2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-08-08 14:21
- Tsis tu ncua "Kuv tsis xav tau, kuv yuav tsis". Pov thawj tias tus me nyuam muaj siab xav. Qhia: Koj tuaj yeem muab koj tus menyuam xaiv yam tsis xaiv: koj puas yuav txiv tsawb lossis txiv pear? lub tsho twg koj yuav hnav xiav lossis daj? Nov yog nws lub siab xav, nws tus kheej xaiv, thiab tsis yuam nws. Yog li, tus menyuam yuav hnov nws tus kheej qhov tseem ceeb thiab nws lub tswv yim raug coj mus rau hauv tus account.
- "Nws ua tiav txhua yam nrog kua muag, xav tsis thoob rau ib qho laj thawj twg, yog capricious" … Nug koj tus kheej cov lus nug: kuv puas hnov nws, kuv puas nkag siab thaum nws thov qee yam yam tsis muaj kua muag? Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau menyuam yaus, zoo li cov neeg laus, tiv thaiv lawv cov ciam teb, tiv thaiv lawv cov kev nyiam. Qee zaum, cov neeg laus tsuas hnov nws thaum nws qw lossis quaj. Qhia: Tsis txhob txwv kev quaj! Txij li thaum nws quaj, muaj qhov laj thawj, hnia, puag, ua kom siab nqig. Ua kom pom tseeb tias tam sim no koj hlub nws. Tom qab ntawd maj mam nug: nws xav tau dab tsi?
- "Nws ua tiav nws lub hom phiaj nrog cov tsiaj qus, thawb lub ntsej muag, thiab npaj kev tawm tsam rov qab los." Yog li, tus menyuam tshuaj xyuas qhov txwv ntawm yam uas tau tso cai, sim siv. Qhia: Yog tias koj txiav txim siab NO, tom qab ntawd lub tuam txhab NO. Nws muaj nqis ib zaug kom ua raws tus menyuam txoj kev coj thiab, hauv kev teb rau nws cov lus thuam los yog dag, muab qhov xav tau, qhov no yuav yog tus cwj pwm tsis tu ncua. Nws yuav paub - tias qhov no yog txoj hauv kev kom ua tiav qhov nws xav tau. Tab sis, yog tias nws paub tias hauv txoj kev no nws yuav tsis ua tiav nws lub hom phiaj, tus cwj pwm no yuav tsis rov ua dua.
- "Lo lus CANNOT tsis nkag siab, categorically tsis lees txais ib qho CANNOT" … Qhov tseeb, menyuam yaus feem ntau ua tsis zoo rau kev txwv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau lo lus TSIS YOG. Muab koj tus kheej tso rau hauv tus menyuam lub khau yog tias peb tsis tuaj yeem tham txhua lub sijhawm? nws xav li cas? Qhia: Yuav tsum muaj qee qhov kev txwv, tsuas yog cov uas TSIS YOG tiag tiag (kov lub qhov cub, tsoo niam rau ntawm lub ntsej muag). Tab sis cov kev txwv no yuav tsum muaj mus tas li thiab tsis raug tshem tawm, txawm tias yog kev zam. Yog tias koj txwv qee yam, nco ntsoov piav qhia vim li cas nws TSIS MUAJ? Daim ntawv ceeb toom hauv lub suab twg koj hais lo lus no? Tus menyuam yuav tau siv cov kev txwv no, lawv tsim nyog, nkag siab rau nws. Hauv lwm qhov xwm txheej, hloov lo lus TSIS TXHOB nrog lwm tus, piv txwv li, DANGER. Thiab siv cov txiaj ntsig zoo ntau dua. Piv txwv li, kua txiv tau poob rau hauv av, tus menyuam xav khaws nws thiab noj nws. hloov CANNOT APPLE - noj txiv tsawb, kua txiv qias neeg.
