2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46
Cov Menyuam Yaus HYSTERIC: CAUSES thiab METHODS NTAWV TUAG
Yog tias koj muaj menyuam, tej zaum koj yuav tau ntsib kev hloov pauv sai hauv koj tus menyuam txoj kev xav, uas thaum kawg tuaj yeem ua rau tsis tuaj yeem tswj tsis tau. Coob leej tsis paub yuav ua li cas rau qhov tshwm sim ntawm tus menyuam txoj kev xav. Wb xub xub txheeb xyuas seb hysteria yog dab tsi.
Hysterics - qhov no yog qhov ua rau muaj kev npau taws, npau taws, npau taws, npau taws. Nov yog kev sim ua kom tau txais kev ywj pheej. Nov yog yuav ua li cas menyuam thiaj tshaj tawm lawv tus kheej. Nov yog cov lus rau cov neeg laus thiab lub ntiaj teb ib puag ncig peb uas "Kuv yog" thiab thov kom ua tib zoo saib xyuas nws. Nyob rau hauv lub xeev ntawm kev npau taws, tus menyuam tuaj yeem tsoo, qw, tom, ntaus, khawb, quaj, poob rau hauv pem teb, muab cov khoom ua si, pov txhua yam ncig, ua rau nws tus kheej raug mob. Yog li, tus menyuam sim ua kom txaus siab rau nws cov kev xav tau thiab tshaj tawm nws "xav tau". Tom qab tag nrho, nws tseem tsis tuaj yeem ua lwm yam.
Dab tsi yog harbinger ntawm hysteria? Vim li cas lawv thiaj tshwm? Tej zaum yuav muaj ntau qhov laj thawj, thiab kuv thov kom nkag siab lawv.
- Lub cev tsis xis nyob - tus menyuam tseem tsis nkag siab lub cim ntawm nws lub cev. Tej zaum nws yuav ntsib qee yam kev mob lossis tsis xis nyob, tab sis nws tsis tuaj yeem lees paub thiab hais tawm nws, tab sis qhov no ua rau nws tsis muaj kev nplij siab thiab sib npaug.
- Tus menyuam ua haujlwm ntau dhau lossis nkees
Kev ua txhaum ntawm kev ua txhua hnub (tus menyuam tshaib plab, tsis tau pw thaum nruab hnub lossis xav pw)
- Tus menyuam tsis tuaj yeem qhia nws txoj kev xav hauv cov lus.… Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau qhia kom qhia lawv txoj kev xav los ntawm kev hais tawm lawv tas li.
Tus menyuam tsis tuaj yeem tau txais los ntawm cov laus raws li nws xav tau phem heev. Thaum tus menyuam hnov "tsis" los ntawm niam txiv, nws tawm tsam, npau taws thiab sim ua kom tiav qhov nws xav tau hauv txhua txoj kev.
- Lub cev nqaij daim tawv lossis lub hlwb ntawm tus menyuam ua ntej lossis tom qab muaj mob … Nco ntsoov koj tus kheej, thaum koj muaj mob, nyob rau lub sijhawm no koj xav thov txim, hnia, thiab feem ntau txawm tias cov neeg laus tuaj yeem ua tiav qhov no tsuas yog nrog kev pab los kua muag.
- Kev ua yeeb yam ntawm tus cwj pwm … Nws tuaj yeem yog kev hu xov tooj rau kev ywj pheej lossis kev tawm tsam tawm tsam kev coj noj coj ua zoo, thaum tus menyuam raug txwv los ntawm txhua yam thiab txhua qhov txhia chaw.
- Tus menyuam xav tau kev so lossis lub cev so … Thaum muaj ntau txoj kev xav thiab kev xav, lawv yuav tsum tau "muab pov tseg" kom nws tsis nyuaj thiab mob heev.
- Thaum tsis muaj kev pom zoo hauv tsev neeg … Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau tus menyuam kom paub thiab nkag siab txog yam nws tuaj yeem ua thiab tsis tuaj yeem ua. Thiab thaum cov neeg laus hauv tsev neeg tsis tuaj yeem pom zoo ntawm ib kab ntawm kev coj thiab coj tus cwj pwm, tus menyuam pib ua phem, thiab tom qab ntawd ua rau cov neeg laus. Cov menyuam nkag siab meej heev tias qee tus txheeb ze tso cai rau lawv ntau dua li lwm tus. Thiab tus menyuam pib nquag siv qhov no, thov rau yam nws xav tau.
