2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Muaj ib zaug, ib tug txiv neej hais rau kuv tias:
- Mloog kuv!
Los ntawm txoj kev, nws yog lub taub hau ntawm lub tuam txhab loj, thiab siv tau lub ntsiab lus ntawm kab lus no kom raug.
Ntawm lub ncauj lus ntawm nws cov lus, muaj cov lus qhia zoo li no:
Peb xav ib yam, hais lwm yam, thiab tus neeg nkag siab qhov thib peb.
Yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim thaum peb tau txais cov ntaub ntawv?
Kuv tus kheej kev paub, kev paub ntawm lwm tus, kev xav nyob hauv kuv lub taub hau, kev paub los ntawm cov ntawv, ntau yam xwm txheej zoo sib xws tuaj rau hauv siab. Thiab tsis txhob hnov ib tus neeg, peb hloov nws cov ntaub ntawv nrog ib qho hauv peb.
Hnov tus interlocutor yog kos duab tag nrho. Qhov no yog txhawm rau txiav tawm, qee qhov, ntawm koj tus kheej los ntawm ib feem ntawm peb uas mloog thiab lees txais txhua yam zoo li nws yog. Yuav tsum, rau qee qhov, ib daim ntawv dawb paug. Qhib rau kom lees txais cov ntaub ntawv uas tus neeg sib tham muab. Npaj txhij los saib nws hauv daim ntawv uas nws tuaj rau peb. Thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd nws tuaj yeem txuas txhua qhov ntawm peb uas yuav muab lawv lub zeem muag ntawm cov ntaub ntawv tau txais. Txhawm rau koj qhov kev xav ntawm nws.
Kuv xav tias ib nrab peb cuam tshuam nrog tib neeg vim tias peb tsis mob siab rau kev sib tham. Tus neeg hais lus, thiab nws tus neeg tham tau twb muaj nws tus kheej kev xav txog nws cov lus. Hloov chaw ntawm tus hais lus xav, nws tau nqus los ntawm nws tus kheej kev xav. Tau kawg, nws xav kom lawv hais lus sai. Vim li ntawd, nws tsis muab txoj cai los tham txog qhov kawg thiab pib tham txog nws tus kheej.
Koj tuaj yeem hnov qhov hais lus zoo li cas? Puas yog tus neeg hais lus lub tswv yim ncav cuag tus mloog lub siab?
Ib yam nkaus, peb tsis tuaj yeem hnov qhov kev xav ntawm lwm tus neeg, nws txoj kev xav ntawm cov xwm txheej hauv lub neej. Saib qhov xwm txheej dhau los ntawm nws ob lub qhov muag. Thiab rau qee qhov peb txo qis tus cwj pwm tus kheej ntawm tus tham nrog rau qee qhov xwm txheej.
Muaj pes tsawg tus neeg tham nrog koj tham cov kab lus no: "zoo, tsis txhob hais ntau dhau, qhov xwm txheej tsis muaj ntau npaum li ntawd," lossis "tuaj, koj yuav tsum yws, saib yuav ua li cas lwm tus neeg muaj", lossis "zoo, qhov ntawd yog dab tsi tsis haum koj, muaj ntau ntau yam, koj tuaj yeem khib "? Txog qhov no kuv hais txog xwm txheej thaum peb qhia qee yam, thiab hauv kev teb peb tau hais txog hnub poob zoo nkauj, ntses taub ntswg ntev hauv Dej Hiav Txwv Pacific lossis qee yam zoo li ntawd. Koj puas tau muaj cov xwm txheej zoo li no?
Tab sis peb tab tom hloov lub luag haujlwm. Hnub no peb tsis hnov, thiab tag kis peb tsis tuaj yeem hnov. Tab sis tib lub sijhawm, txhua tus neeg xav tias mloog zoo. Mloog, tsis sib npaug los hnov! Mloog, peb nkag siab qhov thib peb, qee yam ntawm peb tus kheej. Qee zaum peb kwv yees tus neeg tham, lossis ze rau qhov ntawd, thiab qee zaum peb poob siab nrog peb qhov kev nkag siab yuam kev. Mloog, qee zaum peb tham zoo li "dig muag thiab lag ntseg" thiab hauv qhov kev sib tham nws nyuaj heev rau kev pom zoo rau qee yam. Los ntawm kev mloog, peb paub ua ntej yam peb tus hlub tuaj yeem qhia rau peb. Tab sis txhua hnub peb cov kev xav hloov pauv, thiab tag kis peb yuav xav txawv. Mloog, muaj kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev poob qhov tshwj xeeb sib tham nrog tus neeg tham, uas, tom qab ntawd, dhau los ua kev sib tham zoo.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum kawm mloog hauv ib txoj kev uas koj hnov. Tom qab tag nrho, peb twb paub peb tus kheej kev xav. Thiab peb ib txwm yuav muaj sijhawm los hais lus rau lawv. Thiab tsis tas yuav muaj sijhawm los hnov tus neeg tham. Thiab ntau txoj hauv kev peb tsis muab nws rau peb tus kheej.
Puas muaj qhov sib txawv rau koj ntawm kev mloog thiab hnov?
Pom zoo:
Kev Txwv Ntawm Kev Xav Lossis Thaum Koj Tsis Tuaj Yeem Hnov thiab Ua Koj Tus Kheej
Muaj tsev neeg uas nyuaj rau cov niam txiv lees paub tias tus menyuam yuav quaj lossis tu siab. Ib leej niam uas tsis nyiam poj niam muaj menyuam rau lwm lub hom phiaj. Thaum tseem cev xeeb tub, nws xav tias nws tus menyuam yuav zoo tag nrho li hauv cov duab ua yeeb yam, ntse, mloog lus, ntse, kov yeej lub ntiaj teb lossis ua nto moo uas nws ua tsis tau.
Kawm Mloog Thiab Hnov koj Cov Menyuam Lossis Dab Tsi Dag Tob
Rov tshuaj xyuas kuv cov ntawv, kuv pom zaj dab neeg no, sau nrawm heev ntau xyoo dhau los. Kuv rov nyeem nws, tso nws tawm, tab sis qee yam qhia tias, hmoov tsis, nws qhov tseem ceeb tseem nyob niaj hnub no. Nws muaj peev xwm tias ib tus neeg niaj hnub no xav pom cov kab no thiab lwm yam, yug tam sim no:
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Koj Puas Hnov mob Lossis Nkees? Noj
Kuv xav tias txhua tus hauv lawv lub neej tau muaj cov xwm txheej zoo li no thaum koj taug kev mus rau hauv chav ua noj, nqus rau hauv koj txoj kev xav. Tom qab ntawd tsis muaj dab tsi thiab tam sim no, koj twb tau zom ntawm cov hnyuv ntxwm uas tshuav los ntawm cov qhaub cij uas koj tau zom.
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Ntau tus ntawm kuv cov neeg siv khoom hais tias mus rau kws kho mob hlwb ua rau lawv ntshai thiab tsis xis nyob. Lub tswv yim heev ntawm mus rau tus kws tshaj lij tau ua rau lawv mob taub hau thiab ntxhov siab. Tab sis qhov xwm txheej tam sim no hauv lawv lub neej tau txaus ntshai dua, tias lawv tau npaj ua ib yam dab tsi los txo qee qhov kev txom nyem thiab, thaum kawg, kom tawm ntawm lub qhov tob ntawm cov teeb meem uas ua rau lawv.
