Puas Yog Peb Raug Qhia Kom Hlub Peb Tus Kheej?

2024 Tus sau: Harry Day | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 15:46

Puas yog peb raug qhia kom hlub peb tus kheej?

Coob leej yuav hais tias tsis yog. Ib tug neeg yuav xav txog kev qia dub, uas ib txwm muaj thiab tsis muaj dab tsi ua nrog kev hlub tus kheej.

Kuv ntsib neeg, thiab raws li lawv lub neej nws nyuaj hais qhov twg "kev kawm" ntawm kev hlub rau tus kheej tau ua txhaum. Ntawm qhov chaw, lawv muaj cov tswv yim zoo: hlub, saib xyuas, thiab txhawb nqa niam txiv; zoo heev tsos; hwm lwm tus neeg; ib qho kev lees paub txog kev tsim nyog. Feem ntau, dab tsi feem ntau cov neeg tsis muaj kev nkag siab ntawm lawv tus nqi. Tab sis qee yam, qee qhov mus tsis raug, thiab lub sijhawm tam sim no, tawm ntawm kev hlub rau lawv tus kheej, lawv yuav tsum tau ua qee yam ua, lawv tsis nco qab txog lawv tus kheej.

Dab tsi ua rau lawv?

Peb tau tsim kev ntseeg cuav thaum lawv hais tias:

• Yog tias koj noj 2 diav ntawm porridge, niam yuav zoo siab heev. Koj yuav loj hlob zoo.
• Qhia tias koj yog tus tub zoo, tso koj cov khoom ua si cia.
• Yog tias koj hlub kuv thiab xav ua kom kuv zoo, ntxuav cov plag tsev.
• Yog koj kawm ntawv tiav, peb yuav muab tsheb kauj vab rau koj.
• Yog tias koj kawm tau zoo kawg, ces koj yuav tau txais kev hwm thiab cov menyuam yuav yog phooj ywg nrog koj.
• Yog tias koj tau txais kev kawm qib siab, koj yuav tau txais txoj haujlwm zoo nrog cov nyiaj hli siab.
• Yog tias koj xav txog lwm tus, koj yuav tsis qia dub, txhua tus yuav xav nrog koj tham.

Muaj ntau nqe lus zoo ib yam li muaj tsev neeg thiab menyuam nyob hauv lawv. Kuv xav tias txhua tus yuav nco lawv "yog - kab lus." Thov qhia lawv hauv cov lus.

Cov kab hauv qab yog cov nqe lus no yog cov lus qhia rau yav tom ntej. Cov menyuam yaus pib ua neej nyob yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim thaum lawv ua tiav cov xwm txheej. Tom qab ua tiav lub hom phiaj, cov menyuam tau txais ib feem ntawm kev hlub thiab kev lees paub. Lawv tsis tau qhia kom hlub lawv tus kheej ntawm no thiab tam sim no.

Raws li qhov tshwm sim, peb kawm ua qee yam txhawm rau txhawm rau …

Yog li, peb tsim cov kev ntseeg hauv qab no:

Yuav kom tsim nyog tau txais kev hlub, tus xwm txheej "Kuv zoo", qhuas thiab lees paub, thiab feem ntau nkag siab tias kuv yog thiab qhov no twb yog qhov zoo siab rau kuv niam kuv txiv, tus kws qhia ntawv, phooj ywg, hlub thiab menyuam, peb yuav tsum ua pov thawj nws nrog qee yam.

Yog li ntawd, nws nyuaj rau koj hlub koj tus kheej yam tsis muaj qhov tseeb tias "Kuv yog ib tus phooj ywg zoo, kuv tau noj zoo," thiab kom zoo siab tam sim no, lub sijhawm no (uas yog lub neej tiag). Nov yog qhov pib ntawm thawj qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev tsis nyiam, Kuv tsis tsim nyog, Kuv tsis muaj nqis txaus, thiab lwm yam. Nws kuj tseem pib nrog qhov tseeb tias peb hloov peb txoj kev hlub ntawm peb tus kheej mus rau lwm tus txhais tes. Txij li cov lus tawm tswv yim, kev thuam, kev lees paub, kev qhuas ntawm cov neeg tseem ceeb rau peb ntxiv dag zog lossis ua rau peb tsis pom kev.

Yuav ua li cas txhawb tus menyuam thiab tus neeg kom nqis tes ua? Sib tham qhov tseem ceeb. Yog, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom kawm tau zoo, nws pab hauv kev ua haujlwm, tab sis nws tsis tau lees tias ua haujlwm tau zoo. Tom qab tag nrho, qhov txaus ntshai tshaj plaws txog kev ntseeg cuav yog qhov tseeb tias thaum tib neeg mus txog lub hom phiaj, nws tsis tas yuav tau txais yam nws tau cog lus tseg. Nws sim hnyav dua, tab sis tsis muaj qhov tso pa tawm. Thiab muaj ntau qhov piv txwv ntawm qhov no. Nws yog qhov txaus kom nco txog "cov tub thiab ntxhais zoo", txog cov menyuam ua piv txwv, txog cov neeg ua haujlwm mob siab rau, hais txog cov tub ntxhais kawm zoo (lawv tsis yog txhua txoj haujlwm zoo uas tau txais nyiaj hli siab).

Nws hloov tawm tias niam txiv thiab kws qhia ntawv tau dag? Tab sis li cas txog tam sim no?

1. Lawv tsis dag, tab sis sim txhawb.
2. Kawm paub hlub koj tus kheej, tsis hais koj li kev ua thiab kev ua. Koj yog lub cuab tam tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv koj lub neej.