- Kev tsis txaus siab ntawm cov neeg laus … Kev saib xyuas yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau tus menyuam, thiab nws xav tau nws ntau. Thaum nws tau txais tsawg dua los ntawm cov neeg laus, nws pib ua neeg muaj peev xwm.
- Cov neeg laus sim cuam tshuam lossis cuam tshuam tus menyuam ntawm kev ua si … Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau cov menyuam yuav tsum tau muab sijhawm los ua kom tiav. Txwv tsis pub, tus me nyuam muaj qhov kev xav tias nws raug tshem tawm ntawm qhov kev ua si zoo siab.
YUAV UA LI CAS THAUM HYSTERICA tsis pib
Muab cov kev cai nruj nrog kev yoog raws
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas koj muaj cov cai xws li "phab ntsa cib" uas yuav tsis tawg nyob rau txhua qhov xwm txheej. Raws li txoj cai, qhov no yog qee yam uas tuaj yeem tsim kev puas tsuaj rau tus menyuam lossis ua rau muaj kev phom sij rau lub neej: tsis txhob nce mus rau hauv lub qhov hluav taws xob, tsis txhob hla ib txoj kev, tsis txhob nqa riam, tsis txhob mus rau hluav taws, thiab lwm yam. lwm qhov xwm txheej, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom yoog raws thiab tso cai rau menyuam yaus muaj kev ywj pheej. Piv txwv li, thaum nws tus kheej xav khi nws cov khau lossis xaiv cov khaub ncaws twg los hnav. Nws yog qhov xav tau uas rau ib qho "tsis muaj" muaj tsawg kawg tsib "yog". Yog tus menyuam tsis xav ua raws txoj cai hauv ib txoj kev twg, muab nws rau lwm txoj hauv kev. "Qhov no tsis raug tso cai, tab sis qhov no thiab qhov no tuaj yeem ua tau"
Muab koj tus menyuam xaiv
Qhov no tseem ceeb heev rau kev tsim hauv tus menyuam ntawm kev ywj pheej hauv kev txiav txim siab thiab tus nqi ntawm nws tus kheej kev xav thiab kev xav. Nws yuav ua rau koj yooj yim dua los muab koj tus menyuam "xaiv yam tsis xaiv". Piv txwv li: "Koj puas yuav hnav lossis hnav khaub ncaws?", "Koj puas yuav ntxuav koj txhais taw lossis nqa koj?"
Qhia koj tus menyuam txoj kev xav
Piv txwv li, "Koj npau taws uas peb yuav tsum tau tawm ntawm qhov chaw!", "Koj tau npau taws uas koj tsis tau txais khoom ua si tshiab!" Qhov no yuav cia tus menyuam tham txog nws txoj kev xav thiab paub txog lawv.
THAUM HYSTERIC YOG DABTSI
Nyob ruaj khov
Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau yws yws rau qhov chaw muaj neeg coob. Tom qab ntawd cov niam txiv poob lawv txoj kev xav thiab kev ua niam txiv ruaj khov. Lawv ntshai kev txiav txim siab ntawm lwm tus, poob rau kev ua txhaum thiab txaj muag. Hauv lub xeev no, lawv tsis tuaj yeem ua kom txaus thiab feem ntau qw rau tus menyuam lossis txawm tias raug ntaus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob poob siab rau cov kev xav no thiab tsis mob siab rau cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig koj, tab sis ua raws koj tus kheej nyiam nrog saib xyuas tus menyuam.
Ua ib lub taub ntim rau koj tus menyuam txoj kev xav
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau menyuam thaum lub sijhawm npau taws. Thaum nws tau ntsib nrog qhov tseeb tias nws tsis tuaj yeem tau txais yam nws xav tau, nws npau taws heev thiab nws tus kheej tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog kev xav ntxiv lawm. Yog tias niam tseem hais tias "tsis yog" lossis tos ntsiag to kom txog thaum kev mob siab dhau lawm, nws cuam nws ib leeg nrog nws txoj kev xav, uas yog qhov ua rau mob heev. Niam tus cwj pwm no ua rau tus menyuam ntshai heev. Yog tias niam lees txais nws txoj kev npau taws thiab poob siab, sawv ntawm nws txoj kev ntxub, nws yuav sai sai thiab nplij siab.
