Yuav Ua Li Cas Yog Tias Koj Tus Khub Yog Narcissist?

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Feem coob ntawm cov neeg ib txwm hu tib yam yog tib yam nkaus - raws li Gannushkin - ua rau tsis meej pem, qaug dab peg, muaj kev nyuaj siab, ua rau lub siab puas ntsws, ua rau lub siab ntau, ua cim.

Peb feem ntau ntsib lawv thiab ntau dua lossis tsawg dua paub yuav ua li cas nrog cov khoom no, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog tias lawv tau hais meej meej raws li tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus kheej, thiab tsis yog kev kuaj mob. Kev kuaj mob nyuaj dua, tab sis tseem yog lub tswv yim, feem ntau, yog li, raws li Dr. House tau hais, "Kuv tab tom ya - koj tuav tus tuav." Ntawd yog, los ntawm cov txheeb ze, txawm tias rau cov tib neeg muaj kev kuaj mob, nws yuav tsum tau hais txog tib yam - kev mob siab rau, kev khuv leej, kev sov siab thiab ua siab ntev ntau. Tus narcissist ua tus yam ntxwv - thiab raws li kev kuaj mob - yog qhov tsawg heev, vim rau qhov nws tsim ib qho xav tau xws li - zam txim rau kuv - cov niam txiv tsis muaj lub siab xav (feem ntau kuj yog narcissists) uas lawv tsawg. Yog li, neeg feem coob tsis tau npaj los sib tham nrog cov neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj thiab tsis paub yuav ua dab tsi thaum lawv muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv. Tsis muaj cov txheej txheem ua haujlwm, tus neeg raug mob hnyav heev. Thiab, feem ntau, xav tau phau ntawv qhia kev sib txuas lus nrog cov neeg zoo li no. Thiab cov kws kho paj hlwb sau ntawv vim feem ntau cov koom tes ntawm narcissists tuaj rau peb, smeared nrog txheej nyias ntawm phab ntsa, puas tag. Thiab, qhov tseeb, lub tswv yim tseem ceeb ntawm cov ntawv no rhais mus rau qhov tseeb tias yog tias koj tus khub yog tus neeg ncaj ncees, ces qhov no yog hais txog tib yam li koj tus khub yog cawv. Zoo dua tawm mus. Thiab nws zoo dua los tawm sai thiab tas mus li. Vim hais tias tus neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj muaj tus yam ntxwv tsis tau txhim kho, vim tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm muaj kev khuv leej, vim nws muaj kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj thiab lwm yam kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj, vim nws yuav tsis hlub koj cov menyuam ib txwm, vim nws yuav tsis hlub koj, vim nws tsis tuaj yeem muaj leej twg kev hlub, thiab los ntawm tas li thiab maj mam, zoo li cov menyuam asphalt, txhim kho, nws muaj peev xwm rhuav tshem tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus khub - thiab nws tus kheej cov menyuam rau lub tuam txhab. Thaum cov kws kho mob hlwb raug thuam tias peb ua phem rau narcissists nrog peb cov ntawv, Kuv rov ua rau txhua tus neeg - hais mav, ib qho ntawm kev dag ntawm kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yog tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm txheeb xyuas nws tus kheej li narcissist. Yog li ntawd, lawv tsis coj cov ntawv no tus kheej. So. Thiab cov neeg uas siv, feem ntau yog tsib xyoos hauv kev kho mob, thiab paub qhov sib txawv yog li cas los ntawm tam sim no thiab tam sim no. Tab sis cov lus ntawm cov ntawv no, feem ntau, yog qhov feem ntau yuav - yog tias koj tsis muaj hmoo tshwj xeeb - koj tus khub tsis yog neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, cov ntawv zoo li nquag thiab xav tau vim tias ntau, ntau nyob hauv Russia muaj kev raug mob narcissistic. Thiab qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb heev kom nkag siab - muaj tsawg tus narcissists, thiab muaj ntau qhov kev poob siab narcissistic. Vim tias peb muaj kev coj noj coj ua zoo heev ntawm kev txaj muag, qhia tswv yim thiab txo nqi. Tab sis qhov no txawv. Tus khub nrog kev raug mob narcissistic tuaj yeem ua phem heev nyob rau qee lub sijhawm, qee zaum nws xav tau kev zoo los ntawm koj, poob rau kev nyuaj siab vim tias nws tsis yog neeg nyiam tshaj, teeb lub hom phiaj tsis muaj tseeb rau nws tus kheej thiab tsis pom qhov tsis muaj peev txheej. Tab sis nws muaj txoj sia nyob. Nws muaj kev khuv leej, nws muaj peev xwm lees txais koj qhov mob thiab khuv xim nws, nws ntshai thaum nws pom tias nws ua phem rau koj thiab tsis xav ua qhov no txuas ntxiv mus, nws hlub nws cov menyuam thiab cov neeg hlub, thiab xav kom lawv muaj kev zoo siab, txawm tias lawv tsis zoo tag nrho … Nws paub yuav saib xyuas li cas, txawm tias tsis muaj leej twg saib nws, thiab nws paub yuav ua li cas pom lwm tus hauv lwm qhov. Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, nws muaj peev xwm hloov pauv tau. Tus narcissist hauv kev kho hloov maj mam thiab nyuaj heev uas nws siv sijhawm ntau xyoo thiab ntau xyoo. Ib qho ntxiv, txij li nws nyuaj rau nws tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo, nws tseem tsis tshua muaj peev xwm tiv taus nws - nws hloov kho ib tus tom qab lwm tus thiab tsis pom kev txhawb nqa txaus rau leej twg. Lwm tus neeg siv khoom, txawm tias ib tus nrog kev raug mob narcissistic, mus nrawm dua. Thiab yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev, tom qab nyeem cov ntawv "yuav ua li cas yog tias koj tus khub yog tus neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj" thiab tau kawm qee yam hauv koj tus khub, tsis txhob maj, muab sijhawm rau koj tus kheej tsawg kawg qee lub sijhawm los xyuas seb koj nrog leej twg. Vim tias kuv yuav tsis hais qhia cia siab tias koj yuav pom ib tus neeg hauv Russia yam tsis muaj teeb meem kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj.