2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Kev ncua sijhawm?
Tom qab ntawd peb mus rau koj! 😁😊
Tsis ntev los no, ntau thiab ntau tus neeg paub ib puag ncig tau tham txog kev ncua sijhawm.
Qee yam raug ncua, txhais tes tsis ncav rau qee yam, tsis muaj lub zog txaus rau qee yam … 🤔
Ntau tus xyu thaum lawv lees nws. Qee tus twb tau sib tham pib tsim txoj phiaj xwm yuav kho qhov kev nkag siab yuam kev no li cas.
Yog tias koj nkag siab tob rau qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev ncua sijhawm thiab saib mus rau hauv txheej txheem sab hauv qab nws, koj tuaj yeem pom ntau yam ua rau xav tsis thoob thiab txaus siab.
Zoo, piv txwv li, kev tawm tsam ntawm kev mob siab rau, thaum koj yuav tsum ua ntau yam: tom haujlwm, thiab rau tsev neeg, thiab rau koj tus kheej.
Thiab lub paj hlwb pib rhaub, tsis paub yuav rub dab tsi!
Thiab raws li cov kws tshaj lij sau, yog tias nws tsis xis nyob hauv qhov kev kub ntxhov, ces tsuas muaj ib txoj hauv kev tawm: tsis txhob ua dab tsi, thiab nws yuav nyob ntsiag to.
Rau lub sijhawm ua.
Nws tau raug tshuaj xyuas ntawm nws tus kheej, thiab cov neeg paub kuj lees paub tias kev npaj thiab npe teev daws qhov teeb meem no tau zoo.
Tau sau tawm cov haujlwm thiab haujlwm, lawv tsum tsis txhob chaos, tab sis tig mus rau hauv lawv yog dab tsi.
Txheeb xyuas cov haujlwm thiab cov haujlwm!
Tus kheej, Kuv kuj tau pom cov txheej txheem zoo li no thaum kuv ncua qee yam.
Kuv sau cov npe, phiaj xwm, ua ntej.
Tab sis thaum lub sijhawm los rau kev nqis tes ua, kuv hloov cov haujlwm tseem ceeb no, qee zaum tso qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws "rau tom qab."
Iiiiiiii…. Kuv mam muab rau koj! Nws tseem ua tsis tiav!
Vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim?
Kuv pib tawg, thiab paub tias kuv ntshai los ntawm qhov haujlwm tshiab.
Cov. yam kuv tsis tau ua ua ntej lossis yam uas tsis suav nrog hauv cov npe kuv ua dab tsi txhua lub sijhawm.
Ntawm qhov one tes, muaj kev ntshai tias nws yuav tsis ua haujlwm. Ntawm qhov tod tes, tias kuv yuav "nkim sijhawm", tab sis qhov txiaj ntsig xav tau yuav tsis yog.
Yog li, kuv xav nrog cov txheej txheem ib txwm muaj - "txhua yam tsis muaj txiaj ntsig thiab kuv tsuas yog poob lub sijhawm, siv nws tsis muaj txiaj ntsig, tab sis kuv tuaj yeem ua tau …"
Thiab qhov thib peb, leej twg nyiam mloog zoo li "ua ntej-qib ruam" uas tseem tsis tuaj yeem ua dab tsi, tab sis nyuam qhuav pib kawm ntawv thiab lej? (qhov no tseem nyob zoo rau kev txwv kev ntseeg!)
Thiab ntawm no nws pab kuv ntau kom nkag siab tias vim li cas kuv thiaj xav tau cov haujlwm no lossis cov haujlwm no uas kuv tsis pib.
Kev thov rov hais dua rau lub hom phiaj thiab kev nkag siab txog qhov nws yuav muab rau kuv, yog tias kuv ua, lossis tsawg kawg sim, Kuv yuav pom tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim.
Thiab tom qab ntawd, cov phooj ywg, txawm tias muaj kev tawm tsam, ib pawg tseem muaj teeb meem tseem ceeb niaj hnub, ntshai, koj tuaj yeem xav zoo li tus pioneer ntawm Everest! 🏔
Thiab txawm tias kuv tsuas yog xav txog yuav teeb tsa ntau lub sib tham, nyeem cov lus nyuaj sau Rubinstein lossis Wecker, lossis tus tswv ntawm kab lus psychoanalytic.
Nws hloov tawm tias kev txhawb siab yuav yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm no. Lub hom phiaj thiab kev xav sab hauv!
Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj tsis coj mus rau qee yam, xav, koj puas tuaj yeem yuam koj tus kheej, tsis thuam thiab tsis txhob sim txo tus nqi, qhov phem uas kuv yog, tsis tau ua dab tsi ntxiv?
Tej zaum nws tsuas yog lub sijhawm los ua haujlwm ntawm kev txhawb siab?
Koj xav li cas?
Pom zoo:
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