Coj koj tus menyuam hauv koj txhais tes lossis khawm
Yog tias kev npau taws pib hauv qhov chaw muaj neeg coob, puag tus menyuam thiab coj nws mus rau lwm qhov. Rau tus menyuam hauv lub sijhawm npau taws, kev sib cuag ntawm lub cev yog qhov tseem ceeb heev kom nws tuaj yeem hnov qhov ciam teb ntawm nws lub cev. Yog tias kev npau taws pib hauv tsev, koj tuaj yeem qhwv tus menyuam hauv daim pam thiab khawm. Muab nws ua pa, muab dej rau nws haus. Txij ntawm no mus, tus menyuam xav tau thaj tsam thiab tus neeg laus los tsim cov ciam teb no.
Tawm tus neeg ua yeeb yam yam tsis muaj neeg saib
Feem ntau tus me nyuam ua si hauv zej zog thiab cuam tshuam kev npau taws hauv qhov chaw pej xeem. Nws tsim nyog coj tus menyuam tawm ntawm lub khw, coj nws mus rau lwm chav thiab ua rau nws tsis pom cov neeg tuaj saib. Tom qab ntawd qhov kev npau taws sai sai, vim tias tsis muaj leej twg quaj rau.
Muab qhov hloov pauv tsim nyog
Piv txwv li, tam sim no peb tsis tuaj yeem yuav lub dav hlau no vim tias tsis muaj nyiaj, tab sis peb tuaj yeem rov los tsev thiab ua nws tawm ntawm ntawv lossis yas. Kev sib koom tes tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev nyiam ntau dua li cov khoom ua si los ntawm lub khw.
Lub rooj zaum Capricious
Yog tias muaj kev npau taws tshwm sim hauv tsev, muab tus menyuam tso rau ntawm lub rooj zaum nrog cov lus: "Yog tias koj xav ua neeg muaj peev xwm, ua lub siab tawv hauv lub rooj zaum no! Thiab thaum koj tsum tsis txhob quaj, rov qab los thiab peb yuav ua si ua ke. " Yog li, tus menyuam yuav nkag siab tias nws tsis tuaj yeem cuam tshuam nrog niam txiv nrog nws lub ntsej muag thiab kua muag.
Lub suab
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum hais lus nyob ntsiag to thiab nyob ntsiag to thaum muaj kev npau taws. Nws yog qhov yooj yim dua rau tus menyuam kom hnov lub suab timbre thiab nkag siab tias nws muaj peev xwm cia siab rau koj. Hais tias: "Kuv nyob ze, kuv hlub koj, kuv yuav lees txais koj"
Cov lus
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom qhia meej rau tus menyuam tias koj yuav tsis tso nws ib leeg nrog kev nyuaj siab thiab yuav pab nws kom tau txais yam nws xav tau. Nco ntsoov qhia rau koj tus menyuam: “Thaum koj quaj thiab quaj, kuv tsis nkag siab thiab hnov koj. Hais twj ywm thiab kuv tuaj yeem pab koj."
YUAV UA LI CAS THIAJ tsis ua phem
Tsis quav ntsej
Tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej twg yuav tsum tsis quav ntsej tus menyuam txoj kev xav, txwv tsis pub nws yuav muaj kev xav ntawm kev tsis lees paub, tsis muaj txiaj ntsig thiab tsis muaj nqis.
Dag
Koj tsis tuaj yeem hais ib yam thiab ua lwm yam. Piv txwv li, leej niam cog lus tom qab tus menyuam ua siab mos siab muag yuav lub tshuab ntaus ntawv thiab tsis ua. Tab sis tus me nyuam tos, cia siab thiab ua kom tsis txaus ntseeg kom nqig thiab tau txais yam nws xav tau.
Hloov siab mloog
Yog lawm, lub tswv yim "Auj, saib, tus noog ya mus" tuaj yeem nres qhov kev npau taws, tab sis txoj kev no cuam tshuam tus menyuam los ntawm kev xav thiab tsis tso cai rau nws ntsib lawv. Thiab tus menyuam muaj qhov kev xav tias nws tsis nkag siab thiab lees paub.
