2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Muaj qhov kev paub zoo txog menyuam kev ua si "Edible-inedible", uas qhia cov menyuam yaus kom paub qhov txawv ntawm yam lawv tuaj yeem noj thiab yam uas tsis noj.
Kev tshaj tawm rau qhov kev ua si zoo li ib yam zoo li no: “Kom loj hlob, muaj zog, ntse thiab noj qab nyob zoo, koj yuav tsum tau noj kom zoo! Koj puas paub dab tsi koj tuaj yeem noj thiab dab tsi tsis? Koj yuav tsum txiav txim siab qhov twg ntawm ob yam khoom tuaj yeem noj tau thiab yam twg tsis yog."
Tab sis rau qee tus menyuam, khoom noj tsis tau yog noj tau, lawv nyob hauv qee qhov xwm txheej ntawm kev txhim kho uas hu ua "txhawb nqa" cov menyuam thiab coj kev nplij siab rau lawv.
Noj tsis tau los ntawm menyuam mos thiab menyuam yaus (los ntawm ICD-10, F98.4)
Kev mob nkeeg tas mus li rau cov khoom tsis yog khoom noj (xws li lub ntiaj teb, pleev xim, txhuam, thiab lwm yam). Cov tsos mob no tuaj yeem yog ib feem ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws tob (xws li autism); nws kuj tuaj yeem tshwm sim nws tus kheej raws li tus yam ntxwv ywj pheej ntawm kev xav ntawm tus kheej. Tsuas yog hauv qhov no, rooj plaub tom kawg, koj tuaj yeem siv nqe lus no. Perverted qab los noj mov yog ntau dua ntawm cov menyuam muaj kev puas hlwb. Cov xwm txheej uas muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws tas mus li yuav tsum tau sau tseg raws li kev kuaj mob.
Obsessive rub tawm ntawm ib tus kheej cov plaub hau, uas yog tom qab nqos, hu ua trichotyllophagia.
Cov menyuam yaus muaj feem cuam tshuam ntau dua li cov neeg laus. Cov ntaub ntawv [piv txwv, Trichotillomania: tsev kho mob, kuaj mob, kuaj mob sib txawv, kho, Med.news, Tsis yog 1, 2014, thiab lwm yam., hauv cov menyuam muaj kev nyuaj siab thaum hloov mus rau lub tsev tshiab, hloov mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv tshiab, muaj teeb meem hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog cov tub ntxhais kawm theem siab, nrog kev kawm thiab kws qhia ntawv.
Hauv kuv qhov kev xyaum, kuv tsuas yog ib zaug ntsib trichotillomania (yuam kev rub tawm ntawm cov plaub hau; qhov no, pob muag rub tawm), uas tau tshwm sim hauv kuv tus neeg muaj hnub nyoog 28 xyoos tawm tsam keeb kwm ntawm kev nyuaj siab hnyav thiab uas nws tau tswj kom kov yeej sai. Kuv tuaj hla trichotyllophagia thiab nws cov neeg tuaj koom txaus siab rau kev noj cov khoom tsis zoo hauv kev nco txog kuv rau rau tus neeg laus.
Hauv txhua kis uas paub rau kuv (ntawm qhov uas muaj qee qhov tsawg), cov menyuam muaj lub siab xav noj cov khoom uas yog ntawm lawv niam. Hauv tsib qhov xwm txheej, cov poj niam raug coj los ntawm qhov txias, egocentric thiab tsis lees paub leej niam; hauv ib kis, trichotyllophagia thiab tib lub sijhawm muaj kev txaus siab noj cov khoom noj tsis tau sawv tom qab niam yuav tsum tawm mus ua haujlwm. Yog li, hauv txhua qhov xwm txheej, cov menyuam tau ntsib kev poob niam. Cov xwm txheej no tuaj yeem pom tias yog kev saib xyuas tus kheej raws li qhov uas cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem ua. Nws zoo li tias noj ib tus kheej cov plaub hau thiab cov khoom tsis txaus ntseeg uas yog niam (raws li cov dab neeg ntawm cov neeg siv khoom, cov no yog cov di ncauj, hlaws, tshem tawm ib feem ntawm txoj siv, khawm, qab zib, luam yeeb, butts) yog kev koom ua ke ntawm zoo niam khoom thiab kev txuas nrog nws. Ntawm qhov one tes, cov menyuam no tau noj lawv tus kheej thaum tsis muaj niam txiv tu, ntawm qhov tod tes, lawv tau sim ua kom txaus siab rau lawv txoj kev tshaib kev nqhis rau kev saib xyuas niam los ntawm kev tsim nyog ntawm cov khoom noj uas yog ntawm nws.
Yog tias koj pom tias koj tus menyuam pib txhim kho cov plaub hau rov qab, ploj ntawm cov plaub muag lossis pob muag, nws feem ntau nyiam noj qee yam tsis tsim nyog rau zaub mov (kom paub qhov txawv ntawm cov menyuam xav paub), tau pib coj tus cwj pwm tsis txaus ntseeg, nco ntsoov ua tib zoo saib qhov no. Tej zaum nws yuav tshwm sim zoo uas kev nplij siab yooj yim, siv sijhawm nyob ua ke, yuav pab tus menyuam so thiab tiv nrog tus cwj pwm zoo li no.
Pom zoo:
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Hauv peb lub zej zog, tau piav qhia meej txog cov qauv thiab cov cai uas koj "xav tau" kom nyob thiab uas koj "xav tau" ua raws. Los ntawm menyuam yaus peb tau hais qhia peb yuav tsum zoo li cas thaum peb loj hlob, lawv feem ntau txiav txim siab peb yuav tsum ua dab tsi, nkag mus rau tsev kawm ntawv twg, xaiv hom twg lawv pom tom ntej ntawm peb, feem ntau lees paub hnub nyoog uas nws yog "
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Muaj ib hnub, kuv tus tub xeeb ntxwv uas muaj yim xyoo tau nug kuv cov lus, kuv yuav ua dab tsi? "Psychoanalyst," Kuv hais, thiab nres, tsis saib ntawm nws ob lub qhov muag. - Nws zoo li cas? - ua raws cov lus nug muaj tseeb.
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Muaj peb qhov laj thawj yog vim li cas, hauv kev hlub kev sib raug zoo, ib tus yuav tsum tau mus txog qhov pib ntawm kev sib raug zoo nrog kev ntse thiab ua tib zoo. Thawj qhov laj thawj. Qhov tsis paub tseeb ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev hlub.
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Cov hauv paus ntsiab lus, qhov muaj nqis thiab kev ntseeg puas ua rau lub neej puas? Peb qhov tseem ceeb, cov hauv paus ntsiab lus thiab kev ntseeg tsis yog los ntawm qhov laj thawj. Lawv ua rau peb tias peb yog leej twg. Peb hu peb tus kheej kws kho mob, tub ntxhais kawm, txiv, poj niam thiab kws tshaj lij vim peb muaj qee lub tswv yim ntawm peb tus kheej.