2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Muaj qee yam kev xav uas cuam tshuam ncaj qha rau peb lub siab, peb tuaj yeem pom thiab taug qab lawv, tab sis feem ntau, peb tsuas yog tsis xyuam xim rau cov kev xav no.
Kuv tab tom tham txog kev xav tsis zoo tsis zoo (WE). Nws yog dab tsi?
Peb yog kev tshuaj xyuas tsis zoo lossis txhais lus ntawm dab tsi tshwm sim nyob ib puag ncig peb lossis hauv peb.
Nco qab lub sijhawm kawg thaum koj lub siab zuj zus, koj xav tias khaus, ntxhov siab, npau taws. Rov qab los rau qhov xwm txheej no thiab sim nco ntsoov dab tsi kev xav tau ya los ntawm koj lub taub hau tam sim ntawd? Cov no yuav yog kev xav tsis zoo tsis zoo.
Piv txwv: Ib tus phooj ywg hais rau koj tias thaum kawg nws tau yuav lub xov tooj tshiab uas nws xav tau tiag tiag. Thiab tam sim no qhov kev xav tau hla kuv lub taub hau: "Eh, tab sis kuv muaj xyoo txaus ntshai txog nyiaj txiag, tus kab mob cuam tshuam rau kuv txoj kev lag luam thiab nws tsis paub tias yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim tom ntej." Qhov kev xav no ya mus tam sim, peb tsis muaj sijhawm los nkag siab tiag tiag, tab sis tom qab nws tus kheej nws ua rau muaj kev poob siab, tej zaum npau taws. Thiab yog li, hauv qhov ntsais ntawm qhov muag, peb txoj kev xav tau hloov pauv ntau, txawm hais tias, cia li 10 vib nas this dhau los, txhua yam zoo.
Tus qauv ntawm kev ua haujlwm ntawm cov kev xav no yog raws li hauv qab no: Asmeskas - ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo - tsis zoo ib yam - ua rau lub siab xav tsis zoo.
Ua haujlwm nrog Asmeskas yog ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm Kev Paub Cwj Pwm Cwj Pwm.
Kev xav tsis zoo tsis zoo muaj tus lej ntawm cov yam ntxwv:
1. Lawv khiav tawm
2. Tebchaws Asmeskas xav txog cov xwm txheej lossis xwm txheej tshwj xeeb. Lawv tuaj yeem yog qhov xav tau, rov ua dua, tshwj xeeb yog muaj teeb meem ntev.
3. Peb tuaj yeem ua tau luv thiab nquag thiab yog li ua rau nws nyuaj rau taug qab lawv, lawv dhau los ua ib feem ntawm peb qhov chaw sab hauv. Peb tsis pom lawv, piv txwv li, peb tsis pom peb tus kheej ua pa, txog thaum peb tsom mus rau nws tshwj xeeb.
4. Cov kev xav no feem ntau coj los ua qhov tseeb, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj kev xav zoo dhau los. Piv txwv: Yog tias ib tus neeg xav tias nws tsis muaj nqis, thaum nws xav tias txhua yam nkees, tsis muaj ib yam ua haujlwm tau zoo, tom qab ntawd qhov no tau lees paub tias yog nqe lus tseeb. Tias yog vim li cas ib txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb ntawm kev kho yog pab cov neeg siv kom "nqos" Namas kom lawv tuaj yeem kawm ib qib zuj zus los tshuaj xyuas qhov tseeb thiab ncaj ncees ntawm lawv tus kheej kev xav.
5. Peb muaj nyob raws li kev hais lus piv txwv: "Kuv tsis muaj peev xwm ua dab tsi." Tsis tas li, peb tuaj yeem muaj nyob hauv daim duab. Piv txwv li, ib tus neeg uas muaj kev phobia hauv zej zog tuaj yeem muaj duab uas nws pom nws tus kheej nrog lub ntsej muag yaug, tawm hws, tsis zoo li txhua tus neeg.
Raws li cov lus saum toj no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom taug qab koj cov kev xav tsis zoo thiab nkag siab tias kev xav tsuas yog kev xav, tsis yog qhov tseeb. Thiab yog li ntawd, lawv yuav tsis tas yuav yog qhov tseeb thiab qhov tseeb.
Pom zoo:
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Hauv qee kis, kev sib koom tes ua rau mob ntau dua, nyuaj dua. Koj dhau los ua neeg tsis yooj yim thiab xav tau. Thiab tom qab ntawd koj nug cov lus nug: "Vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim? Dab tsi yog kuv? ". Wb tham txog nws thiab xam nws tawm.
Vim Li Cas Peb Thiaj Xav Tau Cov Uas Peb Tsis Xav Tau?
Kev sib raug zoo nrog qee tus neeg suav nrog hauv cov txheej txheem yooj yim ntawm peb lub neej: niam txiv, menyuam, txiv, poj niam. Tab sis, ntxiv rau lawv, peb niaj hnub cuam tshuam nrog ntau tus cim xaiv - cov npoj yaig, cov neeg nyob sib ze hauv tus ntaiv, cov phooj ywg yav dhau los, "
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Lub neej scenario - qhov no yog "phiaj xwm lub neej tsis nco qab." Peb pib sau nws txij thaum yug los, thaum muaj hnub nyoog 4-5 xyoos peb txhais cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb thiab cov ntsiab lus, thiab thaum muaj hnub nyoog 7 xyoo peb cov ntawv tau npaj lawm.
Huag Cov Neeg Zoo, Nws Tab Tom Ua Dab Tsi? Vim Li Cas Peb Thiaj Ua Rau Lub Siab Xav # Gaslighting # Migration # Cawv # Kev Ua Phem Thiab # Kev Coj Noj Coj Ua Tsis Zoo # Lgbt Hauv Cov Menyuam Yaus?
Huag cov neeg zoo, nws tab tom ua dab tsi? Vim li cas peb thiaj ua rau lub siab xav # gaslighting # migration # cawv # kev ua phem thiab # kev coj noj coj ua tsis zoo # lgbt hauv cov menyuam yaus? Cov niam txiv nyob qhov twg …? TAB SIS? Thaum tshuaj xyuas menyuam yaus cov yeeb yaj kiab thiab duab tas lauv, Kuv tau tshawb pom qhov xav tau ntawm kev tsim cov menyuam yaus ntawm qhov xav tau yuam kev ua phem, siv tshuaj, thiab cawv.
Vim Li Cas Peb Thiaj Xav Tau Kev Xav Thiab Peb Tuaj Yeem Siv Lawv Li Cas Kom Zoo Dua?
Hauv peb lub neej, peb niaj hnub ntsib qee yam kev xav. Lawv yog dab tsi rau peb thiab yuav ua li cas nrog lawv? Nov yog qhov kuv nrog koj hnub no thiab kuv xav tham txog nws. Peb cov kev xav qhia peb tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau peb - txawm nws tshwm sim hauv peb lub neej, yam peb xav tau, vim li cas peb nyob zoo, lossis TSIS YOG TAB SIS.
