog qee cov ncauj lus hauv kev tso dag, tus neeg siv khoom tuaj yeem xav tias cov ncauj lus no taboo thiab yuav tsum tsis txhob tham txog tiag. Ib qho ntxiv, cov neeg siv khoom tuaj yeem xav tias yuav tsum tau luag nrog tus kws kho mob kom pom tias lawv muaj "kev lom zem zoo siab", txawm tias thaum lub ntsej muag zoo siab zoo li no npog qhov ncauj ntawm qhov mob lossis tsis txaus siab. Yog li, tus kws kho mob siv kev lom zem feem ntau tiv thaiv tus neeg siv los ntawm kev qhia tawm qhov kev xav tsis zoo lossis tsis pom zoo.

Cov kws kho mob yuav tsum tsis tsuas yog ua tib zoo saib xyuas qhov cuam tshuam ntawm txhua qhov kev sib txuas lus hauv kev kho mob hlwb, tab sis tseem yuav tsum tau saib xyuas tshwj xeeb rau qhov ua rau muaj kev lom zem rau cov neeg siv khoom. Tab sis qhov no tsis tau txhais hais tias koj yuav tsum ib txwm muaj qhov hnyav thiab tsis muaj kev lom zem.

R. Pierce qhia tias txawm hais tias kev lom zem feem ntau muaj txiaj ntsig, nws tsis tsim nyog hauv kev kho hlwb:

  • thaum nws siv los ua kom txaj muag rau tus neeg siv khoom, luag nws lossis ua raws nws;
  • thaum siv los ua qhov kev tiv thaiv tiv thaiv kom tsis txhob hnov qab los ntawm cov teeb meem kev xav ntawm lub siab mus rau cov ncauj lus muaj kev nyab xeeb;
  • thaum nws tsis cuam tshuam nrog lub hom phiaj ntawm kev kho mob hlwb, tab sis txaus siab rau tus kws kho mob tus kheej txoj kev xav kom lom zem thiab siv sijhawm thiab lub zog muaj nqis.

Cov kws kho mob hlwb yuav tsum tau ceev faj tshwj xeeb hauv kev siv kev lom zem thaum cuam tshuam nrog cov neeg siv khoom uas muaj teeb meem tshwj xeeb ntsig txog kev lom zem. Ib hom sib txawv ntawm kev nyuaj siab ntsig txog kev nyuaj tshwm sim hauv cov neeg siv khoom uas siv kev lom zem dhau los ua ib txoj hauv kev ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb lawv cov teeb meem thiab zam kev daws teeb meem. Nov yog hom neeg siv uas siv hom kev lom zem thaum lub sijhawm kho hlwb, kho lawv cov teeb meem kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab txheej txheem kho nws tus kheej li "ib qho kev tso dag loj." Cov kev siv kev lom zem no tuaj yeem ua ke nrog lwm hom kev zam tus cwj pwm. Lub hom phiaj ntawm no tsis yog tshem tawm cov neeg siv khoom qhov kev lom zem, tab sis ua kom nws koom nrog kev muaj tiag thiab yog li noj qab nyob zoo.

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