Yuav Kho Koj Li Cas Kom Raug

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Muaj ob qhov tsis txaus ntseeg txog koj qhov kev ua yuam kev.

1. Tsis kam lees. "Nws tsis yog kuv uas tau ua yuam kev, tab sis qhov no yog vim qhov tseeb tias …" Koj tuaj yeem hloov txhua yam uas koj xav tau. Kev dav dav "vim koj" yog, tau kawg, feem ntau. Kuj tsim nyog rau huab cua, tsheb sib tsoo, cov tub ceev xwm. Txoj hauv kev no tuaj yeem pom hauv koj tus kheej, yog tias muaj kev ntseeg tus kheej tau poob qis, nws qib qis, tab sis peb xav tiag tiag kom tsa nws dag hauv qhov muag ntawm lwm tus. Hauv qhov no, peb tsis muaj kev ntseeg siab rau peb tus kheej tias peb tsis tuaj yeem them taus los ua phem rau peb los ntawm kev lees paub peb qhov ua yuam kev. Qhov no tshem tawm hauv av tag hauv qab koj txhais taw. Yog, thiab kev rau txim los ntawm ib puag ncig … Tsis yog, tsis yog! Ib tus neeg txawj ntse, tiv thaiv, lub siab lub siab ua rau kev txiav txim siab: "Nws tsis yog kuv."

2. Ua kom pom tseeb thiab ua yeeb yam (tus kheej-flagellation).

"Kuv yuam kev lawm. Nws yog tag nrho. Nws txaus ntshai. " Hauv qhov no, peb tau raus dej tag nrho hauv qhov kev xav ntawm kev ua txhaum, hauv kev zom zaub mov ntawm qhov ua yuam kev, hauv kev tsa nto ntawm nws. Txoj hauv kev yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg uas nws muab tsuas yog kev xav tsis zoo thiab kev noj qab haus huv tsis zoo.

Tab sis dab tsi yog qhov kev puas siab puas ntsws ntau dua?

1. Qhov yuam kev yuav tsum tau lees paub. Vim tias ua tsaug rau qhov no, koj yuav tuaj yeem tswj hwm cov xwm txheej zoo sib xws, tam sim no thiab yav tom ntej.

2. 90% ntawm kev ua yuam kev tau rov ua dua vim lawv tshwm sim los ntawm tus cwj pwm thiab txoj kev xav. Txhawm rau tiv thaiv qhov no, koj yuav tsum nkag siab: tus cwj pwm dab tsi thiab kev xav ntawm lub hlwb coj mus rau qhov ua yuam kev, ua haujlwm dhau ntawm lawv thiab txhim kho koj tus kheej qhov koj xav tau.

Piv txwv li, koj tuaj lig. Muaj ob yam cwj pwm thiab tus cwj pwm. Koj xav tau kev mob siab rau thiab ua kom hloov tus cwj pwm no nrog "tuaj raws sijhawm", thiab yog li txoj kev ntawm lub neej yuav hloov. Txoj haujlwm no yuav tso cai rau koj kom tsis txhob ua yuam kev cuam tshuam nrog lub sijhawm qeeb thiab sijhawm ntxiv.

3. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog kom nkag siab: "qhov yuam kev tseem ceeb yog kev tu siab rau qhov ua yuam kev", kom ua rau lawv nyam. Nws yuav raug dua: "Muaj qhov ua yuam kev. Kuv tuaj yeem kho qhov no. Txhawm rau tiv thaiv nws tsis tshwm sim yav tom ntej, Kuv xav kawm paub yuav ua li cas. Thiab ua.

Piv txwv li, thaum lig dhau lawm.

Kuv tuaj lig vim tias kuv tau hla dhau. Kuv xav kawm kom sawv ntawm lub sijhawm kom kuv tuaj yeem tuaj raws sijhawm. Txog qhov no kuv xav tau lub zog, lub tswb nrov nrov, teeb tsa raug: "Kuv sawv ntawm lub sijhawm. Kuv tuaj raws sijhawm." thiab rov ua qhov kev ua no txhua tag kis. Nco tseg: nws yuav tsis yog txoj kev xav: "Kuv yuav tsum tsis txhob lig." Qhov tseeb dua: "Kuv yuav tsum kawm kom raws sijhawm" - vim tias "tsis txhob lig" - cov lus tsis meej, ntau yam sib txawv, thiab "tuaj raws sijhawm" - meej, yog li nws zoo dua.

Tus cwj pwm zoo sib xws tau tsim rau 21 hnub, tib qhov nyiaj tau tsau. Tom qab ntawv qhov no yog koj li kev mus ib txhis kom sawv los.

Tib yam yog nyob rau lwm qhov chaw.

Xyaum: dab tsi koj yuav qhia koj tus kheej kom kawm, muaj peev xwm los ntawm qhov ua yuam kev tsis ntev los no?

Painting los ntawm Alexei Chernigin "Mis".