Nkag siab
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum nyob ruaj khov thiab tsis txhob ua kom tsis txhob npau taws. Yog tias koj qhia koj tus menyuam tias koj tsis tuaj yeem noj tsib qab zib ib zaug, thiab tom qab ntawd ua raws nws qhov kev yaum thiab tso cai rau koj noj ob peb leeg ntxiv, tom qab ntawd tus menyuam nkag siab tias koj tuaj yeem siv thiab tau txais yam koj xav tau ntau dua li ib txwm.
Yog li, muaj ntau yam xwm txheej uas cuam tshuam rau qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev mob siab ntsws, uas niam txiv yuav tsum tau tshawb pom, nkag siab thiab lees paub. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, hauv kuv lub tswv yim, thaum npau taws yog kom nyob nrog menyuam yaus - tsis txhob tsis quav ntsej, hais lus nws txoj kev xav, puag thiab tsis txhob cia lawv tus kheej raug mob. Daim duab ntawm tus neeg laus yog qhov xav tau tshwj xeeb thaum muaj tus mob hysteria. Ib tus neeg laus tso cai rau tus menyuam hnov nws thaj tsam, nkag siab, lees paub thiab hnov, tsis txhob nyob ib leeg nrog kev xav tsis nkag siab. Yog tias niam txiv tau hloov pauv, ruaj khov, nkag siab thiab lees paub tus menyuam txoj kev xav, kev npau taws yuav dhau mus yooj yim dua lossis ploj tag nrho.
Pom zoo:
Kev Hlub Thiab Kev Sib Deev Nrog Tus Poj Niam Narcissistic. Cov Lus Qhia Rau Txiv Neej - Nyiam Kev Cai Thiab Txheej Txheem Txheej Txheem
Tus poj niam no nyuaj heev rau tus txiv neej zoo tib yam. Tsis muaj nyiaj, xwm txheej thiab lub siab xav, tsis txhob sim. Nws hwm nws tus kheej heev thiab devalues nws tus kheej ua phem. Nws yuav ua tib cov txheej txheem hais txog cov txheej txheem cuam tshuam nrog koj sai dua lossis tom qab.
Npau Taws, Npau Taws, Npau Taws Thiab Kua Zaub Ntsuab. Cov Niam Txiv Tau Txais Lawv Qhov Tsis Zoo Los Ntawm Qhov Twg?
Kev npau taws yog ib qho tseem ceeb, uas yog, kev xav tsis zoo, qhov tseem ceeb ntawm qhov uas yog, ua ntej, los qhia tias kuv ib puag ncig yog qee yam tsis yog ua txhaum nkaus xwb, tab sis ua txhaum hnyav, thiab, thib ob, los tawm tsam qhov kev nkag no.
Yuav Ua Li Cas Kuv Thiaj Tsis Tsoo Tag Nrho Lub Ntiaj Teb? Lossis Cia Tham Txog Kev Thab Plaub, Npau Taws, Npau Taws Thiab Npau Taws
Kev npau taws xav li cas thiab yuav ua li cas nrog nws? Lub ntsej muag ntawm kev npau taws yog qhov loj heev - ua ntej peb xav tias tsis txaus siab, tom qab ntawd khaus, tom qab ntawd npau taws, tom qab ntawd npau taws thiab npau taws heev.
Los Ntawm Kev Npau Taws Thiab Kev Ntxub Ntxaug Mus Rau Kev Npau Taws, Npau Taws Thiab Npau Taws
Sab nrauv, npau taws heev yog qhov cuam tshuam zoo heev, kev soj ntsuam ntawm qhov tshwm sim uas ua rau muaj kev npau suav ntawm nws qhov kev puas tsuaj rau cov neeg koom nrog hauv kev sib cuag. Txawm li cas los xij, npau taws ua haujlwm ua haujlwm kom tau txais yam koj xav tau hauv kev sib raug zoo.
Txheej Txheem Txheej Txheem. Thaiv - Kev Sib Raug Zoo Thiab Kev Tsis Sib Haum Xeeb (tus Khub, Tsev Neeg, Menyuam Yaus, Cov Npoj Yaig)
Txheej txheem txheej txheem. Thaiv - Kev sib raug zoo thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb (tus khub, tsev neeg, menyuam yaus, cov npoj yaig) Qhov no yog ib feem ntawm tsev neeg lub hnub qub. Dab tsi tseem ceeb? - Xav hloov pauv koj lub neej zoo hauv kev sib raug zoo - Npaj rau qhov kev tshawb pom tshiab, ua tiav thiab hloov pauv hauv koj lub neej.