- "Lawv nyob hauv lawv txhais tes dua." Thaum muaj hnub nyoog 1 xyoos, tus menyuam sib cais los ntawm niam, pib txav ntawm nws tus kheej, tom qab ntawd nws tsis nyiam sib cais, vim tias leej niam tuaj yeem tawm mus, yog li lawv nyob hauv lawv txhais tes. Qhia: Nug koj tus kheej cov lus nug? Kuv puas ua tib zoo mloog tus menyuam? Kev mloog yuav tsum yog qhov zoo! Koj tuaj yeem nyob nrog koj tus menyuam txhua hnub, tab sis tib lub sijhawm - xov tooj, internet, TV - thiab tsis muaj kev mloog zoo rau tus menyuam. Puas yog lub cev tiv tauj txaus? Hug tus menyuam, tsiaj, nyiam. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav paub tseeb tias nws niam nyob ntawd, thiab yuav tsis xav tuav nws ib zaug ntxiv, dai nws txhais tes.
- "Koj yuav tsum ua txhua yam koj tus kheej: hnav koj nkawm khau, hnav khaub ncaws. Txhua qhov kev sim pab yog nrog qhov tsis zoo. " Lub sijhawm zoo los txhim kho kev ywj pheej ntawm koj tus menyuam! Qhia: Txhawb txhua qhov kev sim ua qee yam koj tus kheej thiab qhuas! Nco ntsoov nug seb koj puas tuaj yeem pab nws. Txhawm rau kom tsis txhob maj tus menyuam, pib npaj rau kev taug kev me ntsis ua ntej, piv txwv. Cov kauj ruam tom ntej ntawm kev loj hlob yog thaum tus menyuam paub tias nws tiv tsis tau thiab thov kev pab nws tus kheej. Tam sim no peb tsuas yog pab thaum nws nug nws. Sim ua txhua yam rau tus menyuam, peb ua rau nws tsis raug cai. Ua ntej, peb qhia tias lawv yuav ua txhua yam rau nws (nws yuav zoo li cas rau nws hauv qib pib?). Qhov thib ob, peb qhia tias nws tsis tuaj yeem tiv nws tus kheej, tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm.
- "Pib ua neeg siab hlob." Tus menyuam pib nkag siab tias muaj lwm tus thiab muaj kuv li. Thiab nws, zoo li txhua tus neeg laus, tsis ib txwm xav muab nws tus kheej. Qhia: Nws yog nyob ntawm tus menyuam los txiav txim siab tias yuav faib lossis tsis koom. Nov yog nws cov khoom, khoom ua si, nws yog lawv tus tswv. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub tsis txhob tso siab rau nws thiab tsis txhob txaj muag. Yog tias koj txiav txim siab qhia tawm, nco ntsoov qhuas. Yog tias lawv koom nrog nws, thov nco ntsoov tias tus menyuam tau faib cov khoom ua si nrog nws, nws zoo li cas thiab zoo siab heev.
- "Tau dhau mus tas li: tsis muaj panama thiab yuav tsis mus kev taug kev, nrhiav rau panama thiab qhov ntawd yog nws" … Rau cov menyuam yaus, kev sib xws hauv txhua yam los ntawm kev coj ua mus rau khaub ncaws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev. Qhia: me nyuam yaus pom tias muaj kev hloov pauv li cas uas yuav ua rau muaj kev phom sij. Lub ntiaj teb tsis ruaj khov = lub ntiaj teb tsis nyab xeeb. Sim sawv ntawm tus menyuam qhov chaw, nkag siab nws, qhov no yuav pab koj kom muaj sia nyob cov no, zoo li nws qee zaum zoo li, xav tsis thoob (Kuv muab lub khob tsis raug, tso lub rooj zaum tsis raug qhov chaw …)
- Ua nruj ua tsiv. Kev ua phem rau menyuam yaus tsuas yog tsim los teb rau tus neeg laus ua phem. Puas muaj kev ua phem rau hauv koj tus cwj pwm? Lossis tej zaum tus menyuam tsuas yog koj qhov kev xav - saib sab hauv koj tus kheej, puas muaj qhov zais ntawm kev ua phem phem - koj npau taws nrog leej twg? rau dab tsi? Qhia: Tsis txhob nyob hauv ib qho xwm txheej twg txwv tsis pub tus menyuam los ntawm kev ua phem, tsis txhob thuam lossis txaj muag nws rau cov kev xav no! Tham nrog nws, hu lub siab ib lo lus (koj npau taws tam sim no). Ua ntej, tus menyuam yuav tsis ntshai tias muaj qee yam tsis raug rau nws, tias nws tsis zoo li txhua tus neeg. Qhov thib ob, nws yuav paub tias nws niam nkag siab nws, thiab yuav muaj kev ntseeg ntau ntxiv hauv nws niam. Kos kev npau taws lossis kos nws los ntawm plasticine, ua las voos, pov pob rau ntawm phab ntsa, uas yog, pab tus menyuam pov qhov kev xav tsis zoo kom lawv tsis nyob sab hauv, qhov no tseem ceeb heev. Ib ce ib ntus los qhia koj qhov kev ua phem (koj tuaj yeem qw hauv hav zoov lossis tsoo lub rooj zaum nrog phuam ntub).
