Kev Zoo Siab Tseem Tsis Yog Rau Kuv. Reflections Ntawm Psychotherapist

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Kev Zoo Siab Tseem Tsis Yog Rau Kuv. Reflections Ntawm Psychotherapist
Kev Zoo Siab Tseem Tsis Yog Rau Kuv. Reflections Ntawm Psychotherapist
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Kuv nco tau zoo npaum li cas thaum pib ntawm kuv txoj haujlwm ua kws kho mob hlwb, kuv tuaj ntsib tus thawj saib xyuas thiab yws yws hauv qhov txaus ntshai tias X cov rooj sib tham twb dhau los lawm, thiab tus neeg siv khoom tseem tsis tau txav mus, peb txhua tus cim lub sijhawm thiab taug kev, taug kev los ntawm ib leeg tuag mus rau lwm qhov.

Nws hais rau kuv tias, "Tsis zoo," koj puas rov xa cov khoom raws sijhawm?

Nws yog qhov nyuaj rau kuv uas qee zaum nws siv sijhawm ntev mus nrhiav lub qhov rooj rau kev hloov pauv, tus neeg siv khoom tseem tsis txaus siab thiab tsis txaus siab rau nws tus kheej thiab kuv tib lub sijhawm, thiab tus thov kev pabcuam tsis txhais tau tias nws txaus siab los nrog nws tus kheej hauv txhua qhov tsis yog cov ntsiab lus tsim nyog dhau los uas tau qhia tawm ntawm txoj kev.

Ntau tus kws tshaj lij, tshwj xeeb yog cov pib, tab tom tawm tsam kom pom qhov zoo - hauv kev xav, tus cwj pwm, cov txiaj ntsig tam sim ntawm cov neeg siv khoom ua haujlwm. Lawv ua, tau kawg. Ntseeg tus neeg paub txog kev cia siab, muaj yam zoo tuaj yeem pom hauv yuav luag txhua qhov xwm txheej, lo lus nug "Vim li cas?" Thiab yog vim li cas peb thiaj li maj nrawm tshem qhov tsis zoo tawm ntawm qhov pom? Qhov tsis zoo thiab qhov zoo, qhov tseem ceeb, tsuas yog ua tau zoo hauv kev yees duab, kev sim ua kom peb cov kev paub niaj hnub dhau los rau hauv lawv feem ntau tsis muab dab tsi ua rau pom. Npau taws, khib, npau taws, mob, tsis meej pem, qaug zog feem ntau poob rau hauv "kev paub tsis zoo". Zoo, tiag tiag, leej twg yog tom qab mob? Peb tsis yog masochists, masochists tsis yog peb.

Thaum tus kws kho mob ntshai qhov tsis zoo, nyuaj, tsis txaus siab thiab pib thawb cov txheej txheem mus rau tom ntej nrog tag nrho nws lub peev xwm, nws feem ntau "poob dej" nws thiab cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev kho yuav tsis zoo thiab yuav tsis kav ntev. Vim tias ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm kev ua haujlwm tau paub, hwm, puag thiab puag koj qhov tsaus ntuj, tsis nyiam thiab mob sab. Rub nws tawm hauv qhov pom kev. Yog, yog, qhov no yog kab lus zais tseem ceeb, kom kawm paub yuav ua li cas ntsib nrog cov dab sab hauv thiab saib lawv hauv qhov muag. Thiab txawm ua phooj ywg nrog lawv. Zoo, uas yog qhov tseeb kom ua kev sib tham. Qhov tshwm sim feem ntau yog cov kev mob tshwm sim, vim kev zoo siab yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm lub neej.

Txawm hais tias peb lees txais peb tus kheej lossis tsis yog, nws tseem nyuaj rau peb. Raws li cov lus hais mus, kab lus "Kuv yuav tsum mus rau Paris ntawm kev ua lag luam sai" tseem tab tom nyuaj - ib feem. Vim tias kev lees paub sab hauv peb tau txuas nrog txuas nrog qhov kev txiav tawm ntawm txhua yam thiab txhua yam kev hloov pauv, txawm hais tias tsuas yog lees txais peb tus kheej, thaum kawg peb tsis txhob cuam tshuam hauv hav dej, ua rau tob dua thiab tob dua, thiab thaum kawg peb muaj lub zog los saib ib puag ncig thiab xuav, piv txwv li, Sivka-Burka mus cawm.

Tib yam muaj tseeb rau kev kho mob. Tus kws kho mob uas tsis tuaj yeem lees txais tus neeg siv khoom yog qhov tsis muaj peev xwm tshaj lij, zoo li lub boxer uas tsis muaj caj npab. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, kev kho mob tsuas yog los ntawm kev lees paub tua tus neeg siv khoom cia siab tias yuav muaj peev xwm hloov pauv, vim nws tsis quav ntsej qhov tseeb tias tus neeg tuaj vim tias nws lub neej tau dhau los tsawg kawg tsis xis nyob, thiab ntau zaus - tsis tuaj yeem tiv taus. Yog li ntawd, kev sib raug zoo nrog tus kws kho mob zoo tsim nyog tau tsim los ntawm qhov sib npaug ntawm kev ntxhov siab thiab kev txhawb nqa, ntawm kev lees paub thiab lub tswv yim rau kev hloov pauv.

Thiab yog tias koj xav tias lwm txoj kev sib raug zoo txawv, kuv yuav tsum ua rau koj poob siab.

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