Pom zoo:
Dab Tsi Yog Qhov Teeb Meem Nrog Kuv? Cov Cim Ntawm Teeb Meem Lossis Tsuas Yog Xwm Txheej?
Peb cov kev paub thiab kev paub qee zaum nyuaj thiab kim rau peb. Yuav mus qhov twg yog qee yam cuam tshuam, tab sis nws tsis nkag siab kiag li nws yog dab tsi? Kuv nco tau li cas thaum cev xeeb tub kuv tau qhia rau txhua tus paub txog qhov txawv txav hauv lub cev, thiab sim piav qhia nws hauv qee qhov tsis meej pem, tsawg kawg qee yam, vim nws yog thawj zaug kuv tau ntsib nws.
Txiv-menyuam Kev Sib Raug Zoo Ntawm Niam Txiv Sib Nrauj. Niam Muaj Lub Luag Haujlwm Dab Tsi?
Thaum niam txiv tau sib nrauj, tus menyuam feem ntau nyob nrog niam. Tib neeg tsis tuaj yeem sawv ib leeg. Tsis yog, tsis muaj leej twg maj nrawm los pab niam - "kev khuv leej" sim qhia rau tus poj niam uas xav kawm kom ua neej sib txawv, lawv xav li cas nws yuav tsum nyob, nws yuav liam dab tsi, nws yuav tsum ua dab tsi.
YUAV UA LI CAS YUAV MUAJ MUAJ MUAJ MUAJ MUAJ MUAJ MUAJ MUAJ MUAJ MOB MUAJ MOB? Thiab Nws Puas Tsim Nyog Nws?
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los txiav txim siab qhov koj xav tau - txiv neej lossis nyiaj? Qhov tseeb, koj xav tau dab tsi ntxiv? Koj puas xav tau tus txiv neej nyob hauv tsev, leej txiv ntawm koj cov menyuam yav tom ntej, tus hlub ntxim nyiam, phooj ywg zoo lossis miv nyob ntawm koj lub ris?
Cov Niam Txiv Yuav Tsum Paub Dab Tsi Thiab Yuav Ua Li Cas Yog Tias Lawv Tus Menyuam Yog Gay, Poj Niam Nyiam Poj Niam, Lossis Txiv Neej Nyiam Poj Niam?
Kuv xav tias kuv tus menyuam yog gay / lesbian, kuv yuav ua licas? Feem ntau, yog tias tus menyuam tsis qhia koj txog nws qhov kev taw qhia, tom qab ntawd nws tsis npaj los qhia cov ntaub ntawv no nrog koj, yog li koj yuav tsum tsis txhob nug nws lossis sim nrhiav hauv txoj kev puag ncig (piv txwv li, khawb rau hauv yam khoom lossis keeb kwm ntawm kev thov hauv Is Taws Nem).
Teeb Meem Txij Nkawm Tom Qab Yug Menyuam, Lossis Vim Li Cas Coob Leej Niam Txiv Thiaj Li Tsis Mus Txog Lawv Thawj Xyoo Ntawm Kev Ua Niam Txiv?
Kev sib nrauj tom qab yug tus menyuam thawj zaug yog tus qauv uas haum nyob hauv peb haiv neeg. Raws li kev txheeb cais, feem ntau kev sib yuav tau tawg hauv thawj plaub xyoos tom qab sau npe sib yuav, nrog rau thawj xyoo ntawm kev ua niam txiv.
